2 week wait anxiety!

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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RMSM
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Post by RMSM »

Hey everyone!
I started this board what feels like a very long time ago and am glad to see it's still up and running. I got my BFN Aug 20 and haven't been able to get back on. My husband was accidentally shot the day after my bad news (he's ok), so it was a CRAZY couple of weeks for me, but things seem to be getting back to normal, finally. I"m going to put this off until Jan/Feb, take Aygenstin to help control the endometriosis, and start again from there.
ANyway, I have two 3.75mg syringes of LUPRON that I am allergic to and no longer need. Does anyone need it or know of anyone who does? It's just sitting in my bag doing nothing and I"m hoping it can help someone without insurance for this, like myself.
Good luck to everyone still trying! Lots of baby dust!!!
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julianna26
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Post by julianna26 »

RMSM -

My goodness!!! :shock: How on earth did your DH get accidentally shot!?? That's horrible!!! :cry: :cry: I'm so sorry to hear that. Well, I hope you are really relaxing and destressing now. :!: :!: :!:

Treat yourself to a nice hot bubble bath, and a glass (or two!) of wine and a virtual big ((((HUG))))) from me. You have really been through a lot. Stay strong and take good care of hubby!!

BEST OF LUCK for your next cycle! Just remember, GREAT THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT. :D :D :D
Me:26 DH:48
ttc - since 1/06 (vas reversal failure)
8/07 - 1st IVF/ICSI - BFN (groan)
Vlada
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Post by Vlada »

Hi guys i had my first US today, there is one baby in there and it has hb already!!! I am not even quite 6 weeks yet, so i am excited, but i got really sick today, my nausea has started a couple of days ago, today is horrible, i am very very nauseous and i throw up constantly. They gave me IV at the doctor's office but i threw up right after it was done. So, I am super exosted right now but very very excited that so far everything is good with the baby.
Love to all
Vlada :D
PS RMSM, i hope that you husband is doing good and wish you best of luck!!!!
icsipixie
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Post by icsipixie »

i have 8 more days until my preg test.. can't wait. we ended up implanting one (day 5) and freezing 7. I hope this works!!!!!!
27 years old
Husband is missing his vas deferens
doing IVF and ICSI
On shots now
Egg Retrieval august 29
Transfer sept 3 or 5
cyclone
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Post by cyclone »

RMSM--Sorry to hear about your husband...glad that he is okay!!

Vlada--How exciting to hear the heart beat!!

Judy-- I'm thinking about you....wishing you well with your next try!

Julianna-- I really haven't had any symptoms yet except for some mild cramping every now and then. So I don't know if that is a good or bad thing. I'm with you...I just wish I knew!! The closer test day gets the more nervous I get. So far I have been really good about not thinking about it but it is getting much harder to do.

I did go shopping the other day and bought some more loose fitting clothes. My bottom is so bruised from the progesterone shots that it was uncomfortable to wear any of my clothes. My husband didn't even complain when I came home from the mall with my purchases and normally he would throw a fit. So that is one bright side to all of the needle poking.

I am trying to decide whether or not I should take a HPT. I think I can wait until the blood test but a part of me wants to just see what it says. My husband thinks we should just wait. So I don't know which I should do.
Me 26, DH 28
2failed IUI's
1st IVF 08/07--BFN
1st FET 12/13/07--BFN
2nd IVF-- 03/08?????
Jill_n_Mark
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Post by Jill_n_Mark »

Hey everyone. Just wanted to let you know that it's a BFN for me :cry: :cry: I don't know what we'll do next, but I will try to keep up on the boards.

Good luck to everyone and wishing BFPs your way :)

Take care,
Jill
Me, 29 and DH, 34 -- TTC #1 for 6 years
IVF #1: Aug'07 -- BFN -- 3 embryos xferred,no frosties
IVF #2: Mar'08 -- BFN -- 5 embryos xferred, no frosties
My IVF journey is now over and I am very sad!
JackieG
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Post by JackieG »

Jill, Im sorry it didnt work for you. No words are good right now.

