Lisa P and Gem

JULES K · Post by **JULES K** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 3:45 pm

Lisa and Gem Just wanted to say sorry about your news. As the other girls have said take time out with your dhs to grieve. Thinking of you Love Julie.

wendy30 · Post by **wendy30** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 5:03 pm

Lisa & Gem Sorry to hear your news. Its worth while bearing in mind that they say 1 in 5 natural pregnancies ends in miscarraige for one reason or another and most people never know they were pg in the first place, and I'm sure some of that is down to not implanting. I'm on my third attempt and nothing makes it easier to hear it hasn't worked though, its just worse for us because we don't have the luxury of a chance every month. My mother keeps telling me 'whats for you wont go past you' don't know if thats true but I know that when people like us finally have the babies we want so much they will be loved maybe that little bit more because we had to try so hard. I've got my test on Wednesday but came home early with belly cramps so who knows but in past experience I've found it easier to cope having my period before the test. Keep trying you'll get there Wendy

Lisa Ch · Post by **Lisa Ch** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 5:55 pm

Lisa and Gem really sorry to read your news. I can only ditto what everybody else has said to take care and some time to grieve (also a big bottle of vino!) Will be keeping watch, and maybe joing you, for a cycle in Jan/Feb. Love and hugs Lisa xx

gem · Post by **gem** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 6:29 pm

Thanks sooooooooooooooomuch for the messages we are feeling numb and angry,but it will fade and we will be ready to start in Jan after having a drunk xmas. we have our foolow up nxt tues so I will let you all know what they say.thank you again you guys are amazing. Lisa good luck with your appointment on Thursday. I'l be keeping an eye on all of you so hope you all get lots of positives. I'm having a really fatten tea then we are going to walk up to local pub for a few drinks. Love Gemxx

vickib · Post by **vickib** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 6:58 pm

Gem & Lisa So sorry to read your news today, life can be such a b**ch at times. You both are really strong people booking your follow up appointments and looking to the future. My thoughts are with you both. Have a few drinks tonight. Vicki B XX

caz1 · Post by **caz1** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 7:01 pm

HI gem and lisa just wanted to add my deepest sympathy - poooooor you Gem Your first cycle was about when I did mine in the Summer and you were so sweet and supportive to me then - Really thinking of you both -I know what you're going thru and its grim. BUT it WILL happen for you....hopefully for us all in 2004. Maybe the 3 of us will be cycling together Now take it easy - treat yourselves and dont try and rush yourselves into feeling "normal" again to quickly Take care Cazxx

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 8:33 pm

Just to add my sympathies to you both, nothing I can say to ease the hurt, glad you have your follow ups so quickly, King's can't see me till 5th Dec (and they have lost my notes but that is another story). Take care both of you, have some well earned time out with your DH's Much love Lorraine G

Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 9:39 am

Lisa and Gem, I am so sorry it hasn't worked out for you both this time. I had a failed cycle in July and understand how much it hurts. But our times will come. Take care Love Dolly

loopylou57uk · Post by **loopylou57uk** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 10:56 am

so sorry to hear your news lisa and gem,the pain will get easier,and it will be your turn soon.go out and do some retail therapy it def helped me.love loopy.

Lisa_P · Post by **Lisa_P** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 5:14 pm

Just to say and big thank you for all your kind words and offers of support since we got our -ive yesterday. I've not had as many tears today and am looking forward to the follow up on thursday, then we'll know what timescales we're looking at. Not been on wrok, feel a bit guilty because I'm not ill but feel i'll cry if anyone says anything I don't want to hear. Thanks again, Lisa x x

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