Awaiting Treatment: Part Two :0)

stephjim · Post by **stephjim** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:11 pm

Due date Nov 18th

First OB appt May 9th

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:14 pm

stephjim wrote:Hope, are you running the list now? My due date is Nov 18th. I tried to update it on the other side but I guess it was not heard. My first OB appt is May 9th.

I did not see or read ur update Steph - i have pm'ed u, but maybe that wasnt heard either!

stephjim · Post by **stephjim** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:16 pm

Becky I just saw your message so I have not had a chance to respond yet. I was not being sarcastic with my remark about being heard. There was not ill intentions meant by it at all. Sorry if I offended you.

Hope644 · Post by **Hope644** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:18 pm

stephjim wrote:Due date Nov 18th

First OB appt May 9th

Sorry, I realized you'd put it on there after I posted. I just edited the last one, since I imagine there will probably be other updates soon, i didn't want to bombard the site with the full list everytime... If there are other significant dates that anyone wants included, please post the dates and events I'll update it more.

stephjim · Post by **stephjim** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:19 pm

Thanks!!

nicaliw · Post by **nicaliw** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:13 pm

Wow, this is a fast moving thread. Gonna have to stay on top of it to keep up! Did you all move across from another thread together?

A little more on me since I haven't met all of you.
1st child born 2000, conceived naturally different partner.
1st IVF Nov 2007, transfered 3 2 blasts, froze 4. BFP follwed by M/C at 5 weeks and 3 days...broke my heart

Long wait for FET cause my hcg wouldn't drop quickly, it took 7 weeks to hit 0, then I had to wait for 2 AF before starting BCP's and getting next AF...phew.
FET was postponed by 2 weeks in attempt to thicken my puny lining which wouldn't grow....it stuck at 7mm (6.9 to be precise). RE adviced cancelling cycle but for many reasons we went ahead.
All 4 blast embies survived and transfered all of them, 2 were hatching.
BFP on HPT 5DP6DT, then 200 for 1st beta yesterday @ 9DP6DT.
First scan should be about 6 and a half weeks so I'm thinking May 14th but I haven't scheduled it yet, waiting for 2nd beta tomorrow first.
So, thats me, all caught up. I'm gonna try hard to get all caught up on all of you.

stephjim · Post by **stephjim** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:20 pm

Welcome Nicali!! It is a fast moving group. We are all apart of the original Awaiting Treatment and have moved over here as pregnant women so that we have a place to post pics and talk about the pregnancies.

squeezan · Post by **squeezan** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:34 pm

Mia - Thanks for starting this thread. I love the new name, I wasn't sure about 'graduates' either, it was just a suggestion. I saw your first post this morning but didn't have time to post - now we're into page 2 already.

Becky - thanks for copying the list to here for us, that's a great idea.

miracle - of course its ok to chat with us. I hope we can all still chat on both threads and, as someone said, just have 2 different conversations going

nicaliw - welcome to our new thread. yes, we've all moved from the 'awaiting treatment' thread but new friends are always welcome. Congrats on your BFP, when's your due date?

squeezan · Post by **squeezan** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:45 pm

Rachel/Lara312...
Natural BFP ... Woooo Hooooo!
How fantastic is THAT!!!
It's a girl!!!
Baby Ruby born on 15th April
weighing in at 8lbs exactly

Shantala...
BFP Wooooooo Hoooooooo!
It's a GIRL!!!!
Baby Elliana born 21st April
weighing in at 7lbs 6.5ozs

Beachbaby

ITS TWINS!!!!!!
Wooooo Hoooooooo
Due date .... 22nd July

Su...
BFP! Woooo Hoooooo!!!
1 perfect heartbeat
20 week scan ... 20th Mar
Due 4th Aug

Nimble ...
BFP! Wooooo Hooooooo
20wk scan....27th Mar
Due 5th Aug

WaitingforMia ...
BFP! Woooooo Hooooooo
1st scan ... 25th Feb

Pequele/Steph ...
BFP! Wooooo Hoooooo
1st scan ... Saw one Sac
2nd Scan ... March 10th
Due date ... 31st October

Andreak60 ...
BFP! Wooooo Hoooooo
1st scan ... April 24th

Hope ...
BFP! Wooooo Hoooooo
1st scan ... 4/9
2nd scan ... 4/21
Due December 3, 2008

Stephjim ...
BFP! Wooooo Hoooooo
1st scan ... 4/18
1st OB ... 5/9
Due November 18, 2008
IT's TWINS!!!!!!

