Can't hear Heartbeat with doppler at 11wks 1 day

[kholtan]

Vicky~ My heart just breaks for you dear. I am soooo sorry about your baby. We are all here for you and Although there is nothing anyone can say to make it better just know we are all thinking and praying for you and dh. May your hearts heal in Godspeed.
Much love and hugs~
Kimberly

[Vickyp]

Hi everyone

Thanks so so much for your kind thoughts and words - it really does help. I am going in for D & C tomorrow - it's a week now since I found out but I have to say although I have all that time to get used to the idea of having my baby removed it still feels like it's going to be a very upsetting experience. After tomorrow I will be back to 'normal'.

Thanks again to you all. I hope you are all doing okay. Love Vicky

[Vickyp]

I should have said of course reluctantly back to normal! Vicky

[Grey]

Vicky,

Getting past the D&C was a huge step in the healing process for me. Physically my experience was not too bad - I was under a light anesthesia for the procedure, so I wasn't aware of what was going on but I also woke up pretty quickly afterwards. I had very minor cramping the day of the procedure (less than after the egg retrieval, actually) and some off and on spotting for a couple weeks afterwards. It seems strange, but emotionally it was good to get through the D&C as well; it provided a sense of closure that I really needed.

Things *do* get back to normal - a different kind of normal, certainly, but I do feel better today than I ever dreamed I would a month ago. I hope that gives you some hope.

Take care, we'll be thinking of you.