Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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LeeS
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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Good Evening Ladies,

Leora - ListMistress :D
Thanks for the welcome. I definitely feel that your job loss will be a blessing in disguise. Good luck with your appt tomorrow with adoption. I have a 4 year old adopted DS and he is the light of my life!!!! I can not imagine not being his mommy and he not being my son. He's actually the reason my DH and I are willing to rejoin the IVF rollercoaster. He's going to make a great Big Bro.

Margi
Thanks for the welcome.

Deftonesmo
Thanks for the info. I really enjoy acupunture and want to make this cycle as enjoyable as possible. I feel like we already have to endure so much pain (needles) and invasiveness (SnS) that I deserve to try something that is relaxing and enjoyable. BTW who is Ghost?

SD - I love your enthusiasum and PMA. I really want to try to experience this cycle as a positive journey from the beginning. I intend to follow your lead!!

I will try to do more personals as I get more familiar with all of you ladies.

AFM
History - My DH and I have been TTC since 2003. In 2003 we did IVF #1 we got a BFP and graduated to OB after HB, then at 11 weeks (on Super Bowl Sunday) I had a m/c. Chromosomal testing was normal male. Then we did 3 FETs all BFNs. In 2006 we did IVF#2 and again got a BFP but m/c at 8 weeks. No testing. In 2007 my DH and I became foster parents and we received a 3 month old baby boy to care for. After a long emotional journey we were able to adopt our DS who is now 4 years old. Our DS is the reason we have decided to get back on the IVF roller coaster. We want him to have a sibling.

Current - I was going to wait to join the board after my consultation with a new RE on 2/9, but since I already started taking supplements, acupuncture and most importantly given up CAFFIENE! I guess my journey has officially begun. Not sure what protocol I will have but I am sure it will involve immunotherapy as I have multiple autoimmune disorders.

I would be interested to hear about anyone's experience with immunotherapy, intralipids specifically. Also, anyone who has hypothyroid. Your experiences help me to figure what questions I need to ask and things I should research.

To ALL - Good luck and wishing you well where ever you are in you journey to mommyhood!!

Thanks,
Lee
ME (39) PCOS, IMMUNE ISSUES
DH (43) PERFECT
03-06 2 IVFs - 2 BFP 2 m/c
11/09 ADOPT DS
4/11 IVF # 3
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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Hi Lee - welcome to the group! wow - what a story. The ladies on this board have been through so much! Lok forward to cheering you on through your return IVF journey.
I have hypothyroid following my pregnancy. I am on synthroid to make sure my TSH and T4 are in the proper range. Its easily fixed with synthroid.
Lee - have you guys considered using a surrogate as a solution to the autoimmune issues? or is it too expensive?
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#1 IVF BFN
#2 FET DS born
#3 IVF ectopic
#4 FET BFN
#5 FET Chemical
#6 IVF, BFP at 8dpo, beta 215, started out with twins, one vanished at 6 weeks, EDD 9/4/12
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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Hi Lee - I can't say I know about any of those issues, but I just wanted to say hi. I should be cycling with you.

AFM - AF is here! It's so weird that every cycle I get AF 2-4 days before my beta. Does that mean I would normally ovulate late in a regular cycle? A friend of mine doing IVF has gotten to know a supervisor at our INS co. She is going to give me her name, so I should be able to get another IVF if I write a letter. The definition of IVF includes an embryo transfer. Since I did not have that, how can they count this as my 5th cycle. I am going to see if I can go tomorrow for beta too. I always say I want to take a break, but when I get the BFN I just want to get started again!
-Lauren
ME: 36 DH 34
Unexplained Infertility
IUI 3 times BFN
#1 IVF 1/2010 BFN
#2 IVF 2/2010 BFN
#3 FET 4/2010 BFP - D&C 5/26
#4 IVF 8/2010 BFN
#5 IVF 11/2010 Cancelled - Low Red Blood Count
#5 IVF 1/2011 - Converted to IUI BFN
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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Well today is OTD for me.... have had the test and will get The Call in about 4 hours. Am not hopeful as I am now 9DP 5DT and am still getting BFN on the old POAS (Clear Blue). Do not understand why none of 3 blasts which had been genetically tested and found to be A OK would not take...?! Gah, gah, gah.

Have everything crossed for the rest of you.
Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236
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hotgreentea - how does your stomach feel now? have you been weighing yourself everyday? I gained up to 4 lbs just the day before my transfer and was having a lot of difficulty walking due to pain. I guess I had mild OHSS but the doctor did not seem too concerned and went ahead with the transfer. My transfer was 4 days ago and after drinking gatorade starting from the day before transfer till now, I have finally lost the 4 lbs that I gained, plus 2 more. I've been urinating like a horse lately, but oh, I feel so much better now, and can finally walk without pain. If the embies implanted and I'm indeed pregnant, I heard the hCG may bring those symptoms back again. As terrible as I felt, I wouldn't mind feeling those symptoms again if it means I'm pregnant. How are those PIO shots going for you? I'm on Endometrin suppositories, thank the lord.

