December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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My Hello dear! Thanks for keeping us posted! Wow, 13 eggies, but that's amazing! :) Are you saying that you wanted more because you're hoping to have little frozen embies or because you're concerned about the fertilization rate?

Sorry to hear that you're not too well after your intervention... how did it go?

Take care and I hope DH takes good care of you! And I'll mentally cheer all your DH's best swimmers! ;)

Sophie 8)
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MY- that is awesome, don't fret about the #'s it is QUALITY!!!!
awesome! now relax and be pampered!

Mom - i wish i had the magic words for ou, just know that I am praying for you to get your ray of sunshine, you need a break girl and not the one from falling! I hope you feel better!

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hello ladies,

i hope i can join you in the wait. i go for b/w fri jan 12 to confirm that this is my day 0. i start puregon on mon jan 15. :shock:

i am so scared yet so excited at the same time. work is a bummer as they always give me a hard time for taking time off, thats so stressful! :(
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Hey ladies,

Just to let u know - my appointment has already come thru for my NHS attempt! I know its only a consultation, but they sent me a letter end of dec saying 6mths! Im stunned it came thru so quick - anyway, to put u all out of ur misey, its Wednesday 7th Feb, will come back later once ive gotten over my shock (and excitment - ooooooooooooooooo)

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Hello... me again, guys!

I know I've been posting a lot, but no patient was scheduled for me here (ah, research settings!) and I'm bored to tears so I have pleeeeenty of time to surf the net! ;)

And well, I was making a few modifications to my schedule here so people take it easy during my transfer week and are aware that I might not be available on my possible ER/ET dates... and that got me thinking.

What do I want to do in terms of taking it easy after my transfer?

So I thought about some of the Do's and Don'ts I read on the thread here... and I did a MEDLine search (scientific articles). Here's my two cents:

Just a note about baths. It's TRUE that you can't take baths for a good week after any surgery that left a wound on your skin. Some clinics do egg retrieval through general anaesthesia and laparoscopy. Of course people can't take baths then because of infection risks! They have surgery wounds!! But with more "mainstream" ER, there's no reason to worry about infections. The thing about hottubs is that pregnant women are told to be very CAREFUL about taking too hot jacuzzis (same for kids under 12), because the too hot water could make their blood pressure rise too much and cause trouble. But they're not forbidden to take hot tubs or jacuzzis because of that; just told to be careful about water temperature.

I checked on MEDline for scientific articles on IVF and specifically about bed rest. I don't remember who here is a massage therapist and talked about the dangers of bed rest for blood circulation, but she was totally right. ALL of the studies I read concluded that bed rest after embryo transfer, whether as little as 20 minutes after transfer or 24 hours after transfer, has absolutely no impact on implantation or pregnancy rates.

The reason why some clinics still recommend it is that, at the very beginning of IVF procedures, when the knowledge was not as detailed as it is today, doctors recommended complete bed rest because it was the logical thing for them to do. And then gradually, people started to question that and tested that theory. The results are there, and on thousands of IVF patients. It makes no difference. If your clinic recommends you 48 hours of complete bed rest, I would want to discuss the recent scientific findings with them if I were you.

Some studies went further than just testing whether or not bed rest makes a difference, however. They tested whether bed rest had a negative impact on implantation and pregnancy rates. Some studies found it is the case. They compared a 20 minutes bed rest after transfer to a 24h bed rest and found that the women who were in bed rest for 24 hours had significantly lower implantation and pregnancy rates than the others!

Some of these studies also tested other things patients did despite what their clinic recommended: walking slower, no exercise at all, avoiding stairs, and so on. Again... no impact on implantation or pregnancy whatsoever.

It's tempting for me to do all these things anyway as well; I'm like all of you, I want to give it the best try possible. However, I'll keep these studies in mind and I'll keep the nurse's advice in mind. Don't misunderstand me; I certainly won't blame someone for taking some time off to focus on themselves, pamper themselves or just cope with stress by keeping a stressor (e.g. work) at bay for a few days. And I don't judge those who'll choose to do all kinds of small and big extra things in hopes that it will impact on their chances, but I'll do my best to avoid doing that. I feel that women do these things to feel better about themselves and be reassured, but medically, all the evidence points towards the fact that it has no impact whatsoever. And in some cases, when you limit yourself so much that you either become overstressed, unhappy, or impair your blood flow by staying too inactive, it can actually impact negatively on your chances.

My two cents... that info helped me; it might help others.

Sophie 8)
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Hello bec,

Your post was so kind that I did not want to leave it unanswered.

