Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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rypell1985 wrote:I AM SUPRESSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Holy moly I cannot even begin to express my excitement over that phone call!!!!!!!!!! I go for a lining check on 11/29 for a transfer date of 12/3. I am thanking my lucky stars!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ryann - OMG I just yelled YAY so loud I woke up my napping dog LOL. Oh, I am sooooo happy for you!!!! WOO-HOO!!! :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
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Thank you SO SO much for the congrats! I was so excited after listening to my voicemail that I totally scarfed my lunch so I could go call DH and my mom that now I wanna throw it back up!

Here is my craziness planning ahead...Sonya and Tammy, please chime in here....So I will be transfering 3 day embies on 12/3...my 1 year wedding anniversary is 12/12. How many days past ovulation am I that day? 12? Can I POAS and wish my DH a happy anniversary with a positive stick?!
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**** **** **** - Tammy I am so sorry. I really had a good feeling about this cycle for you and I was praying for a BFP, but I guess you know your body better than me ;) you already knew. I think you are right about easing it with POAS. Enjoy a glass of wine for me. I know you are eager to start again but have you considered waiting 3 mos and doing DHEA? I swear by this thing now. Wishing you all the best! HUGE HUGS! I know everyone is different but in this protocol and with DHEA I got 14 eggs out of 14 follies and the max eggs I ever got was in my #1 in 2008 and it was 7. My RE did antagonist but added Femara... maybe your RE can tweak things a bit?
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Tammy-I am so sorry for your BFN..I really am. Been thinking of you and praying for you. As far as me. After ER I was pretty bloated and sore then it got better just until yesterday..I did POAS and BFN so maybe my body is just nuts! idk wish I had a answer...monday will tell. Best of luck to you on your next cycle. you are a strong woman and you will get your BFP I know it! keep me updated have a glass or me..i like white wine

Rio-Thanks. I was actually being "tough" and not calling my RE and finally I gave in and she said come in its prolly nothing! well its something and if it means possibly pregnant thats great if not guess I will be better soon! glad your feeling good and watch out for those sticks..(poas) makes me even crazier..lol I had faint lines 8po and 9po so must have been trigger still bc bfn today..I am trying to keep my PMA and hope for the best :D
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TammyS wrote:Ryann...Yayyy!!! That is wonderful news.

Lauren...It is a huge sign of pregnancy. Question for you....did you feel crappy after ER, then got a little better, then got worse again? That is a huge marker for pregnancy. Did you poas this morning?

Rio...Hope to hear good news about your little guy...let us know when you hear.

AFM: I know my body well. Beta = 1.0...which is very negative. First, I ripped off 3 bandaids since they had to poke me 3 x's for blood today! Grrr!!! Then, I ripped off my estrogen patches. And, now I am enjoying a glass of wine.

POAS may not be for everyone, but for me...it slowly over 3 days...got me in the right mindset for the bad news. I dont regret it one bit. Had I waited till Tuesday to hear the nurse say, "I'm sorry"...it would have been much much worse for me.

On to my next cycle. AF will be here Tuesday. Please move me back to "Waiting for AF"...Thanks Amanda.

I am so sorry Tammy. Wish you all the best.Big hugs!!!!
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Tammy - I'm so sorry hun! It just plain sucks!! But we're ready to cheer you on again, so up the list you go! Enjoy that wine and give Zach a big hug.

rio - I just know you're going to get that BFP! With 4 beautiful embies, I think the question will be how many will you get.

Lauren - I am so glad you went to see the doctor! PHEW - that could have been really dangerous if you hadn't. You be super super lazy now ok???

AFM, so I went to the dermatologist and it turns out I have eczema. It doesn't look like any eczema I've ever seen but I guess it's brought on by itching from seasonal allergies (which I must say were pretty nasty this fall.) And it is true, I was itching like crazy for a good week or so before the rash part of it started. I already have 2 kinds of psoriasis so I was like - oh great, more skin ailments?!? But he gave me a prescription for some ointment that's safe to use while pregnant and he said I should completely clear of it within the next 10 days. Thank God because I am so sick of scratching!!!
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:( I just got an email that said our little embryo did not "meet the criteria to freeze" so he is gone. I feel really weird and crying. We always put them all in and I felt weird leaving one there and poor guy not making it. Call me crazy emotional but I am really sad for our one little guy... :( I know - I am officially in Crazytown here crying for my embryo I left behind...

klinger - glad the rash will be gone soon! The allergies were horrible here in the west too.
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Ryann - WOO FRIGGIN' HOO FOR YOU!!! :D :D :D :D What a wonderful phone call that must have been! This is such awesome news for you, I couldn't be happier for you and your DH! 100% preggo bridal party, HERE YOU COME!!! :wink:

Karian - Super fert report!!! Take care of yourself, and DRINK THE WATER girl!!! Especially with all the eggs they got... I really liked slices of citrus fruit in my ice water to give a little something when I was drinking over a gallon a day.

