December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

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Hi Ladies,

I've tried to post 3x today and every time I've hit submit, I'm logged out and lose all that I've typed! So frustrating. Anyway, I slept til noon today, which is unheard of for me. Good news is I woke up and heartburn was gone. Wow was that painful yesterday. Now I can go back to concentrating on my sore boobs and bloated belly! :)

Christine.... I have a ton of menopur, ganirerlix and follistim. I had to reorder when I onlyl had 3 days left to take meds and they sent me a boatload. I don't have any tush medicine though. If I get a BFP, I would be happy to give you my meds so please keep that in mind.

Tex... The more I think about it, the more I think Wed.'s test is some kind of baseline and the test on Friday is the real deal. I haven't taken an HPT yet, but am very tempted.

Shawn... I can totally relate to the 'are you sure this is what you want?' question. I have raised 4 stepdaughters for the last 10 years which has been extremely challenging and exhausting. That explains my late start here and hopefully not too late, but there's nothing I want more than my own child. People who know I'm going through this, which are only a few have been very supportive, but at first I definitely saw the look of concern on both my parents faces. Now that they've seen my committment to this, they've gotten more excited.

Jaby.... thinking and praying for your today.

Sonya... good luck tomorrow with your stronger than ever embies!

More personals tomorrow.

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Post by Angie65 »

Hi Mia - I think it is OK to have an Amelie in the states and one here in Oz - that will be just fine! But no more allowed!

Hi to everyone else - it is Sunday night here and I'm knackered - 2 parties and a picnic in the sun today - a few cutie babies, friends w/o kids and some singles too so a nice mix. Wish i didn't have to do to work tomorrow - ah well nearly CHristmas !

Happy SUnday everyone!
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Hello Ladies,

As most of u know i havent been here for a while, there is no way i can catch up on all the posts i have missed, but i just wanted to pop in and tell u all that im still thinking of u everyday:

Carolyn & Angie: I am so sorry to hear ur news, its hard but i promise you it does get better and soon u will be back and fighting ur corner. Good luck to u both, my thts and prayers are with you :D

Everyone else: There are so many of you i cant mention u all, thanks for being wonderful, and thanks for understanding my decision not to go ahead with any more treatment, i basically came here today because....

1, I miss u all
2, I want to wish all 2ww's all the very best of luck in he world, i hope ur dreams come true
3: To wish you ALL a very merry christmas

Im saying that now as work is belem at the moment and i dont really have much time to check the board most nights.

You are all so strong and brave and i respect each and everyone of you. Have a lovely christmas ladies (and men i see we have newbies lol) i really do hope Santa brings u your very own dream come true. Your ALL in my thoughts & prayers EVERYDAY .....

Love to u all

Becky Xxxx (Ur fairy god mother lol)

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Post by becleo »

TC- I do too have Follistim and Lupron and the needles so we will all pitch in... you know it takes a village!!!!

Sokru8- Hang in there, the blast are doing their job.. and when did kids ever listen to their mom hehehe! Good Luck!

Aunty I notice on the timeline their isn't my dasy for testing????
it is on the 24th and I have 2 absolutely perfect embies snuggled in... thanks my dear!

JAckie- i hope you have an awesome accu! so far so good with the 2ww. 1 down 1 to go. have all sorts of symptoms but it could just be the progesterone, but talking to my belly ALL the time . had a great time with the nieces and nephews, we rode the polar express train and they had santa and raindeer and the conductor read the book. after they asked if any of the kids wanted to sing and my 4 year old nephew jumped right up and SCREAMED rudolph the red nose raindeer. SO CUTE!!! and the girlies were all over the place, great time. How are you doing?

Shawn- happy shopping! iwent out yesterday myself. got most of it done !!! yippee.

Tex-yeah I agree, if you don't take the risk you can't reap the benifits!!!! I think we will probably get the call before we get to the xmas eve party so they all know what I am going thru so if I show up red eyed they will be there with hugs, and then I can steal auntie love from the kids. medicine all on its own! BUT keeping the PMA that i will still get my BFP that I am dreaming of :)

Hopeful- I find too that I am more likely not wanting to be areound the negative people. lucky I just get more of the insensitive questions. people just don't think!!!! but as I told Shantala before I just put up my s#@& sheild and let it roll of my back. seem to be doing that alot this year, getting kinda good at it.