Nicaliw ...
BFP! Wooooo Hoooooo
1st scan ... ?

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:47 pm

Hope644 wrote: We ARE all friends here and if friends can't share their feelings with friends, then where is the friendship?? I only wish that your feelings (and all the others') weren't hurt - though I know you all realize it wasn't intentional. Because I do value your friendship, I am grateful that you were able to be honest and that we can resolve any problems without hurt or disolving our group. I really feel like we haven't "split" - but more that we're just having two conversations - of which any of us can partake in whenever we chose.

Hope - that is so perfect! You described in a few words what would have probably taken me pages

We want to be there (cyber presence) to welcome your little ones in the world, and we want you to be there when we are getting sore bums with the stimming.

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:11 pm

Hey Ladies,

Can i just say that i am not in any circumstances 'shutting any of you out' ive had a pm and i cant beleive that u feel that ive thrown u out of the other thread.

Maybe its better that i just go and let u all mingle together, i cant cope with this right now, i dont need the stress of 'seperated threads' as it was put to me!

I feel really crap now - sorry ladies if ive caused a rift, i didnt mean to do that ....

xxxx

Miracle08 · Post by **Miracle08** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:20 pm

Hey there preggo ladies!!!

I miss you girls already....

Has anyone heard from Peq?? I hope everything is ok.

So how are all the mommies and the mommy to be's feeling?

ps
only 3 working days left till my vacation. (Steph i would take you with me if I could!!!)

Hope644 · Post by **Hope644** » Tue Apr 29, 2008 3:12 am

Welshgirl38 wrote:Hey Ladies,

Can i just say that i am not in any circumstances 'shutting any of you out' ive had a pm and i cant beleive that u feel that ive thrown u out of the other thread.

Maybe its better that i just go and let u all mingle together, i cant cope with this right now, i dont need the stress of 'seperated threads' as it was put to me!

I feel really crap now - sorry ladies if ive caused a rift, i didnt mean to do that ....

xxxx

Becks -
I've been thinking about your post for over an hour. I wanted to respond, but didn't know what to say... as you know, I've expressed my feelings on both threads and feel that you are completely justified in your feelings. I don't want any of us to make any one feel "like crap" - that's not what we're here for - we're here to build each other up!!

For everyone else -

I don't want to come across the wrong way - I'm not here to chastise anyone for their feelings if they were hurt by the change. We are ALL entitled to our own feelings about this change.

But that is exactly it is... CHANGE. No one is kicking anyone out of anything.

Mia made the decision to make this thread so that we could share our pregnancy stuff while still being respectful and honoring our sisters who have not yet joined us in being pg. But that doesn't mean that we can't all still talk about American Idol, the crazy differences between us Yanks and our sisters across the pond, or whatever strikes our fancy on the main thread. We haven't been kicked out, we've just chosen to respect the feelings of sisters who are still trying.

I think Becks, Angel, Chriss, Angie, and all the others who expressed their feelings about coming on the thread to see a bunch of pregnancy stuff are all very brave and I admire them for being honest. Every single one of us knows how it feels to know someone who is pg and to want that so desperately. We know better than most how that feels.

I haven't asked Becks who has caused her to feel so badly and I do not want to know - so do not think this is a witch hunt. I do hope everyone, new mommies, pg, trying and waiting, will look into themselves and remember how similar each of us are inside. We've prided ourselves on the incredible support that we give to each other in good times and in bad - we've been through a lot together and we've survived because of each other, I know i've read that more times than one and felt it myself. I hope we can all continue to support each other as we have.

I sincerely appreciate each one of you - you have all been a tremendous blessing to me in one way or another. I hope that I have not offended anyone by this post, but I had to say something... I just couldn't stand the thought of Becks feeling so badly after having just being honest.

Hugs & love to you all...

squeezan · Post by **squeezan** » Tue Apr 29, 2008 7:20 am

Here Here

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Tue Apr 29, 2008 7:34 am

Hope,

Well said!

The bottom line is that we are all still friends and all want to be there for each other. But also being friends we were honest enough with each other in pointing out when our feelings were hurt.

Some of you pregnant women felt a bit restricted in what you said cause you were being mindful of us non- pg women.

While the sometimes we couldn't sign on and moan when we saw happy discussions about progressing pregnancies.

This way, we can all share our feelings without making anyone feel like they have to go away.

Awaiting Treatment: Part Two :0)

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