December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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Post by tcbalgord »

Jemma honey so sorry to hear about SIL. Cancer is such a ***** and I wish they would hurry and for a cure for all the types so people wouldn't have to suffer anymore. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tex sweetie I have a tip for your prenats and the gagging as I have the same issue w/ regular multi-vits. My SIL told me to take them right after dinner. Then your stomach is full and the vits won't be a prob. I thought she was crazy at first but it really works. I don't gag and I don't throw em up anymore.

Carolyn I am praying for your BFP today, good luck!

Ange good luck with the ET today. Come on embies snuggle in for mommy.

Sax welcome to the best place on earth! We are glad to be your laughing buddy,feel free to use our shoulders to cry on, our ears to yell and scream/vent into, and we are happy to be a sounding board for questions and concerns. Best of luck to you.

As for me I have a question for you ladies. Do you know if DH has to be at the injection class? I will be calling my clinic later today, but I am hoping you can lift my fear. DH told me this morning that he doesn't want to go tomorrow and that I should put it off for another week or until January. My heart felt like it broke, if I wait another week then I won't get my meds in time to start on the 24th. And if I wait til January then I have been taking these stupid BCP for nothing. I am praying that I can just go alone, or maybe just take someone else with me. DH already knows how to give all types of shots because of his military training.
Any info you ladies have would be so helpful. Thank you in advance.
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Post by JackieG »

Hi Christine,

Im sorry your DH is acting that way. Im sure he has some anxiety just like we do when we start a cycle.

My DH did not go to the shot training. I just came home and showed him how to do it. He leanred really fast and he is the best now!!!

Good luck to you. I hope everything goes well. This will be my 4th cycle and I can give myself the progesterone shots if I need to now. It just takes a lot of concentration and your done!! So you will be fine. My DH doesnt like when give myself shots because he wants to be part of it.


Let me know how everything goes.

Big Hugs,
Jackie
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Thanks Jackie. I think he is worried about his job because he was off all last week. Still I told him that they would give him a discrete note. Anyways, thanks, I feel a little better.
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Post by gbnut »

Christine

At my clinic we did not have aclass. On the day that i got my drugs i was shown what to do. I then told my d/h. this was the same at my previous clinic as well. So you should be ok to go on your own tomorrow. Best of luck. Your D/h will come round it is stressfull for them to.

Susan x
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Post by Haylie »

jemma - am so sorry to hear about your SIL, that is really awful, it is a horrible disease!

bec- 10 embies! Is fantastic well done! Good luck tomorrow will be thinking of you.

Carolyn - howa re you doing? Am keeping everything crossed for you

Susan - sorry AF is giving you such a hard time, mine is not being nice either! I can't waiti until we get to havea break for 9 months one day!

Sonya- as the others have said 4 is still a good number and many miracles can come from 4 eggs!

Rachel - has af arrived yet? Are you going anywhere nice to DH's doo?

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Post by CarolynB »

My Dear Dec-Jan Pals

Thanks you all the support. You have been great.

As expected, it is another BFN for me. Just took the call from the clinic. Have spoken to dh and my Mum. Neither were easy calls but helped as everyone was prepared for what I had to say already.

Dh & I are going to go on holiday and forgetting about 2006. Feel just completely numb.

Review just scheduled for Jan 10th so with Xmas hopefully not too far away. Will see then whether we go for another Fresh cycle or use the snow babies from cycle 1.

Hugs to you all.
Carolyn xxxx
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Carolyn I so praying that this would be your time. I am so sorry honey. Enjoy your holiday with DH you guys deserve it.
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Post by becleo »

Carolyn-
Ahhh man that is sucky. I am so sorry. enjoy your time. my heart is going out to you!!!!

I can't post anymore today, busy with work, and just trying to not think about tomorrow.
SIL found out yesterday her IVF was a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hopefully this means our luck will be changing soon!!!!

trying to decide if we will do assisted hatching or not,
i go in tomorrow at 11am for Accu. transfer at 11:30 then another accu.
and back to work for me.

I will post tomorrow after the ET. thinking about all you lovely ladies and will try to do personals later ok!!!!

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Carolyn My heart goes out to you. Sending hugs to you and D/H. We are all here for you. Can i ask have you had immune testing done????

Take Care

Susan x
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Post by lara312 »

Carolyn so sorry i hope that you have a good break ready for 2007 sending big hugs for you and dh .
Haylie still no af i hope yours stops being so horrible soon i think mine will be here any day now we wont be far apart .we are going to the hilton in cardiff everything paid for so should be a good night (i hate it when you dont know that many people though).
Bec good luck for tomorrow hope it all goes smoothley will be thinking of you .
Jemma sorry to hear about your sil its such a horrible disease you and your family are in my thoughts .
Hope your all well try and do more personels later if i get time hugs to you all
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Post by tcbalgord »

Well I just called my clinic and the lady was so rude to me....said DH had to be there. I of course began to cry and then said that DH isn't giving me the shots anyways, so can I bring the person who is. SHe said FINE. So yes it was a lie but at least I can keep on my schedule!
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Post by Haylie »

Carolyn - am so sorry, life is c***! I was convinced it was your time! Go on holiday and get away from everything try and chill and relax. Take care my dear, wish I could come and give you a big hug xxx

Rach - have a good night, Hilton is really lovely and at least you don't have to pay for drinks! I know what you mean about knowing people though! try and enjoy yourself and let your hair down cos next christmas you won't be able to go cos you'll have your dream come true!
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Morning lady's
Image Shawn i had the same thing happen to me twice its a real bummer isnt it im so pleased they soerted it out for you, im pleased your getting to know us all already really will feel like you have been here forever soon...

Image Meg i agree being able to focus on others really helps with the waiting doesnt it...we will be on the road before we know it now...woohoo

Image Jemima sweetie i was so worried about you i am so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you ... i read about your DH wanting to start adoption do you know how long adoption takes in your country?...i know here in USA its about a year so once you do all the paper work its a waiting game but if you dont feel ready then just tell your hubby that for you to give your ivf the best chance you need to keep your heart focused on it that doing adoption right now wouldnt be fair to the child ???thinking of you hugs

Image Shantala we do need to have a play when are you free fancy doing a trial run on the list tonight?.....you dont have to appologise for how long or short your messages are this is your cyber home too so write away im pleased your getting to do accu and hubby swimmers came back good

Image TC hey there my hubby is also ex military and a nurse so we didnt have to attend the injection class at all they gave us a video if we needed it but they where fine about us not going i know my hubby does them all day so no way would he have gone to a class(sometimes my sore butt wishes he had...LOL)

love to all Aunty
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

OMG TC i just read your post give me the number i will call her back a slap her for you Image cheeky mare she is

ignore her nasty cow and woohoo about the fib .....hugs Aunty
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Post by shantala »

carolyn - i am so so sorry. you are in my thoughts and i really do think going away for christmas will do you good. as the same with angie, i am truly amazed at your strength to start again january and wish you the best of luck. you know where we are! xxx

aunty - yes, tonight would be a good idea to have a little play around with it. can you send me the codes so far in an email or something? (shantala@hotmail.co.uk) whats easiest?? also, are there any websites except cheeseburger that you use to get your codes?? sorry, i'm sure i'll figure it out....

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