MARCH-CYCLE BUDDIES
I might head over to April since my transfer is April 3. So far so good and I'm hoping for success. However I am being realistic and know the odds of a frozen transfer. Currently I am taking every pill imaginable and it's hard to keep them straight. . . 
I believe I will be testing around April 13 which is Friday the 13th. I'm not supersticious, but I do find it funny that my first transfer was on a Friday the 13th and now I will be testing on Friday the 13th.
Looks like things are picking up on the board and Nicki congrats on getting over the shot fear. What an accomplishment. . .really!
Sher8
I believe I will be testing around April 13 which is Friday the 13th. I'm not supersticious, but I do find it funny that my first transfer was on a Friday the 13th and now I will be testing on Friday the 13th.
Looks like things are picking up on the board and Nicki congrats on getting over the shot fear. What an accomplishment. . .really!
Sher8
Me - 40 DH - 40 (Male Factor)
May '05 1st IVF/ICSI: +ve (DD-Siena Marie born Jan 31, 2006)
April '07: FET- BFN
June '07 2nd IVF/ICSI: +ve (DD-Sydney Yvonne born March 12, 2008)
May '05 1st IVF/ICSI: +ve (DD-Siena Marie born Jan 31, 2006)
April '07: FET- BFN
June '07 2nd IVF/ICSI: +ve (DD-Sydney Yvonne born March 12, 2008)
Kandice you have totally done the right thing.I am sending lots of love and hugsx
I would have done the same thing too.Nature sometimes just does its own thing I have had meny meny M/c's and its a very strange thing to say but in some ways I am thankfull because I went on to have two perfect girls.If its not right dont force it because your body knows best.
Big hugsxx
I would have done the same thing too.Nature sometimes just does its own thing I have had meny meny M/c's and its a very strange thing to say but in some ways I am thankfull because I went on to have two perfect girls.If its not right dont force it because your body knows best.
Big hugsxx
SecondaryInfertility
Iui June05 neg
Iui July05 never got past folly scan
New Hosp
N/P Dec05 M/C7w5d
Iui+Ivf drugs 21Sept neg
Iui+Ivf drugs changed to Ivf mid/cycle er21/11 neg
2nd Ivf cycle 12/3BFP
Iui June05 neg
Iui July05 never got past folly scan
New Hosp
N/P Dec05 M/C7w5d
Iui+Ivf drugs 21Sept neg
Iui+Ivf drugs changed to Ivf mid/cycle er21/11 neg
2nd Ivf cycle 12/3BFP
Kandice,
I am thinking of you. lOt of love and hugs xxx
Nimble,
Thank you honey. No, no blood work for me, wish I was. Gonna hp test again tomorrow just because..
PS hate dreams like that.
Smattison, Thank you. Youre so right about the belly and rubbing i can't stop either.
Rae,
Thank you so much for thinking of me. Loved your message what a lovely OB
I am thinking of you. lOt of love and hugs xxx
Nimble,
Thank you honey. No, no blood work for me, wish I was. Gonna hp test again tomorrow just because..
PS hate dreams like that.
Smattison, Thank you. Youre so right about the belly and rubbing i can't stop either.
Rae,
Thank you so much for thinking of me. Loved your message what a lovely OB
Me 36 DH 31
Mild endo + spotting DH low sperm count
TTC 4 years
IIU x 3 BFN
IVF BFP!!!!!!
Mild endo + spotting DH low sperm count
TTC 4 years
IIU x 3 BFN
IVF BFP!!!!!!
Sonya, I know I know I'm a very naughty girl - don't tell my mum!
Good luck with embies! Remember you only need one two is bonus!
Nimble Laughed at poo question. I was so worried about pesseries couldn't put them up front as had problem with cistitis? and when I put them up back I was too scared to poo for hours. Not now though clinic assured me they only take 20 mins to dissolve.
Nerms, Did it again. It worked. I like this game xxx
Good luck with embies! Remember you only need one two is bonus!
Nimble Laughed at poo question. I was so worried about pesseries couldn't put them up front as had problem with cistitis? and when I put them up back I was too scared to poo for hours. Not now though clinic assured me they only take 20 mins to dissolve.
Nerms, Did it again. It worked. I like this game xxx
Me 36 DH 31
Mild endo + spotting DH low sperm count
TTC 4 years
IIU x 3 BFN
IVF BFP!!!!!!
Mild endo + spotting DH low sperm count
TTC 4 years
IIU x 3 BFN
IVF BFP!!!!!!