Amanda - I'm hoping the doc has something that works for you. You must be miserable! :( Being preggers really limits treatment options though... maybe a homeopathic technique like rubbing oatmeal all over yourself??? j/k :lol: I hope you feel better ASAP! :D

Anna - waiting for POAS results for the day... ... ...

Rio - I'm sure that embie will be a great li'l frosty! Enjoy being PUPO :D You'll be getting that BFP before you know it!!! :D :D

Tammy - So sorry to hear the official BFN :cry: Enjoy that glass of wine (or 2, or 3... or a whole bottle), you sure deserve it after all you've been through! You're in my thoughts and prayers. This coming cycle will be MUCH better, I'm sure of it.

afm - Turns out my back pain WAS from the tumble I took in our garage last Tuesday, I pulled a ligament in my tailbone. According to the OB my RE sent me to (since he didn't feel it was pregnancy related) these things can take 6 weeks to heal! Fabulous!!! OHSS and now this... :roll: Good news is, the pain seems to be getting quite a bit better already. Hopefully by this time next week I'll be fit as a fiddle and able to go on a few walks a week to stay in some kinda shape :lol:

I hope everyone has a lovely afternoon and a wonderful weekend!
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Tammy... I must have been posting at the same time...I didn't see you beta results. I am so sorry :(
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12.15: 275 12.17: 824 12.20: 3,408
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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Hi Everyone,

I suppose I'm invading the space (forgive me), but I still silently linger to see how everyone is doing, and praying for all those who helped me during my cycle in the summer group. Congratulations to all the BFPs and baby dust to those miracles that just haven't come yet (but they will).

Lauren, I did want to provide a little personal experience on the OHSS situation. About a day before my ET I began to swell in my stomach causing a lot pain and it got worse after the transfer, so much so that I asked to skip all the nurses and have my RE call me directly and explain what was happening to me. Thankfully he is one of a kind and did :). Anyways, the nurses would make the same statements as you are getting, that this was a great sign that I was pregnant and if I was indeed pregnant, unfortunately there was nothing that could be done outside of waiting it out by getting plenty of rest, drinking plenty of water, and increase my sodium intake. I did become pregnant and was soooooo miserable for about 4 weeks in total with no pain relief until the last day or two, when it just all of a sudden subsided. Shortly after, I had my ultrasound and we found two healthy heartbeats and all has been well since. When I was released to my regular OB at 9weeks we discovered that I had a remaining 7cm cyst on my ovary that the ob said should go down as I enter the 2nd trimester, but a little concerning b/c it was so huge. I just had my 15.5w checkup last Mon and the cyst had nearly resolved and is broken down into 2 tiny ones that are more normal at this stage of pregnancy. I'm currently 17w1d with boy/girl twins and though the OHSS (which they called mine moderate also) was nearly unbearable, it is a thing of the past and so far, it was worth it. All that to say, it doesn't help right now with the pain, but could definitely be a good sign of pregnancy. :)

This journey hasn't been quite the ride I pictured in my dreams (but I suppose if we're on this site, none of our journeys are going as planned/dreamed/hoped for), but I'm still praying for the best for myself and all of us fighting this heartbreaking infertility battle. Take care everyone and remain encouraged. Infinite baby dust to you all!

God Bless!
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Amanda - You must have been posting when I was typing... Ointment is waaaaaaay better than oatmeal! :lol:
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baby_blu73 wrote:Amanda - You must have been posting when I was typing... Ointment is waaaaaaay better than oatmeal! :lol:
baby_blu - one night I was so desperate I put oatmeal in water, got it all mushy and rubbed it all over my torso then wrapped myself in wet paper towels. DH probably thought I'd lost my mind as I walked around the house in that lovely outfit. But after about 20 minutes, I'd scratched through all the paper towels so my outfit was shortlived. With the ointment, I've already gone over an hour without scratching -that's a record compared to the last few weeks!
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Renee...so good to hear from you! Congrats on the boy/girl twins!!! You must be so excited! Thanks for checking in!
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FET1-Dec '10 BFP!
12.15: 275 12.17: 824 12.20: 3,408
Boy & Girl Due 8.22.2011
Born 7.13.11 @ 34 weeks