Just know that you are with a lot of great women who really suuport you.

Take some time for your self.

Hugs to you,
Jackie
5 IVF, 2FET=3Chemical +
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Post by Vlada »

Jill,
I am very sorry about yoru BFN, huge hugs to your and your husband.
Vlada.
julianna26
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Post by julianna26 »

Jill

Again I am so so so sorry... please try and stay positive. And slowly try and make your husband see there can be a light at the end of the tunnel and amazing things can happen to those who wait. I know the waiting is the hardest part, but believe that one day you will be a mother, and you will be. Many women on this forum have struggled and struggled and there are amazing stories out here every week! I'm rooting for you and hoping you the best!

((((HUGS)))))

Julie
Me:26 DH:48
ttc - since 1/06 (vas reversal failure)
8/07 - 1st IVF/ICSI - BFN (groan)
nicoleslp99
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Post by nicoleslp99 »

Hey everyone,
Just wanted to let you know it is the BFN for me also. We are planning on starting the process over at the end of oct with ET for early nov. Good luck to everyone!
Nicole
Vlada
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Post by Vlada »

Nicole,
i hope that you will get your positive in October, best of luck.
Vlada :D
julianna26
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Post by julianna26 »

Nicole,
I am so so sorry. Please keep the faith!!! All of us are here to support you if you need someone to talk to. I hope you are doing ok. :cry:

cyclone,
how are things going with you? I am having trouble with clothes fitting too. I've been living in my 4 pairs of sweat and windpants the last week. One pair of jeans still fit but they are TIGHT! :roll:

Well, everyone, I test tomorrow at 10:10. Still refusing to take a HPT so I'm still clueless as to whether to feel excited or nervous. I am more excited than anything hoping for great news but every once in awhile, I allow some doubt to creep in and I just have to push it away!!!

Hope all of you are doing well and staying positive.

Please think of me tomorrow! :D :D :D :D :D
Me:26 DH:48
ttc - since 1/06 (vas reversal failure)
8/07 - 1st IVF/ICSI - BFN (groan)
Cocoa
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Post by Cocoa »

Julianna:

I pray that tomorrow is the start of your dream come true... Hopefully that fact that your clothes are too tight is a BIG FAT POSITIVE sign!!! :D

Let us know as soon as you can (selfishly I want you to do an HPT 'cause I'm on pins and needles here too...)

Love ya,

Cocoa
1 son b. 1993 -TTC (again) for 12 years
BFP!-8/22-9dp5dt - 485 8/24-1272 8/27-4636
B/G TWINS!!! Due 4/30/08 Born Friday April 4th, 2008 at 36w 2d Baby girl A 6 lbs 7 oz Baby boy B 6 lbs 3 oz
icsipixie
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Post by icsipixie »

I am on pins and needles here! I just can't decide if I should take a HPT.. I test on Thursday, but it's driving me nuts.. every little cramp I get.. I want to run to the bathroom to see if I started my period.. I am trying to hold out.. but.....

I am off to go shopping today in order to stop pacing around my husband.. I think he is quite happy that I am going out and leaving him alone for a bit ;-)
27 years old
Husband is missing his vas deferens
doing IVF and ICSI
On shots now
Egg Retrieval august 29
Transfer sept 3 or 5
doris1
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Beta Level

Post by doris1 »

Hi - I am new to this board so forgive me if I dont get all the details right just yet. On 9/5 we had our first bw check which was 9dpt of 2fe. The beta was 69.9. When I went back on the 7th, 11dpt, it only went up to 78.6. The nurse said it may be a fluke, but I am doubtful and need to go back on the 11th again. Has anyone had this happen, any positive rusluts? Can it really be a fluke?

Keeping my fingers crossed!

2 IUI - 2/07, 3/07
1st IVF - Cycle cancelled
2nd IVF - 5/07 BFN, 2 FE
3rd IVF - 8/07...........
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