Me 27 DP 28
ttc 6 years started ivf Oct 03 due to M/F
ICSI Oct 03 negative
ICSI April 04 Positive but ended m/c at 10wks
FET Nov 04 positive boy girl twins born 5th july 2005 at 35weeks Blake 6lbs13oz kirsten 6lbs10oz
Just wanted to say how sorry I am that you all got a bad result. I can't believe how cruel this process is. Take time out to grieve and remember there are a lot of people who care about you.
I'm very sorry to see your news. It seems like you are keeping a clear head about things but I know it's got to be frustrating. I seem to recall you had a few frosties this time? Are you planning to use them anytime soon or are you not up to thinking about that yet? Please stay in touch with all of us.
Hugs,
Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
I'm sorry there was bad news for both of you yesterday as well.
I feel terrible for everyone. Yesterday was definitely a bad day all around. Take care of yourselves.
Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
Jaye, Joy and Bronagh .... I am so sorry, and I really feel for you. I know just how horrible a -ve is. It will take a while - but it will get easier in time.
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Joy for more resason this time I am not in such a state as before, as the wee bit of bleeding started last tuesday thats the day I thought it was all over.
I cried alot and went to bed with DH looking after me.
On Friday I had 2 tests and althought I want nothing more than to have children I felt sort of relieved I could make some plans -everything has been on hold this year with 2 IVF treatments , so now I can put in place some plans like going on a new year holiday and moving house in the new year.i
As for the treatment I'm really not sure , I know we probabaly will not get a review appointment before christmas so I'm going to try and not be too obcessive about it- I know Try is the word.
I know we are not at the end of trying because we still want to give something more a go.h am I are going to London for 5 days next week as we need to get our heads showered-beyond this I am going to enjoy Christmas and keep my infertility counselling appointments as they have really helped me get my head together.