Dancola, Traci & Kerry - Don't give up hope, the only way to know for sure is by the blood test. I know its hard, but try and keep up the PMA if you can. Reading back on old threads, its really does seem as though AF cramps don't mean anything, as does a bit of bleeding.
I will be thinking of you all.
Missmolly
1st IVF 04/05 -ve
2nd IVF (FET) 06/05 -ve
FET July - cancelled as embryo did not survive
3rd IVF (stimulated cycle) - no embryos!
4th IVF 02/06 -ve
January 07 - went interstate to a new clinic and got BFP!!!!!!!
Yep - sad to say all over for me. AF is here and loud and proud! Debra, if you can put me down as a -ve sadly . Will still test just for form's sake but with the amount I'm bleeding there's no way this can be anything but a -ve. Good luck to the others!
Dancola. What time do you test? Of course I can put you down as a -ve but if it's only a few hours, can I wait? The board has seen many going for their test in disappointed tears only to get a +ve. It does happen.
Can I wait until you know for sure?
Big hugs today,
Debra
I test tomorrow with a HPT, but have to say I don't see the point in waiting. This can't be anything but my AF. Last time was a little different, I started bleeding slightly on the Monday, but I now know this was actually implantation bleeding and it didn't turn into AF. Only after my +ve test on the Weds did it change colour and then I suffered huge pains on the Thurs which the clinic told me was the embryo passing out. This time it's different - just straight into full blown AF (have had to use a tampon) so even with the best optimism in the world I can't see this being a +ve. But thanks for the PMA though!
So sorry it looks like a -ve for you this time. Keep posting a lot over the next few days, they'll be esp. hard. Many of us have had several (if not more) tries, we know how hard it is to cope with a(nother) -ve. Good luck at work, I know you don't have support there.
hugs
Debra
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
Sorry girls not helping with the % stats this month...I am also a
-ve...bloodtest this morning, results this afternoon...but AF is here...no doubt about it!
Sorry to hear that Tracii. When I saw that the monthly stats were at 57% I had a feeling that things couldn't last. Fingers crossed for Debra and the others to come that they can get this back on track.
Tracii and Dancola,
So so sorry about -ive. Life is such a bummer sometimes, and can be so unfair. Take your time and allow yourselves to be as miserable as you like for now.
We'll be here waiting for you to moan, or to bounce back for another go.
Thinking of you both.
From Soph-J
Me 33 dp 30
me tubal damage
ist ivf Feb04 -ive
fet July04 -ive
ivf Nov04 +ive twins, but sadly one twin died at 10 weeks gestation. Freya born 21st July 2005. She's amazing!