You're right; it's true that looking at all the steps as milestones on a longer road is an advantage. It might even have been you who, not so long ago when I was freaking out at my delayed AF, told me that it's easy to lose focus and lose sight of the whole forest by looking at only one tree.

Don't worry! I'm not changing my nick! :lol: Still keeping the faith and sharing that whole experience with you guys, the good, the bad and the ugly stepping stones as you called them, brings me a lot of comfort. And I'll soon know what the future has in store! :) Just like all of you here will!

Take care sweetie!

Sophie
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Sophie I swear we read all the same internet stuff hehehe,
I was so concerned about the dos and don't going thru this all. I am one of the "go to the gym 7 days a week" girls. very active, very get up and go, and when I knew that so many recommended bed rest and all that I did all kinds of research, of course whatever it takes to get knocked up I would do it, but for me, i get a bit more stressed not regularily working out. even my doc and nurses confirmed that honestly there is NOTHING you can really do to up your chances. they told me not to go run a marathon after transfer, but Who the hell would want to try after Retrieval only days earlier. But yes i took about 5 days off from seriously working out after transfer, instead I went for walks. but I did go back at a modified pace and am BFP! I think it was so hard to really believe that what I did could effect the outcome for implantation. but I had to trust in God, and just know that one of these times it would work, it SUCKED when it didn't but I knew I did everything I could have done.
Just so hard o let go of that control in a way. and just "Be" I don't know the answers, I wish I did. I just know what I needed to do to be ok with my own self going thru this.
I have grown alot this year going thru IVF, and I am SO blessed to be going tomorrow to see how my little peanut is doing. It is scary how every clinic tells you different things. I am just so lucky that mine is really on the most recent studies, and lets us be people not just ivf patients.... ok i guess i soap boxed it for a while! hehehe.
Good findings though and good to share them with everyone here. oh and I am the massage chickie :) mmmmm massage!
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Hi Ladies,

Sophie... thanks so much for the information. I took it very easy day 1 after my ET and semi-easy after Day 2. I did have a BFP, but who knows if that had anything to do with it. Ultimately lost it, so go figure. I think each individual needs to probably do what they are comfortable with. Besides it is a good excuse to either pamper yourself or let yourself be pampered by DH. Thank you also for the website you recommended regarding IVF questions. Interestingly enough, I am allergic to nuts, not peanuts, but given that the prog. shot could be in peanut oil I'm wondering if that's my issue. In the meantime, my creeping crud has covered my lower back and I want to rip my skin off. Still out of town and was able pick up aveeno anti itch and some Benadryl topical creme. Looking forward to seeing the dr. tomorrow.

My... Lucky 13, that's awesome!!

Kslany... Welcome to a very active and supportive thread. We are all here for you.

Mom... I went into this huge depression after my 2 months on Chlomid. I have no doubt it caused me some kind of imbalance and will never take it again. I talked at length with my dr. about going on an anti-depressant and he said that the risks of me not taking anything were higher than me taking it and that depression and pregnancy don't mix. That's all I needed to hear. I needed a healthy mind to make this work, so I gave in and am taking a very low dose of Lexapro. I really strugggled with this decision, but I do feel so much better. Not pushing drugs, but don't beat yourself up if you think it will help you.

More personals later, off to rub some Aveeno on myself.

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Ange- ahhh peanut oil..
i BET that is it! oh hon I hope it goes away soon. and as the commercial says
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Okay, I HAD closed the window... but hehehe I checked again just to see... and I found... and well... here I am again.

Gotta turn that puter off! ;)

Bec my girl, I'm not surprised we read the same stuff; we're quite alike on some aspects you and me I think! ;) I remember you talking about training a lot (I admire you for that... unless I train by dancing, it's difficult for me to stay motivated... ah, but at least I do 30 minutes of stationary bike three times a week plus the flamenco! better than nothing!). Your labor and delivery will be like a day at the spa with a trained body like yours! (lol, I can hear all the mommies here grumble "yeah, right!" :lol: ) Personally, I'm really looking forward to become pregnant so I can have a pretext to start yoga. Silly how I wait till then, huh, but... I'm waiting! But the second that BFP hits me... hehehehe! Plus I'm sure I'll find a Stott's Pilates DVD for preggies somewhere...

Where was I?

I think your clinic's attitude is really the best. My doctor told me, and the nurse commented on that too, that women have become pregnant naturally since forever by just carrying on with their normal activities. Some had sex, some exercised, some worked hard in the fields or in other jobs... some were waitresses or nurses, for example, and had to stand all day long. I think your clinic and my clinic's attitudes really help take some stress of their patient's shoulders.

