Hi girls, thought i would just pop in to wish u all the best on your 2ww's, this time next month i'll be on that 2ww wait, so just reading all this in preparation. Good Luck.....
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
Traci - you have a very very special cycle buddy in Debra - I'm sure you are kindred spirits. Debra has said what I would say, only far more eloquently so I echo her support to you. I know we are both at different stages in our cycles but I know how all consuming negative thoughts can be. Try and scrape together a few more days of positive visualisation to give your wee embie the absolute best fighting chance. Fingers crossed for Tuesday Traci. THinking of you.
tracii hang in there.
and why would you have to wait for august.
couldnt you start next month?
but i never felt nothing i even bled and took a hpt and it came back -
almost stoped my meds but the doc told me not to and to come in. and they did a scan and i was pregnant with twins..
so here is soem luck thrown at you and lots of baby dust
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Hi Guys - thanks for all the support..I am trying to remain somewhat optimistic...I keep thinking maybe the lab made a typo or they told me the info from the wrong date...who knows...but on the phone the clinic said HCG is very low and doesn't look good but come in Tuesday anyway...'...doesn't sound very promising....plus boobs don't hurt anymore and are not as 'full' feeling...
I was under the impression you would have to wait 3 months prior to starting the next cycle..is this true?
Just popped in to wish all you 2ww GOOD LUCK
Hang on in there ..... and don't do those hpt's until you are meant to .
There is no point doing them early.
Will be checking on you all week and getting ready to post my congratulations and to see all those BFP's.
Lots of Luck and Best Wishes
Sophie-J
Me 33 dp 30
me tubal damage
ist ivf Feb04 -ive
fet July04 -ive
ivf Nov04 +ive twins, but sadly one twin died at 10 weeks gestation. Freya born 21st July 2005. She's amazing!
Hi Tracii - Yes, the majority of clinics specificy a break between cycles, to allow the body to rid itself of the meds etc. My hospital insists on 3 AFs.
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
I fully expect AF today. This feeling is too strong to be anything else. My lower abdomen feels full and heavy which is my usual pre-AF feeling. I can also contribute my extreme bad mood with DF on Friday to pms.
Of course I have to wait and see and yes there is a chance it's something else, but DF and I now expect the worst. Which is how I'd prefer it, I've been much more upset about our earlier -ve results when they've been a shock.
Hugs to everyone else. Tracii honey, all's not lost just a few more days - funny how advice is good for everyone else but not ourselves
Debra .. I so hope you're wrong. As you say to Tracii, we just don't heed our own advice. Still take it real easy today as you just don't know for certain. Bear in mind your body's been through tons over the past few weeks, and is real messed up. I'll wait for your news later saying that the feeling's passed.
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Debra - think positive as well!!! DH is joking that prior to voting for the next pope in the canclave..first they will vote on his sainthood ...I have been very bossy, snappy and no patience!
Seriously - let's think positive thoughts today...whenever we start thiking negative push it out of our minds. I'll try if you try....