Natural BFP
Boy due 5.08.2013
8.30: 66 9.05: 747 9.08: 2,596

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Hi ladies,

Ive actually talked to a couple of you in PM but have read about all of you for a long while now and thought Id join. I had 2 polyps removed and a D&C done on Tuesday 11/9. Im waiting on AF, not really sure how long thats supposed to take following my surgery as I was due to start my regular period on 11/19. Im doing a FET in the coming weeks. I did my first IVF in July 2009 and got pregnant with my DD that I had at 25 1/2 weeks gestation January 12, 2010 due to PROM. Unfortunately she died May 29,2010 from complications of CMV that I contracted somehow somewhere during pregnancy.
Its been almost 6 months since my DD died and Ive been going to alot of different specialists to try to prevent what happened last time. I have one blast grade 4 AB to transfer. I know for my age Im sure thats not enough but worth a shot anyways. I know that every situation is different but we all want the outcome to be the same. Im glad to have found a group that is so open to talk about everything and anything. What a blessing you all are! My prayers and best wishes to you all!

~~ Heather~~
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You know that news that I was talking about before...

Well my sister-in-law and also my best friend and my asshole brother are pregnant. They got pregnant on Zach's birthday and we would have been 13 days apart when I miscarried. Becky and I had been wanting to get pregnant together for a very long time...and getting my asshole brother on board has been a chore. We had even been looking at houses in their neighborhood for about a year now...we hate their neighborhood...just so our kids could go to the same schools. The houses are all capes 10 feet from each other...not our style and we want some property to breathe in...but Becky and I had a dream. She went off bcp's back in May and my asshole brother (are you seeing a trend here yet) was slowly getting on board. Asshole brother has an almost 20 yr old girl (he doesnt speak to her...they have been fighting for a couple of years now with me in the middle) and a 10 yr old girl whom he has shared custody with...with a second woman. Becky, whom has become my dearest best friend ever (she's the 3rd mother...poor thing didnt know what she was getting into when she married my asshole brother)...has a 12 yr old and a 9 yr old boy. So they have 4 kids...but they only have 3 that they even acknowledge...they even have the almost 20 yr old blocked on FB. Mind you, my brother and I were inseparable best friends until about this time last year, when things went from bad to worse.

So long story short...he picks yet another fight with me last month when stimming...calling his wife and I a liar ...saying that we went to Baby Gap to go baby shopping ruining the experience for him and wife. We never went there...we went to regular Gap so I could get a couple of polos for Bill's birthday. I reminded him that baby shopping was the last thing on my mind because I had just had a miscarriage...and he calls me a liar again. That is just one example of what he has done and said to me recently...and mostly it is because I am trying to keep a good relationship with his daughter (for his and her sake)...and he is pissed about it.

Needless to say...I am still talking to Becky, but not like we used to...not at all...maybe 1-2x's a week right now. We used to talk/see each other everyday. They live 15 minutes from us right now. Asshole brother wouldnt even let her babysit for me while I went to my SnS appts. She has been pretty good about not hurting my feelings...even though she texted me at 5:50 am waking me up ....to tell me that she went to the hopsital to get fluids because she was sooooo sick...the day after my shity-ass news on the embryos after ET. The poor thing...(said with a little bit of sarcasm)...because I told her repeatedly to go get some meds for the major m/s she was getting and she refused to believe me that it was fine and safe to take (things have changed in 10 yrs)! She never once remembered to even ask me if I made it to ER or even ET. She's been too sick to even get online and see the news on FB.

Fast forward to today. She had her first ob/gyn appt today at 1 day short of 10 weeks...I cant believe she waited that long...but asshole brother HAD to be there. Asshole brother who was told to never text me again after all of the horrible text messages he sent while I was stimming and stressing me out...texts me today right when I am finding out the bad news, to say..."There is a heartbeat!" I sent my SIL a text back since I refuse to indulge him..."Congrats on a great appt. I am soooo happy for you. I just got the official news...not pregnant." My brother...not even 5 minutes later...post his good news on FB...to rub it in my face. Would have been nice if he had waited even 2 hrs...since he knew I would be posting it on FB, as I always do. He waited 10 weeks...what is 2 more hours...just to be considerate? We have many many of the same friends/family. My post..."We are not pregnant"...came in right after his on the "recent news feed". Fucking nice. Yes, I'm open about IVF on FB. Even worse...I'm pretty sure that his 20 yr old daughter...is about to find out now from someone other than them...that they're having yet another baby.

Yep, I need a second glass of wine now. Sorry to rant and write such a long story...but it sure feels good to get it off my chest right now. If you got this far...you all deserve...a great big chocolate chip cookie. Thanks for listening.
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3 IUI
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IVF 2~4.5.10 M/C
IVF 3~8.6.10 BFN
IVF 4~9.5.10 M/C
IVF 5~10.30.10 BFN
IVF 6~11.29.10 M/C
IVF 7~2.3.11 M/C
IVF 8~Cancelled
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