Nicky bought a fruit drink thats full of soya and actually tastes really nice. Probably can't tell you name on here but it was with all the fresh fruit juice, just thought it was an extra way to boost your protein every day. x
Me 36 DH 31
Mild endo + spotting DH low sperm count
TTC 4 years
IIU x 3 BFN
IVF BFP!!!!!!
Mild endo + spotting DH low sperm count
TTC 4 years
IIU x 3 BFN
IVF BFP!!!!!!
Kandice I am so sorry to hear what you had to go through but completely understand your decision and how you are feeling too.
I know this is slightly different but when they told me that my pg was no longer viable (h/beat had gone) they asked whether I wanted to wait for nature or go for a d/c - i choose to go through a d/c as i just needed closure (like you this had gone on for a few weeks) and once I had that I felt that I was able to move on.
What you had done is not the same as an abortion - the method may be similiar but this is not something you wanted or choose to have so try and not to think about the procedure as being the same as one.
As you say, physically you are fine but emotionally, it will probably take you awhile to get over it. You really need to take time out and deal with your loss and then start getting strong for your future plans.
Parents sometimes do not know how to deal with this, I had my MIL crying down the phone which didn't help one bit - hello but aren't I the one who lost my baby !! It was nice that your MIL came with you for support.
How is your DH taking it?
I hope that the beta comes back 0, you've had so much to deal with this week, it would be just so unfair if this turned into an etopic.
Sending you big big hugs - I've also 'voted' for you on the wish site too
take care
nimble xxx
I know this is slightly different but when they told me that my pg was no longer viable (h/beat had gone) they asked whether I wanted to wait for nature or go for a d/c - i choose to go through a d/c as i just needed closure (like you this had gone on for a few weeks) and once I had that I felt that I was able to move on.
What you had done is not the same as an abortion - the method may be similiar but this is not something you wanted or choose to have so try and not to think about the procedure as being the same as one.
As you say, physically you are fine but emotionally, it will probably take you awhile to get over it. You really need to take time out and deal with your loss and then start getting strong for your future plans.
Parents sometimes do not know how to deal with this, I had my MIL crying down the phone which didn't help one bit - hello but aren't I the one who lost my baby !! It was nice that your MIL came with you for support.
How is your DH taking it?
I hope that the beta comes back 0, you've had so much to deal with this week, it would be just so unfair if this turned into an etopic.
Sending you big big hugs - I've also 'voted' for you on the wish site too
take care
nimble xxx
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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Melly/Sher8 - we are sorry to lose you to the April thread - you are more than welcome to stay here as many of us will be overlapping into April - wish you lots of luck in your cycles - baby dust to you both.
nimble xx
nimble xx
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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hey Marcia - thinking of you - hope the scan went well today and those stubborn follies have started to behave and grow for their mommy!!
love nims xx
love nims xx
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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jstrandlund
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Hey everyone, the lab just called had good news to report. Of the 11 eggs retreived 8 were mature. Of those 7 have fertilized and growing according to schedule. I will get my next update on Sunday and will then be told when the transfer time is on Monday. Of course the waiting is driving me crazy!! Sometimes I think that is the hardest part of this IVF game. The shots are simple compared to keep my PMA and not driving myself and dh crazy with worry. I know 7 is a good number but compared to how many embies I had to work with last time it seems so few. But it's quality not quantity right.
Sonya, Have you heard any further updates on your embies? I am thinking you will get another report tomorrow?
Nimble, the Poo question was great. I love how we are more comfortable asking a question like that here than to our doctors. It just shows how supportive everyone on this board really is. How is everyhting going for you now?
Kandice, Oh sweetie I wish I had the words to make you feel better right now! When I had my m/c they said if my body did not resolve it naturally I would have to have a d&c. That broke my heart and was to hard to face the truth, but on the other hand I had to realize that if that pregnancy did go full term there would be many problems with the baby. Although I would have loved that child regardless I want my child to have the best chance at a healthy life as possible. Sometimes I have to remember that God has a plan and a reason for everything. Now if you are like I was you are screaming" Well I wish he would let me in on his plan so that this would not hurt so much". I think almost everyone who has had a m/c (which is what you had) will say that we blamed ourselves but the truth is it is not your fault. To your Dad I just say Thanks you big jerk, I know he probably did not mean it the way it sounded but still you are in enough pain without his insensitive remark! I wish you and dh all the love and comfort in the world! Please try and believe that you did nothing wrong, it is not your fault.
(((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))!!!!!
Smattison, Rub that belly and give it lots of love!!
Sher8, Good luck with your transfer and even though it is in April and you may move over to that thread let us know how you are doing!!
