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Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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jaye
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Post by jaye »

Thanks for the welcome - wow, there are so many of us and everyone's so chatty! I'm glad I'm not the only one writing down names and dates - I did that for March, and there are now 3 little happy faces for those people that got +ves (including Annie this morning!). DH thinks I'm mad but is happy to support anything that keeps me amused and stops me asking him continually whether my breasts look any different :oops: I even txted him this morning on the bus to tell him about Annie's news. It's kinda weird to be actually happy about someone elses pregnancy, isn't it? It's like you have to earn it.

Wow, so many comments to make.

Allison - I was interested that you don't let DH near you with the needle. DH has been great with me, giving me all of mine, and it's nice that he is part of this thing that seems to be all about me but is really supposed to be about us. Something that actually helped was I gave HIM a needle one time - just stuck it in and pulled it out again. That made it less scary for both of us, I think, although be careful to hurt him just a bit, because my DH hardly felt it and then he didn't believe that it hurt sometimes. I told my clinic, and they offered to give me some saline to inject, they said that would hurt more. That made me laugh, but I didn't take them up on the offer - yet.

Caz - I took 2 days off after EC - I definitely needed that, and I was actually pretty emotional the following day too, I was OK, but had to go and have a cry at one point when it all got a bit much. It's all so stressful. So I probably could have stretched it to that day, too. But then I was lucky coz my ET was over Easter, so I had four days off for that, too, and two short weeks on either side. It was nice to have that downtime. Like Tania, my job just involves sitting at a computer and occasionally walking to the printer, so if you had a more active job, it might be different.

Traci - my test date is 21. So I guess that makes me next? 7 days today.

Take care all,

Jaye.
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gem
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Post by gem »

Morning buddies
The clinic phoned on the dot at 9 and 6 have made it over night the other 4 wont make it to the next stage as they have 2 sperm in instead of 1 dh said they were eager buggers :lol: we will find out tomorrow at 9 to see how many have made it on to the next stage,it a good job we got 10 eggs as they seem to be dropping like flies,but as long as we get 2 top grade embryos we are not bothered,et is looking like friday.
Caz I usually have a full week at home once my embryos are on broad,and as my clinic count 2 ww from ec I'm usually just at work for 2-3 days before the test but this time as I havent had any time off for ec os scans as its the Easter holidays I'm going to have it all off and go back the day after we test I work in a Special needs school so its quite a phyiscal job,I 've tried to change things from each cycle but I've never changed when I go back to work so this time I thought sod it.
Jaye I'l bve just behind you I think I will be testing on the 27th,hope ypu are feeling ok are you doing a pg test or does your clinic do blood tests?
Catch up with everyone later I'l have to go as a few of us from work are meeting up for dinner at someones house,I've been to get weighed this morning and I've stayed the same which I'm happy with,told her I'm not going next week as I'm laid on sofa watching dvds to get the embryos to stay around that is when you will hear lots from me as I live on here when I'm on the 2ww.
Love Gemxxx
Going to have to go and get ready.....
Annie
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Post by Annie »

Dear July Ann, Jaye, Caz, Gem, Allison, Tania and all other old MCB/ACBs
Thannks for your lovely thoughts/messages. I think Im going to have to make my own list to keep track of your progress!
love and best wishes
Annie
alypraying
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Post by alypraying »

Hi girls
well I am so upset, the donor has cancelled!!!! This is the second donor I have been matched up with to do this, why do people say they want to have treatment and then pull out don't they know how if feels to be continuously let down. What's more the clinic neglected to phone and tell me that she had pulled out so I took the morning off work to go into London for nothing. They said they were sorry and that I was still top of the list but this is so upsetting, All the things that can go wrong i.e not enough eggs etc I can't even get to start treatment! Anyway it looks as if I will not be starting with you this month, Traci good luck with your donor and good luck everyone having treatment I'll be thinking of you all
take care
Aly
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sharoninsomerset
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Post by sharoninsomerset »

Oh Aly!!

I'm so sorry, how very disappointing and fustrating for you. It is all such a struggle but having to rely on a donor as well! :(

I know things will work out very soon,
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Sx
me 38 DH 47 - TTC - 3.5 years - tubal infertility
4 failed IVF cycles - 1 abandoned
Found to have raised FSH when going for 5th cycle
Now looking at adoption
Let the new adventure start!
Sx
Dagny
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Post by Dagny »

Oh Aly :(

:evil: PANTS :evil:

I am really sorry that this has happened again. What a shitty thing for the clinic not to inform you sooner too.

