Oh Dolly, that's so unfair. Let's pray it's late implantation but I won't assume you don't know your own body either. If this is how it has been with the other cycles. Have you thought about having the huge bank of tests done? I know Little P has, 3P wrote a huge post with all the details again recently. It is pricey but seems to be extremely thorough.
Kerry, so sorry to hear your news, you are entitled to be as selfish as you like. Give your self time to get over it.
Debra, great news so pleased for you, take care of yourself !!!
love Lisa xxxxxxxx
Oh and thanks for all your support, not much left for me to do now but cross my fingers and wait. Go for test in morning and get results in afternoon.
Good luck Mrs A
Debra
Congratulations, i am so very pleased for you is it just one or ?????
Dolly I am so sorry sending you cyber hugs, dont forget you are not alone there is so many wonderful women on here who can listen to your woes as well as give you many helpful words of wisdom.
As suspected my test was a big fat negative i still feel compleltely pants I am bleeding more than i ever thought possible and i just want to hid away from the word but life goes on. Dh is really upset although he is trying to hid it, he has been finding it really hard to go to work and leave me. He keeps saying next time you are not aloud to move i am going to make you stay in bed. I have decided to look into yoga as it is supposed to be helpful i have had acupunture before and found it to be extremely relaxing the problem is affording it we have had to go private for the treatment and there isnt much money left floating around, just enough for a few drinks down the pub on a sunday. I try and do extra shifts at work but they are 24 and half hours long and not only very tiering but I also miss DH if i do to many exra and he doesnt like it either.
At the moment i fell like it is never going to work and have been looking on adoption website, we just so much want a family and there is so many hurdles to jump, we have only got enough money for 3 goes and every failure brings us closer to the end, i know it sounds dramatic and it was only our first go. I'm sorry to moan on its not fair because you have all got your own treatments etc.
Hope there is some positive results today from MrsA and Lisa.
Kerry
1 April - Joy -
4 April - CarolineP -
4 April - LoobyLoo -
5 April - Liz -
10 April - Hugo -
10 April - Jude -
13 April- LOS -
15 April - Isabel -
19 April - Tracii -
20 April - Dancola -
21 April - Debra -
22 April - Leigh/Lisa -
22 April - Me/Kerry -
22 April - Mrs A -
25 April - Dolly -
26 April - Joy -
27 April - Elle -
27 April - MissMolly -
29 April - Delly -
Me - stay positive. You will not need more than 3 goes to get your positive result.
Debra - woopee ... at long last!!. You are an inspiration and so brave to keep on going and you've now got your positive. Have you got a test date for your first scan yet?
Dolly - so so sorry you must be feeling really low. But like the others say, still wait for test day.
Nicola - I have sent you a private mail. Tel No of Marilyn Glenville = 0870 5329 244.
Good luck to the other 2ww.
from Sophie-J
Me 33 dp 30
me tubal damage
ist ivf Feb04 -ive
fet July04 -ive
ivf Nov04 +ive twins, but sadly one twin died at 10 weeks gestation. Freya born 21st July 2005. She's amazing!
Kerry, so sorry you got your half-expected BFN. I can imagine you and DH are both looking for answers. You must impress upon him that there was nothing you could have done re. staying in bed, that would have made any difference. It's easy to start looking for things that we've done that could have affected the result. It doesn't always work like that. It also makes it too easy to blame ourselves which isn't helpful when we're already feeling down.
Those extra shifts sound like hell. What do you do?
Big hugs and enjoy those drinks on Sunday. Take good care of yourself and think about what next. Do you have a follow-up apt. booked?