Sophie- hope you had a good night! I guess I knew going into the IVF world that the HPT wasn't the sure thing and I guess for me I would rather know the real answer then get my hopes up and/or have the dream squashed when even after I take a HPT I would still wonder if I was Pregnant or not. for me it was an easy decision, and I just try to have faith, and a little patience, BUT that isn't for everyone. and that is fine too. I just know even if I did take HPT I would still wonder .."am I" is their a chance that you can ask for the Nurse to call you instead of you waiting for the results of the test?? they might do that? it is worth a shot right?? that way you can be in the car just you and DH and get the news.
my other cycles I was at work, but atleast this time I will be with DH when we get the news. so I am excited about that. I hope I helped a tad.

Erin- any AF beeeeeeeeeeeooooch yet???

off to walk the dog! I have a baby shower to go to today! not too excirted about it, and I know SIL will anounce that she is pregnant, ahh give me strength!!!!

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Post by CarolynB »

Dear Ladies

Thanks for all your wishes and words of comfort. You have been a great support to me.

Dh and I have booked to go to the sun for a week from Sat 23rd. It looks like a nice hotel with spa for me and golf for him. We need some time out together. So we are busy trying to rush around and deliver pressies and do a little bit of socialising before we leave. Keeping my mind of things.

Have had a rough week with AF but finally she seems to be disappearing thankfully.

Trying not to think too much about ivf now. We will take the holiday and then when we get back the follow up will only be 10 days away and we will wait to see whether he says it is a numbers game or whether they think that we have other issues at play.

So really just dropped in to say. I hope that you will all have a truely wonderful Christmas. And I hope that Santa and the New Year bring you everything that you wish for. Thank you for everything.

Massive Hugs
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morning Lady's
Carolyn that sounds wonderful i truly hope you have a great time with Hubby and come back all refreshed we will be here should you need us....

Bec sweetie im sorry i missed your date will do it now i remeber you saying derr brain fart time....the time with your N/N sounds wonderful your Nephew sounds like a leader already

Becky our very own fairy god mother...hugs great to read you again we miss you too i hate that job you need a new one, your so sweet to tope by

Ange that happens to me all the time usually when ive spent 20 mins doing the list updates maybe if you copy your message before you send :wink: when you get back you can just paste it it usually works...LOL

Mia good luck with your BT today thinking of you sending you my S/S as im doing well with other people so far...

Saxony congratulations on starting your baby food bring it on Grow follies grow....woohoo

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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Aunty's take on HPT's......things ive learnt about ivf and HPT's
the meds we take for IVF usually wont give you a false +ive if you wait 10 days after taking your trigger shot (the big one in the a@@)some lady's do more trigger shots during the TWW on certain cycles those lady's could get a false +ive...and other drugs used for other forms of TTC can also give a false +ive
but a usual IVF FET will not so if after 10 days post trigger shot you get a+ive then your pregnant
saying this if you get a -ive you could still be pregnant i have seen way too many times lady's get a false -ive even one lady tested on the morning of her blood work got a -ive her blood came back +ive she retested HPT the next day still got a -ive i think she is around 30 weeks now
also once you do one wether it comes back +ive or -ive you will be hooked and it will cost you something along the line of a complete cycle of IVF trying to make sure it was right....

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Post by sokru8 »

Hey All
Got home a couple of hours ago from e/t. This morning we had 3 embryos left so my dr decided to transfer all 3 embies. Things went smoothly and we even got a picture of them! The picture is sitting here beside me on my bedside table. My mom went to go get a picture frame for them! Well Im in bed on 48hrs of bedrest. Sigh... I am not one of those people that can just lay around so this is going to be torture but whatever it takes to get our babies to grow! The 2ww begins....
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Sonya, sweetie I am so happy for you! I am not one of those that can just lay around either, and I'm sure that the next 48 hours will be torture but hang in there! That is so sweet that they gave you a picture and that your mom is getting a frame for em!
Remember to rest up now, while you can! Everything good comes in 3's!