Melly, WOO HOO bring on the shots! Good Luck and keep us updated on how you are doing!
To anyone I missed I hope eveything is going wonderful!
Sonya, Have you heard any further updates on your embies? I am thinking you will get another report tomorrow?
Nimble, the Poo question was great. I love how we are more comfortable asking a question like that here than to our doctors. It just shows how supportive everyone on this board really is. How is everyhting going for you now?
Kandice, Oh sweetie I wish I had the words to make you feel better right now! When I had my m/c they said if my body did not resolve it naturally I would have to have a d&c. That broke my heart and was to hard to face the truth, but on the other hand I had to realize that if that pregnancy did go full term there would be many problems with the baby. Although I would have loved that child regardless I want my child to have the best chance at a healthy life as possible. Sometimes I have to remember that God has a plan and a reason for everything. Now if you are like I was you are screaming" Well I wish he would let me in on his plan so that this would not hurt so much". I think almost everyone who has had a m/c (which is what you had) will say that we blamed ourselves but the truth is it is not your fault. To your Dad I just say Thanks you big jerk, I know he probably did not mean it the way it sounded but still you are in enough pain without his insensitive remark! I wish you and dh all the love and comfort in the world! Please try and believe that you did nothing wrong, it is not your fault.
(((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))!!!!!
Smattison, Rub that belly and give it lots of love!!
Sher8, Good luck with your transfer and even though it is in April and you may move over to that thread let us know how you are doing!!
Melly, WOO HOO bring on the shots! Good Luck and keep us updated on how you are doing!
To anyone I missed I hope eveything is going wonderful!
Jill
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Me 29/DH 29
1st IVF=BFP M/C
2nd IVF=BFN
Femara
4/7/09 Start first cycle
5/4/09 BFP!!
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Me 29/DH 29
1st IVF=BFP M/C
2nd IVF=BFN
Femara
4/7/09 Start first cycle
5/4/09 BFP!!
Nimble-LOL not trying to put you guys off kids just me…LOL hard time at the moment…I wish. He is 17 and very strong willed. He lives with his father about an hour from me. I see him as much as I can. My little boys see there father only on weekends. My oldest son’s name is Kurtis and he is having a really hard year. He is failing school…on purpose, he skips. He was in honors classes last year and made A‘s and B’s. He is also partying way to much. My ex does not have any control over him and lets him do whatever he wants. About a month ago he was in the wrong place at the wrong time and some 16 year old kid swung a beer bottle at him and caught the side of his face, 12 stitches. As for knowing what I am going through…well we told them all the 1st time and they were all so disappointed that we have elected not to make a big deal out of it this time so no he does not know right now.
Kandice-Well what to say…girl you have been put through the ringer. I am so sorry you had to go through this. No you did NOT HAVE AN ABORTION!!!! You did the right thing and you will be OK. You are one step closer to having a baby now, one you can hold. Hang in there and I will be praying for you and your DH!!!
Jill-Today I caught myself rubbing my belly again and I love it!!!! Everyone should try it!
Melly/Sher8-There are several of us that post on both threads!!! I post in April as well!
As for me had another US and B/W today. They said that I will not be a day early it will stay Monday! My follies are between 16-20mm but more at the 16 mark so they want to give them one more day to catch up. My estrogen level was 2250 and they say that is really good. So I will see the doc in the morning again and trigger tomorrow night at 8p. I am getting so excited now!!!
Everyone I missed sorry but I hope you are all doing well. I will be back later tonight. I have to take the boys to their dad’s.
Kandice-Well what to say…girl you have been put through the ringer. I am so sorry you had to go through this. No you did NOT HAVE AN ABORTION!!!! You did the right thing and you will be OK. You are one step closer to having a baby now, one you can hold. Hang in there and I will be praying for you and your DH!!!
Jill-Today I caught myself rubbing my belly again and I love it!!!! Everyone should try it!
Melly/Sher8-There are several of us that post on both threads!!! I post in April as well!
As for me had another US and B/W today. They said that I will not be a day early it will stay Monday! My follies are between 16-20mm but more at the 16 mark so they want to give them one more day to catch up. My estrogen level was 2250 and they say that is really good. So I will see the doc in the morning again and trigger tomorrow night at 8p. I am getting so excited now!!!
Everyone I missed sorry but I hope you are all doing well. I will be back later tonight. I have to take the boys to their dad’s.