Leora - good luck on your adoption appointment on Monday! oh my.. so sorry to hear about your awful journey. I can't even imagine all the pain you must've endured (are still enduring). I have such a good feeling about this cycle for you though; I know this will be the one for you! What a small world for you to run into your former boss! Great to hear that she'll be your reference. I completely believe that you getting laid off from your job was a blessing in disguise. You're sure to land a job you'll absolutely love soon enough! Until then, take it easy, and focus on your cycle.

Kerri - good luck with your ER on Monday! Hope you have a good amount of mature eggs to work with!

Margi - I'm not sure if that was implantation cramping. I have issues with stomach cramping every once in a while too, so it's really hard for me to distinguish which organ is causing the cramps. I've had cramping on & off all day today, too. I'm just hoping for the best. yay for having a tentative schedule!! In less than a month, you'll be PUPO!

mellow - how sweet of you to offer margi a place to stay at your home! I love the friendships/sisterhood that develop out of this board. Makes me pleased that there is still some humanity remaining in this world.

Jeib - I, too, had 8 fertilized which were in excellent quality on day 3. On day 5, there was only one excellent quality remaining, plus one good quality which they transferred. They waited till day 6 to see if possibly 1 or 2 which were in decent shape would make it, but only ended up with one being frozen. It's really difficult to get good-quality blasts to freeze, so don't think that you're alone. If this cycle doesn't work out for DH and I, we are planning on starting a fresh one. Because I have PCOS, my RE wanted to start me off on medium-low dose to see how my body would react, so I had a very slow start. But, it's better to be safe than sorry and end up with OHSS. Sounds like you had a very difficult childhood.. sooo sorry to hear about all that! I'm ashamed to admit, but I, too, was admitted to a psych hospital just last year for being suicidal. What a mistake that was as I saw how terribly I hurt my friends and family with that attempt. Nothing is worth taking your own life, no matter how sad, depressed, or unfair your life seems. Soon enough, we both will be blessed with our own babies and put all these worries and depressing days behind us. Rest up, girl!

Lou - thank you so much for posting those lovely sticks of yours. I will definitely refrain from testing before the beta. I wouldn't want to put myself through unnecessary disappointment if I did test out positive on beta day. Oh, but the wait is torturous!!! Hoping for a nice rise for your beta tomorrow! :D

Tammy - that is amazing!! SO happy for you! And what a cute story about Zach and the "big brother" shirt!! Congrats on being PUPO!!

Sunshine - 8 eggs is great! Looking forward to hearing your fert report tomorrow!!

SD - 6 eggs is great! Hoping for all to fertilize by tomorrow!

LYD10 - Yeah! on almost triggering! Good luck at your SnS tomorrow!

LeeS - What a difficult journey you've had! Sounds like fresh cycles is your friend over FET. Hoping for a successful pregnancy for you this time around! Caffeine has been so difficult to give up for me. Not that I was a huge coffee drinker, but because of the little amount of caffeine that's even found in hot chocolate, for example, I have completely eliminated caffeine from my diet. Now when I sit down to do my homework, I wish I had a quick source of energy to whip out my assignments. I think the quality of my assignments is definitely suffering, but oh well. Anything for a baby.

Laruen - so sorry to hear about AF's arrival! :( Oh boy, is that insurance issue still lingering? I really you can get that sorted out so you can hop right back into another cycle (a SUCCESSFUL one this time). Are you going to be changing RE?

Qita - I am praying for a surprise positive for you tomorrow! Good luck!

AFM - Well, since it's past midnight now, I'll consider myself 5dp5dt! Still haven't had the courage to POAS, especially since Lou posted a picture of her sticks, and how unreliable they can be before 14dpo. Still planning to wait it out till beta day which is now 4 days away! It falls on our 4 month wedding anniversary so I'm hoping for some positive news so we can celebrate the night away! Is anyone else's DH overly paranoid about what foods to eat? He insists I only eat healthy, organic foods with absolutely NO junk food. Ugh, I want my occasional potato chips or french fries, but have to sulk my way into getting it. Thinking he'll be really tough on me when my cravings period strikes. Gulp.
Ashley
Me: 28 - PCOS
DH: 30 Irresistible hunk
TTC since 2009
IVF Cycle #1: Jan '11
2 blasts transferred 2/2/11
Beta: 2/11/11: BFP!!: 133
EDD: 10.21.2011.
6/7/11 - We're having a baby GIRL!