Thoughts and prayers are with you!
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I want to thank all you ladies for the dancing!!!!!!!!!!!! AF has arrived!!!!!!!! I start my BCP tomorrow and lupron starts January 4th. YIPEEE I am finally moving!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so excited to be a human pin cushion I can hardly wait. I am jumpy right now to read up on everything but I promiss I will. Love you all and thanks again, our dances really work!
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Post by shantala »

hi ladies

just a quick one for me (yes, honestly!!)

sok - so pleased ET went ok - bring on the triplets!!

jaby - any news???????? i have checked the computer every few hours since yesterday!!

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Post by Shawn »

Hi Ladies,

Christmas shopping yesterday was really crazy. Everywhere I went was packed with people. It was too much for me to handle. I found two of the gifts I was looking for and decided to wait until today to finish the rest. Next year I think I'm doing ALL of my shopping online...lol.


Sonya (sokru8)
Wow, 3 embies snuggling in! I am so excited so for you. Enjoy the 48 hours of rest.

AuntyPebbles
I like what you wrote about HPTs. I have already told myself that I'm going to refrain from using them and wait until my BT. I already know it will be hard but I'd rather not give myself false results either way. I'll just tough it out and wait for the real results.

CarolynB
The spa and golf sound nice. Enjoy the time with DH and relax. And AF seems to be leaving which is the perfect gift for your trip.

Sophie (Sophia flamenca)
Sorry AF is taking her time showing up. I know the wait is hard, but hang in there. I do agree with you that finding out in the nurses office is a little annoying. I'm not sure how my clinic does it. I'll cross that bridge when I get closer to it. But no worries for you.... your results will be a BFP and you'll walk through the clinic with a HUGE SMILE :D .

Mia (hopeful-in-LV)
I didn't get to upset with my mom because I know her intentions were good. I'm sure once I get started she will only send positive vibes my way. She has already put in her request for a girl :D . I also decided not to include people on the logistics of my IFV. I've got you guys so I don't see the need to involve people who won't understand what I'm going through. I have a friend thats pregnant now, and she knows that I'm doing IVF. She makes me stay positive and tells me not to say "if IVF works" but to say "WHEN IVF works". With that being said, even though she is great I won't pull her in on my emotional rollercoaster. I would even shut mom out if she didn't have some kind of freaky connection to me that allows her to know everything I'm feeling...lol.

Tex
Yes, I have a 14 year old. He is the best... drives me crazy and makes me laugh all at the same time. When I went in for my IVF consult and told my IVF nurse that I had a previous child and he was 14, her reaction was "you guys are crazy!" She was joking but I'm sure there are a lot of people will wonder why I want another child so far after having my first. Well its simple... I've always wanted about 3 kids. My first was unplanned and I was unmarried. My mom and dad were great and where there for me every step of the way with my first. Now I'm older, married, settled and I want to continue my dream by having a child with my DH. I've put off starting IVF for about a year so that I could focus on my career but now I feel like its my time... When you are a women with a career it seems like you always have a choice to make... your job or your kids. That choice is a little harder when you have fertility issues and have to actually spend money on IVF to support your decision to put family first.
I feel like life is too short.... and I'm going to focus on things that will make my life fuller and happier. And for me that includes bringing another little baby into this world for me, my DH, and my son to love on.

Fed7281
YEA!!!!!!!! Happy AF finally arrived. I saw your post right before I hit the submit button. Our cycles are very close and I look forward to us being 2ww buddies.


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awww CRAP :x . Looks like I'm going to be on lupron for 20 days! :shock: I was looking forward to a month without needles! But no, not my luck. I've only had one lupron shot ever and it stung like a mofo. Luckily these are going to be much smaller doses. But Please, can anyone tell me, will they all sting? And what the heck does Lupron do that BCP can't??

ET is going to be on 01/25, yay! My frosties will be thawed on 01/21 (they were frozen at 1 day old).