I agree 100% with you; some people try to control the uncontrollable by doing all these things. It is comforting in a way. And like in everything, it's always a challenge to just BE. hehehe still working on that!

Oh, and for the record honey, we're ALL looking forward to see how your little peanut(s) is/are doing tomorrow! ;) (still convinced it's a singleton, huh?)

Ange, I'm glad that the information helped. Yes, going with what you're comfortable with is the key, I could not agree more! ... as long as that "comfortable" is backed by reliable info! ;)

And I'm really sorry about that rash! Wow, it's really starting to sound intolerable! Poor thing! Does the Aaaaaaaaaaaaveeno help? You know Aveeno bases its product on a fact that's been well-known for ages! Try taking a bath with a cheesecloth or something like that filled with oatmeal (and tied, unless you want to bathe in a gicantic bowl of oatmeal!). Let it soak in the water for a while and then rub the little bag against your skin. It feels a little gooey, but it works wonders for the skin (I have VERY itchy legs during winter... viva electrical heating!).

I really hope your doctor can help! And if it's the oil, well, good news! There are alternatives! :)

Keep us posted dear!

Tata!

Sophie 8)
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ImageCongratulations BFP
Image(Becky cyber GM)
ImageJaby...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp5dt...
3rd January .....First US???
ImageBecleo...BFP
Beta 141 ?Dp?dt...
26th December .....2nd Beta 194
11th January .........1 Perfect beanie
Imagelisag999...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp?dt...
17th January .........First US
ImageJordan ...BFP
Beta # 1 at 6dpFET 3
Beta #2 at 8dpfet 5
Beta #3 at 14 dpfet 71
Beta #4 at 16 dpfet 225

ImageTESTING TODAY

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amcsmith...Testing 13th...ImageHPT +ive (11th)Image
Raintree...Testing ??...Image6 Perfect Eggs.. praying for themImage
My2LnT...Testing 25th...Image13 Perfect Eggs.. praying for themImage

STIMMINGImage
ImageGROW FOLLIES GROWImage
ImageJodic...IVF...12th January.......ImageUS (14-18 follies so far)
ImageVickie...IVF...12th January.......ImageFollie Scan (14 follies so far)
ImageTansRN...FET...12th January...ImagePoss ET
ImageSilvaCharm...IVF..w/c ??th January.......ImageFollie Count(15thPoss EC)
ImageEms1971...IVF...??nd January...ImageFollie Count(22nd EC?)
ImageSamB...IVF...??January...ImageFollie Count(??Poss EC)
ImageMacca...IVF...??th January.......ImageFollie Count?(EC 22nd jan)
Imagecookholmes...IVF...??th January.......ImageFollie Count?(EC 20th? jan)

"Ovarian Vacation"
ImageLara312...FET...11th January......ImageStart Down Regging(29th Jan Baseline)
Imagebeachbaby...FET...10th January......ImageDown Regging
ImageAnge...IVF...12th January......Image (On BC)Start Down Regging
ImageFed...IVF...13th January.....Image(On Lupron)Start Stimming)17th Scan)
ImageFionaA...FET...13th January.....Image (On BC)Start Stimms
ImageTony...IVF...14th January.....Image(Down Regging)Start Stimming?
Image Haylie...FET...15th January......Image(Down Regging) US
ImageAMD...FET...16th January......Image (On Lupron) Transfer
Imagecharlie78...IVF...17th January....Image(Down Regging) Start Menopur (29th Poss EC)
ImageSSalgado...IVF...17th January.....Image(On BC) Start Lupron
ImagePMApsy...IVF..18th January......Image(On Lupron)Surpression Check (19th start Stimms)
ImageEmma27...FET..18th January.....Image(Downregging) Start Stimms?
ImageArizonaKiwi...IVF...23rd January......Image (On BC) Start Stimming (5th feb follie count)
ImageAunty...IVF...24th January......Image(Downregging) Suppression Check and Start Stimms
Image Hopeful-in-LV...FET...25th January.....Image (On Lupron) Transfer
Imagesassynlv...FET...25th January...Image (BC) Transfer
ImageSanny...IVF..??.......Image

COUNT DOWNImage
Imagekislany...IVF...12th January.......ImageOvualtion check (15th Start Stmms)
JackieG...IVF...12th January.......ImageUS (waiting to start ?? Feb)
Shantala...IVF...16th January.......Image Open Day at clinic
mominwaiting...IVF...17th/24th January.......Image Start Lupron
BigWhiteHapyDog...IVF...20th January.......Image start BC dep on AF (Baseline 2nd Feb)
Becky...IVF...7th February.......ImageFollow up with new clinic
Jemima...IVF...20th February.......Imagestart BC
mcmillac...FET...??th January.......ImageTransfer
Meg12...IVF...??th January...ImageWaiting on AF Image(Waiting to start E2)
Angie65...IVF..??th January.......ImageWaiting on AF Image
Michela.....?? January.......Image1st Cycle start
Sully...IVF...??th January....Image ??