Keep your chin up and lets hope and pray you won't have to wait too long for another donor.

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Traci
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Post by Traci »

BIG FAT HAIRY B*****KS

Gutted for you , right drink your face off tonight and lets hope that this is an omen that next time is your turn and this one has saved you the trouble and money on not working. Oh I wanted to be your buddy . I will still be there for you when its your turn.


{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Trace x DE NO:2
Allison
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Post by Allison »

Aly,

I'm so sorry that your donor has pulled out. I cant believe that anyone can put you through that and for it to happen twice must be awful. I hope you find another donor soon and that she sees it through to the end and gives you lots of eggies.

I am on a DE cycle as well and live in fear of my donor pulling out as well as not producing enough eggs to share. Its hard enough when you are hoping for a good result from your own eggs (not that I ever got one of them) but worse when you are relying on someone else.

I hope you and DH have more luck in future.

Thinking of you
Allison.
Traci
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Post by Traci »

Well I am officially Downregged so progenova starts tonight and she starts her stims on sunday OMG Its happening.


Trace x
gem
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Post by gem »

Aly so sorry to read your news that is so shitty,cant believe they can do that?
Have a good drink and hopefully a doner will be matched quick to you.
Take care love Gemxxx
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Post by Guest »

Hi Aly

So sorry to hear about your news.......that is such a sh**!

As Traci says go and drink your head off ....your time will come ........this game really does require you to have the patience of a saint!!

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caz1
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Post by caz1 »

My god Aly WHAT a shocker - as if the whole process isnt hard enough. My advice is to get VERY pissed and tomorrow start thinking positivively again about the fact that you are now DEFINATELY going to be top of the clinic's list. I should think they are feeling VERY bad right now and will b pulling out all the stops to make sure its your turn next.
What a bummer tho. :-(

Gem - good luck with the news on the embies tomrrow - sounds like its going pretty well!

Hi Sharon - how you doing?

Hello - everyone else too!!

Had scan today -all fine - looks like theres a few follies there - so all well so far. But its the TESE thats the real challenge for us. Looks like DH will be on the operating table next wednesday and I'll have EC on Thursday. FINGERS CROSSED FOR ALL OF US!!

Cazxx
Sue25
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Post by Sue25 »

Hello Aly sorry to here your bad news my last donor managed to get pregnant naturaly don,t get me wrong I was very pleased for her but disapointed because we had worked our up to starting the cycle .The next donor produce 8 folices so the cycle was cancelled for me .Well the third time is going well and I have ET tomorrow.
So like Trace said I think that sometimes it happens for a reason even though it still a real shit at the moment and really shabby of the clinic to not let you know
Hi Gem I,m originally from wombwell near Barnsley my Mum still lives there and I think I might stay there tomorrow as were at the Care in Manchester our test dates will be pretty close too
Good luck to you all
Sue xx
Traci
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Post by Traci »

Sue
Tell me more . How many eggs and how many embies ? Good luck!!!!
AMITHIS
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Post by AMITHIS »

Hi all,

I just spent a considerable amount of time typing a message and clicked on the button to post but it seems to have disappeared :? .
Like I need the extra frustration right now. Sigh.

Well, the short version is I start stims on Saturday night. Traci, I think you said you start on Sunday?

Could those of you who are further along let me know what to expect from the stims? Is it possible to get through this without gaining a ton of weight? I was looking at some other boards where people were saying they looked 4 months pregnant at the time of ER and that they couldn't fit into their clothes. PLEASE tell me this must be an exaggeration or a very rare case? I can handle the headaches, mood swings, hot flashes, etc. that I've been getting from downregging but I don't think I can deal with becoming a blimp in the span of a few weeks. Were most of you able to stay fairly active up until ER? Sorry for all the questions but I'm starting to get nervous about everything again. Of course, the thing I'm most nervous about is that it won't work but, for the moment, I've distracted myself from that by worrying about all the side effects instead.

I didn't log in for a few days and now I'm overwhelmed by how many of us there are ... and all at different phases. I'm going to have to make a list tomorrow too because I can't keep track.

Hope everyone is having a good night.

AMITHIS
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