Thanks ladies for your S/S advice w/mom. I think I'm doing a pretty good job with it. My mom has always had that blunt honesty about her (ironically DH is the same). I'm kind of used to it. In her defense, I know that in her intentions, she only wants the best for my mental and physical health. Also because of her spirtual beliefs, she thinks adoption should be our sole route. She knows that we are considering adoption, so she thinks IVF is just a waste for us to do. I think everyone is allowed to have their own beliefs and opinions. We can't let that bother us, people will never change. I'm just glad I have you guys to talk to.
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Sonya, didn't mean to forget about you.... Best wishes for a comfy bedrest and tons and tons of sticky baby dust to you! :)
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Post by Sophia flamenca »

Hello guys!

Hope this email finds everyone in good shape! This is day 35 for me and, though I seemed to have some promising spotting and sensations this morning, still nothing. In addition, I have been having this weird sensation in my ears since yesterday; it seems a tad worse today. Just as if there was a little bit water in my ears that didn't want to get out; my own voice resounds in a weird way, so does music. It's a weird feeling and there's definitely some presure on my eardrum on the left. That's probably just earwax blocking the way; I'll go to a walk-in clinic tomorrow if the symptoms are still there. And my headache does not arrange things; Advil works, lucky me!

But enough with the whining! :D

Hopeful: congratulations on getting the date for your FET! Hey, barely a little more than a month away for you! Lots of sticky baby dust to you! As for Lupron, if I am not mistaken, it differs from BCP in that it acts directly on the pituitary gland not just to stop your ovulation, but also to put you in an artificial menopause. Hence the moodiness, the hot flashes, and so on. It really allows your doctors to take a full control of your hormones and really start a "fresh cycle", reducing the possibilities for interference.

Shawn: Thanks for your understanding, and thanks for assuming that it will work. However, even if I believe 100% in my chances and will keep a positive attitude at all costs, the less I prepare myself for a BFN, the more shocked I will be. I don't want to be naive either, so I must not assume that a BFP is what I'll get. Hence my self-questioning about getting the results in the nurse's office or not.

Fed: YAY ON AF'S ARRIVAL! I'm really happy for you! Things finally get going; good for you sweetie! :D

Sonya: I'm glad that everything went well! I sympathize with you; I almost lost my mind when I had the laser eye surgery and had I stay home doing practically nothing for a week! Ah, I guess this is the time to jump on the occasion to be pampered a little more than usual! It's for such a good cause! And when you have a minute, tell us what the latest gossip is! I find it really nice that they gave you pics, wow! Even easier to visualize! :)

Aunty: Thanks for the info; it was helpful. Procrea clinic does the blood test exactly 16 days after the ER, so that means 17 days and a half after the trigger shot (I'm not supposed to get more than one). I did not plan to do an HPT before the day of the appointment for the blood test; I wanted to do it the morning of. For now, I still intend to do it. You see, if I get a positive result, then I'll be more inclined to believe it. If I get a negative result, I'll just prepare myself to get either result from the blood test. Some of my friends, one of whom is pregnant as we speak, got BFPs from HPTs until their day 40 or something... so I won't panic if I get a BFN from an HPT, and I certainly won't buy 10 other tests to make sure the result I got is right. I'm not like that, and I would do it right before the blood test, so... I will just prepare myself better for the formal blood test. So far, however, people here seem to be more inclined to wait for the blood test, and I do consider that. Maybe it's just because it's my first time...

Bec: thanks for replying. I talked about it with DH this morning and he had the same idea. I'm sure I won't be the first to make that kind of request anyway. I figure DH and I would have the time to drive back home and then wait by the phone, snuggling together on the sofa. That sounds like a much better scenario for me. And of course, congrats on completing your first ww! Only one more to go, and with the holidays approaching like they do, days will fly! :)

Carolyn: I hope you have a nice vacation! What a lovely idea! Glad AF is leaving; always a good thing! :) I wish you a wonderful Xmas time as well dear, and plenty of laughter, fun, and good times to keep your mind off ivf!

And just a general question... what do you guys talk about when you write about the Baseline Test?

Cheers! I'll soon be off to a nice sushi restaurant for a Xmas party! :)

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