Thanks everyone for their lovely comments. I already feel loads better.
Lots of Love
Me 37, DH 51
Twin Boys - Sean Alexander & Samuel Robert
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So sorry to read your news, changing clinic seems like a good idea, it is well worth another try after having the various tests. You will get there, you've got the determination,
loads of love
sue e xx
Age 33 dh 34 Married Nov 03 /ectopic dec 03
1st ICSI start July 05, +ive Hpt 10th oct / m/c
FET Feb - +ive
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I'm SO sorry to learn of your loss. Those two little embryos were fighters, even if they ultimately did not survive. I'm glad to hear that you are doing better and that all these wonderful words of support from the ladies on the board are helping.
I agree that changing clinics is a great idea. And it's worth doing the research that you're doing to find the best clinic for your condition (I've been reading about those immunological tests on the NYC boards -- they seem much more common in the US?) We have to put our bodies through so much that at the very least we need to be at a clinic we feel confident of. If you can find the energy to follow Sandra's advice and just phone your GP for a referral, you'll at least have the option to start up again if and when you feel ready to. I often find it helps to take action around the few things that we have in our control regarding this crazy process.
Sending you and your DH strength and cyber-hugs. Hope you are doing some nice things for yourselves in the coming days.
sml
Me: 38, DH: 39
Jan 06 - 1st IVF -ive
April 06 --2nd IVF, -ive
August 06 -- myomectomy to remove 9 fibroids
April 07 -- IUI, -ive
October 07 -- 3rd IVF, BFP, then early miscarriage
Sorry to hear your news - sending huge hugs to you and DH.
The ladies have done you proud here and posted really good advice - all I can add is that I totally agree about looking into changing clinics - I'm so lucky that we have a good clinic but have heard such horror stories.
I'm glad you are feeling more positive now, give yourself time to heal - take time out for you and DH.
Thinking of you
Kelly x
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Me 26
DH 36
IVF/ICSI Jan 06 -ve
FET May 06 - BFP
1st Scan - 19/06/06
Hope youre doing ok....ive sent you a couple of private messages, would be great to hear from you if youre up to it......let me know if you dont know how to retrieve a private message...
Thinkin' of u,
Lol Donna99 xxxx
Me31 minor endo,DH34,TTC 4.5yrs,
2 -tive iui's, 4 -tive IVFs & 3 cancelled cycles & 1 natural miscarriage.
#5th IVF May'06.BFP .Baby boy born 3/2/07.then nat preg little brother 4 first born, baby boy born 10/3/08!!!!!! WOW! & NOW VERY BUSY!!!