ImageIN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS AS YOU MOVE FORWARD
Dory so sorry wishing you well in the future
Gbnut in our thoughts and prayers
Angie in our thoughts and prayers
Carolyn in our thoughts and prayers
Tex in our thoughts and prayers
SSalgado in our thoughts and prayers
TCBalgord in our thoughts and prayers
Ange so sorry for your loss in our thoughts and prayers
Sokru8 in our thoughts and prayers

Prayers for a baby belly for you
Nimble cycle Jan/Feb
Souris cycle Jan/Feb
Mom20 cycle march/april
BabyBlue cycle march/april
HelloKitty cycle 2007
Charity cycle 2007/2008

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Aunty....8th February,Nimble.....7thMarch,Shantala.....9thMarch,Angie.....20th March,Becleo.....3rd April
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Ok ladies sorry it took me so long to get back on here and man have I missed alot!!!! I had some issues to work out and now I am on hte right track I am going to start on leupron either Jan 17th or 24th have'nt gotten exact date yet. I will do my best to keep you updated when I can. I should know by tomorrow for sure !! YIPEE, I am so excited to just be starting I could just jump over the moon. It has already been such a struggle just getting to this point I feel I can handle anything!!! :D
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arizonakiwi: congrats on getting your schedule. i love that! Oh, and btw, spent a month or so visiting NZ a few years ago... and fell in love! Ah, you live in Eden.

Aunty: could you be a dear and change me from IVF to FET... and my FET date will be Jan 25. Thanks! Lupron sure is pullin' a doozy on you, huh? Are you on the same dose for the next 8 days? oh, and the icon you used for my's dh swimmers was a classic!

Bec: gl on us, we will be waiting to hear...

Rachel: congrats on finally getting to start tomorrow. bravo!

Vickie: 14 sounds good (i know if you were expecting more, you may be disappointed... but i think you did great!).

Mom20: hoping your arm and wrist are improving. Yipee (!) on getting your schedule. Please don't let the "blues" go on too long w/o help... i made that mistake in the past and regret it like you wouldn't believe...

My: 13 eggs retrieved. Congrats.. will look forward to your fert report!

Kislany: Welcome to the thread-- and the IVF rollercoaster. You have lots of ladies here for support!

Becky: Fantastic news!!! Feb 7th is right around the corner!

Ange: Hoping you get some relief after your MD appt tomorrow. My money is on allergy!!

Mominwaiting: oooo, so glad to hear that you will be starting up here soon. Good for you!!!

Well, ladies, i am exhausted after all those personals...

Have a great evening!
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Evening lady's
MY big congratulations 13 is a fantastic number sending prayers they are making magic as we write....hope you feel ok when will they let you know about fert rate?.....sending hugs

Sassy sweetie im sorry ive changed it ding bat i am...i know your doing FET just copied the and forgot to change everything...hugs

Momin its sooo good to see you and with great news too excellent on getting a plan lets us know as soon as you know big hugs on your starting

Bec soooo excited about your scan i can imagine how nervous you must be please know we will all be thinking of you...

Raintree...praying for a healthy embie count for you

Jodic good luck with your follie count and dont forget i was told on my last cycle i had 5 follies we got 11 eggs all mature so you never know

Lara congratulations on starting down regging hope it goes smooth for you with not to many side effects

Fed good luck with your scan ooo i hope it all comes back great so you can start your egg food...

Sophie a lot of what you wrote makes good sense i know of one lady who had her FET was told to get up get dressed right after with no rest at all and shes due to deliver her twins any week now i remember when she came back from the clinic she was sure them sending her on her way so soon would mean a BFN...

Ange Awwww poor lumpy butt that sounds awfull and your right its nuts to get it after stopping the meds i hope it clears up soon for you and im pleased your going to the Dr's

Becky woohoo on getting your appointment so fast im so esxcited and i hoep you get the news you need to help make your little blessing

Kislany very big welcome to you i know your going to get lots of support here with so many on a very close time line to you hugs

well im still so dang tired but no headache today so thrilled about that but i know the Lupron one kicks in soon so making the most of this...LOL i think i read someone say you dont get cysts on Lupron truth is you can i usually get one or two but it hasnt interfered with any of my cycles yet fingers crossed usually my baseline im all clear surpression there you go cysts are us....maybe im one of the few....just kinda lumpy anyway??

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