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qita71
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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Bad news from my beta... BFN :cry: Gutted as you can imagine. Also don't understand why as was able to get pregnant naturally last year (but then miscarried at 9 and a half weeks), they were a 5 day transfer and had been genetically tested and were sound. God sure as hell works in mysterious ways!!

Goos luck to all of you still in the game.

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Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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(hugs) Qita. I am very sorry.

HopeIsAllIHave~ I do feel so much better today. I have slept a lot this weekend and seemed to have felt a little better each time I woke up. I have been drinking Ga.torade and I think it has helped. Thankfully the PIO aren't a major deal. I am a bit sore from those, but no biggie. ;)

Have a great day, ladies!
Sherry & DJ
ttc our #1 since January 2006
stage II endo, pcos and MFIF
IUI#1=fail
IVF#1 = BFN :(
8 excellently beautiful embryos on chill just waiting to be transferred
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Sunshine- 8 eggs is awesome. Not let the swimmers do there thing and soon you will be pupo. Take time to relax and start enjoying soon to be pupo lady.
Caro- Oh well wish we had answers for everything. Whatever you and dh decide to do all the best. As for now hope your sns shows nice big follies to proceed with this cycle. All the best.
Sdtrying- 6mature whoo hooooooo. Go girl soon to be pupo lady. It only takes one and you have six.
Lyd10- Grow follies grow.
Lauren1171- am so sorry for af. But you might be surprise try to get that beta if you can coz like someone earlier said. She got AF and was still pregnant and went on to have a baby I think. Fingers still crossed for you. As for the insurance I don’t think iui is counted towards your IVF. I would check with your clinic and see how it was coded coz most errors are due to wrong diagnosis codes.
Qita- Am so sorry for the negative beta. You know this journey is like gambling. Sometimes we win and win big or sometimes we lose. But all in all we have to pick ourselves up and keep pushing for what we what. So take time to scream do anything then you will calm down and decide to jump but on the wagon.am sorry again maybe next time is your time.
Tammy- you are pupo. 4 is your lucky number. And zach had a secret message for you with the tshirt that is so great of a welcome after the transfer.
Rio- girl how is that baby doing? Thanks for encouranging us all.
Jkulab-Lol you have a rought childhood. But now that is an old chapter that has been closed. Lets concentrate on this n ew chapter and bring on that baby. You are a strong courageous lady. Take time to relax coz soon you will be pupo.
Leorira- all the best with the interview. I know its late me saying that coz of time difference. But I hope all went well. And grow follies for sns tomorrow.
Margi- one day closer each day. We will be in 2ww together it seems at this rate. All the best.
Lou- go girl with the sticks. They are not so evil as you thought. Hope for a strong secong beta,
As for me AF has not shown up yet. Feels like I have a stopper or sometime holding it. So I have called my doc and left a message to see if they can give me sometime to jump start this cycle. Am just ready to get it over with and bring on that bfp. I guess after a BFN cycle I always get messed up with my next regular non medicated cycle of is it my body just trying to readjust. Come on everyone cant leave me behind.
For those I left out am sorry. Those stimming grow follies. Those in 2ww are the sticks calling yet?
beta 14dpo=89, beta16dpo=298
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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Anyone got a view on this, would be most grateful.... today is 9dp 5dt. HCG on beta is 0. Clinic want me to carry on taking the oestrogen and prostogene for another 2 days and go back for a "final" beta. Why??? Today seems final enough for me (and they're agreeing v v v v little chance- I say FA chance) and I really don't want to put any more drugs in my system (sooner they're out and I get back to normal, the sooner I can start again) or pay for another test. Any thoughts much appreciated. x
Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236
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crashin' for lou and Tammy!

Tammy
Sounds like you will be announcing your BFP soon. 4 embies is awesome! I will be stalking you! (in a good way of course)

lou,
I will be anxiously awaiting your beta results.......but I have a great feeling it will be more than double!

kim (rlk1)
how are you doing? Thought of you often and wondered where your road to a second child is taking you?

Ronda
Miscarriage @12 weeks, 2000(natural)
1st DD born 3/21/05 (IUI)(3 IUI's)
2nd DD born 11/17/08 (1st IVF)
FET: 1/21/10, BFN.
FET:2/25/10, BFP. 1st beta # 459; 2nd beta #1106
June 2010, late miscarriage at 17 weeks, baby's heart just stopped beating.
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Lou, I can't wait to hear about that second beta today... I'm going to guess over 1000 today! Yay! BTW, I can't stand those $ store tests.. I use them in a pinch because they are cheap, but they have never shown a good line for me, even when I was pregnant or had taken the hcg shot, it was always light. I swear by the walmart equate brand +/- test - pink only.