ME 38 DH 36
9/08 4th-IVF BFP ****Girl
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Kandice honey sending you hugs, this world is so cruel! I hope that you are soon better and you and dh are in my thoughts!! bless ya xx x
Sonya, how r your little one's doing?? How you now??? feeling better!!?
Jill, thinking of you too, I hope that u have some great news on sunday and definate ET time and date!!! have agood w-end x x
Quita, tell me more about this drink, where do i buy it??? xx Good luck for test day!!! x xx
Miss piggy sher and Melly, i'll see u on the April therad!!! I still post here and there!!! you know me, fingers in all the pots!!!
Nimble you checky girl!!! not telling me the downs of stimms!!! Actually im finding it easy!!! No probs!! xxx
Love and hugs to ya all, x x x
Sonya, how r your little one's doing?? How you now??? feeling better!!?
Jill, thinking of you too, I hope that u have some great news on sunday and definate ET time and date!!! have agood w-end x x
Quita, tell me more about this drink, where do i buy it??? xx Good luck for test day!!! x xx
Miss piggy sher and Melly, i'll see u on the April therad!!! I still post here and there!!! you know me, fingers in all the pots!!!
Nimble you checky girl!!! not telling me the downs of stimms!!! Actually im finding it easy!!! No probs!! xxx
Love and hugs to ya all, x x x
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014
Hey Girlies!!
Kandice: I am soo sorry to hear what you are going through! My thoughts are with you sweetie. I am so glad your MIL was there for you.
Mama: So glad that your embies are right on track! That is great news! I got up to pee a million times last night to! Ahhh the joy!
Smattison: Only a couple more days! Are you ready for this?
I have a nephew who I help raise that has now become an annoying teenager! I hope you can help your son get through this! Soo glad you are on schedule!!
Q: Wow 2 lines wooo hooo! BFP BFP
Nimble: I am so glad you are home relaxing! I was going to take today off but I just was to bored and decided to go in! Ooo a home day with you and dh! No naughty time now girl!!
Melly and Sher8: Good luck to you both I hope you stop in from time to time and let us know how you are doing!
Jstrandlund: Woo hoo! I hope they will all be great embie! When is ET?
Sigh well I am huge and bloated like everyone else! I was going to take the day off today but got bored and went in. I have been really tired though but I didnt want to sit around and think about the lil ones all day! I wont hear anything from the clinic until tomorrow morning! I hope everyone has a great night. My dh is taking me out for a nice dinner
XOXO To all
Love
Sonya
Kandice: I am soo sorry to hear what you are going through! My thoughts are with you sweetie. I am so glad your MIL was there for you.
Mama: So glad that your embies are right on track! That is great news! I got up to pee a million times last night to! Ahhh the joy!
Smattison: Only a couple more days! Are you ready for this?
I have a nephew who I help raise that has now become an annoying teenager! I hope you can help your son get through this! Soo glad you are on schedule!!Q: Wow 2 lines wooo hooo! BFP BFP
Nimble: I am so glad you are home relaxing! I was going to take today off but I just was to bored and decided to go in! Ooo a home day with you and dh! No naughty time now girl!!
Melly and Sher8: Good luck to you both I hope you stop in from time to time and let us know how you are doing!
Jstrandlund: Woo hoo! I hope they will all be great embie! When is ET?
Sigh well I am huge and bloated like everyone else! I was going to take the day off today but got bored and went in. I have been really tired though but I didnt want to sit around and think about the lil ones all day! I wont hear anything from the clinic until tomorrow morning! I hope everyone has a great night. My dh is taking me out for a nice dinner
XOXO To all
Love
Sonya
Sonya
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Kandice, I just wanted to say that I am really sorry for the really difficult time you have had. Don't blame yourself for what has happened you have done the best you could. I can relate a little to the dumb things people say when we are going through all of this. I called my mother after I found out about my BFN but she is too busy with her business to talk to me, said she would call the next evening and hasn't since. Today my MIL told me I should try again right away and I was explaining to her I think my body needs to recuperate. I was mad that other people are trying to tell me what to do. I've had a really stressful week at school, the kids have been very disrespectful. Yesterday I had one tell me she was going to punch me in the face, then another tell me to shut up, and then to top it off at the end of the day one called me an awful name.
I'm going to go in to talk to my doc but does anyone know how long you should wait in between cycles? I was thinking I should wait until the summer when I don't have to work.
I hope everyone here is doing well with their cycles and lots more BFP's coming!
I'm going to go in to talk to my doc but does anyone know how long you should wait in between cycles? I was thinking I should wait until the summer when I don't have to work.
I hope everyone here is doing well with their cycles and lots more BFP's coming!