Tammy, how awesome to transfer 4! How are you going to feel if all 4 snuggle in? That's so cute about Zach choosing his "big brother" shirt. He just turned 3 recently... I love that age! At least you will have a little helper when the BABIES come! :mrgreen:

Margi... I'm so excited for you starting this cycle. As for vacation IVF, I have looked into it before. The prices are cheaper to go to other countries, but by the time I factor in airfare for DH and I as well as hotel stays for a couple of weeks, it ends up being about the same price. It will take a big savings, lottery winnings or inheritance to get to that point... but I'm keeping my hope up that it could happen. If I didn't have a secure job with my sisters company, I would look for another one with fertility benefits insurance.

Leora, I hope this new approach to your cycle means good things. I read the story about your twins... no one should ever have to make life-changing decisions like that. I pray that your endurances and sacrifices will mean you have an even bigger reward coming to you... lots of little babies for you and DH to spoil.

qita, sorry about the beta... I don't know much about IVF, but 9 dp a 5 dt would be 14 dpo.. seems there should be some level there. This process sucks sometimes.

Sunshine... 8 eggs is great.. I hope you get at least one sticky one out of them!

So many ladies getting to the end of their 2ww... fingers crossed for all of you! Sorry if I missed anyone.

I try not to get on the computer too much over the weekends... after spending all week online for work, I look forward to a couple days away from it. I did get on an check the posts for good news though. Its hard to do followups after 5 pages ! LOL AFM, I spoke to RE Friday afternoon and he said I could come in this morning for another u/s, but I forgot I had an important phone conference and bid this morning, so I couldn't make it. I know I haven't O'd yet on my own, but it doesn't feel like much is brewing in there anyway. I will probably go in tomorrow morning and get things checked out. I am definitely just doing timed BD this cycle. I'll save IUI money for more meds for next cycle. Such a frustrating process.... I'd love to think I could get a bfp this cycle, but the realistic side of me says don't get my hopes up. I know stranger things have happened... but to luckier people! LOL :lol:
Carol (44) Old eggs
John (31) Stud
Tubal Reversal 4/14/08
BFP 8/27/09 ~ D&C 9 weeks 10/4/09
FSH: 6.5 AMH: 1.7
IUI March/11 ~ Failed

Life goes on...
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Just came back from ER; a short update: 17 eggs were collected but don't know how good they are. The doctor said we should wait for extra 4 hours. ET is on WE if they get good embryos.
kerri
me:40; DH:42
ttc 10 years
9/2010 IVF#1: BFN
11/2010 IVF#2: chemical
1-2/2011 IVF#3: BFN
5/2011 IVF#4: BFN
12/2011 IVF#5: no embies for ET
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qita71 wrote:Anyone got a view on this, would be most grateful.... today is 9dp 5dt. HCG on beta is 0. Clinic want me to carry on taking the oestrogen and prostogene for another 2 days and go back for a "final" beta. Why??? Today seems final enough for me (and they're agreeing v v v v little chance- I say FA chance) and I really don't want to put any more drugs in my system (sooner they're out and I get back to normal, the sooner I can start again) or pay for another test. Any thoughts much appreciated. x
Qita - they might have messed up your beta test. HCG is rarely 0 - its usually very very low - but 0 i think is rare - they might be thinking they have messed up the measurement or something. i would keep taking the meds for a few more days. Good luck!
ME 40, DH, 43
#1 IVF BFN
#2 FET DS born
#3 IVF ectopic
#4 FET BFN
#5 FET Chemical
#6 IVF, BFP at 8dpo, beta 215, started out with twins, one vanished at 6 weeks, EDD 9/4/12
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Re: Winter 2010-2011 Cycle Board

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Hi all,

Went for another u/s today and got more blood taken!!
Got to go back weds as well?
I just feel really low today they didnt explain much to me i did take a peak of my
notes and lining of something was 4.5 on day 5 of stims and now there 7.0? (anyone?)
my E2 levels were 222 on day 5 (not sure if this is right)
I really need someone to let me know whats happening as i am
feeling really negative now if this is going to work or not!!!
Im so f?*king low xxx

All my love to everyone

I hope this works
I am praying for us all x

Samantha x
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Samantha - ask your Dr./Nurse questions. You are paying for this cycle and have every right to know what's going on. At this point the main things you are concerned about is your follicle counts and how big your follicles are. E2 levels are also nice to know to see the rise in E2 levels. Don't feel down, you could be having an awesome cycle and you just don't have the info to realize it.
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