Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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riogirl71
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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SONYA CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!

Tammy - English is my second language so I am sorry if I mistake sympathy. I take it more as support and love and in no way do I see it as pitty. So I am sorry if I offended you. I never meant you posted for a pity party but what I meant is that we post our ups and downs here to get cheered on for good things but also to get much needed care and support for bad news. I hope you did not take it the wrong way, I never meant you posted this here asking for Sympathy, we all vent and it helps and we support you. I vented here when my mom and in laws were jerks and it feels good to be validaded, vent and to get support. :) I am sorry he is such an insensitive jerk. I understand you want to go to Tgiving there but please be careful.

Thank you Cass!

moore- ouch 7th week? Man I don't know how long I can last this crappy!

klinger post your us pic tomorrow!
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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Oh heavens Rio...I didnt take it the wrong way at all. I know exactly what you meant...no worries. I am just simply saying that "my brother" has me questioning everything I write now. I havent posted on FB or my mommys board in 2 days now...because everytime I go to write something...I stop, think, and rethink it. That is why I mention hestitating to even post here...because of how my brother made me feel.
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3 IUI
IVF 1~1.28.08 Zach
IVF 2~4.5.10 M/C
IVF 3~8.6.10 BFN
IVF 4~9.5.10 M/C
IVF 5~10.30.10 BFN
IVF 6~11.29.10 M/C
IVF 7~2.3.11 M/C
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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DandMe wrote:One precious heartbeat.... 139.... measuring 7w3d (two days ahead). I'm in total shock!!!

CONGRATULATIONS SONYA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
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Sweetie Pie -Low count
IVF Oct 2009 -CP
IVF June 2010- BFN
IVF Nov 2010-BFP- Ectopic
FET- 4/15, BFP (hpt)- 4/19
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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Oh Sonya I am so so so so so happy to hear the good news I can't even begin to tell you. The ultrasound is beautiful!!!! As anyone who has lived through a blighted ovum it is so great to see that they don't happen every time and that there is hope for the rest of us. I feel super inspired by you. Wishing you a happy and uneventful pregnancy.

Big Hugs

AFM BFN. Very very sad. The doc says she was shocked that it didn't work and has no explanation which makes this so much harder. Poor DH this is not what I wanted for his bday
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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Sonya...LOVE the picture! It just put a huge smile on my face! Congrats again!

Cass...Exactly. I still think I will just keep this cycle a big secret from everyone now.

Anna...I'm so sorry...UGH! Why does this happen? So unfair. I'm so sorry the news came in on DH's bday, too...I hope you can still find away to celebrate it tonight. Big Hugs.
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IVF 3~8.6.10 BFN
IVF 4~9.5.10 M/C
IVF 5~10.30.10 BFN
IVF 6~11.29.10 M/C
IVF 7~2.3.11 M/C
IVF 8~Cancelled
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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ANNAS - I am so sorry hun I though BFP for sure for you. Huge hugs. This is so unfair.

Tammy - don't let that assshole change you and your posts, that is crazy! We love you the way you are and you are going to change this because of one insensitive jerk - HELL NO! See, English is my second language but I sure can say bad words huh ;) ? REally please do not hesitate to write as you normally would. That is ONE person out of 100s who think you rock, so listen to the majority and forget the one guy who is an idiot. Stop censoring yourself, unfriend him if you have to ok? Chin up! You have to be happy and full of PMA for this cycle!
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Lou – I am so sorry that you are sad and feeling down right now. But, it is perfectly understandable since today was your due date. Even though I can’t say anything to soften the blow, I want you to know that you have so much support from us and your dream will come true.

Rio – Congrats on the BFP!!! Yes, those HPTs certainly look positive to me! I can’t wait to hear about your progress!

Tammy – I am sorry that you are having so many issues with your family. It is definitely a shame but I truly understand how you feel. I remember on several occasions not even wanting to get out of the bed because of this crazy rollercoaster ride of infertility. And, yes, I too have missed many, many family events because of it. But, you just remember this … once you are feeling too overwhelmed and do not think you are up to an event, you have to listen to your body and mind. It is definitely hard for many people to know or even understand how we feel but you definitely have so much support with us because we are most likely feeling very similar to you! I am sending you BIG HUGS!!

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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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annashope wrote:Oh Sonya I am so so so so so happy to hear the good news I can't even begin to tell you. The ultrasound is beautiful!!!! As anyone who has lived through a blighted ovum it is so great to see that they don't happen every time and that there is hope for the rest of us. I feel super inspired by you. Wishing you a happy and uneventful pregnancy.

Big Hugs

AFM BFN. Very very sad. The doc says she was shocked that it didn't work and has no explanation which makes this so much harder. Poor DH this is not what I wanted for his bday

annashope - I am so very sorry for your sad news. I was so hopeful for you this cycle. We're here to listen if you need to cry, scream, or vent. Know that we're thinking of you. ((HUGS))
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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YAY SONYA!!!! Congrats girl!!!!!! Soooo happy for you! I hope you are out celebrating(or in celebrating at home now that you have seen the heartbeat :lol: - chandeliers anyone??? )

Klinger - Can't wait to see yours tomorrow!!

Rio - Again, I am so happy for you!! That line is beautiful and Im sure that being the POAS addict that you are, you will be doing it everyday up until the beta? :) I never would have guessed that English was not your first language. You can usually tell the way people write because of the difference in sentence structure, but I didn't sense it all. Do you speak both Portuguese and Spanish?

Margi and Leorira - Super cute pictures.

Tammy - I think you are a super strong, incredibly positive and upbeat woman. I think that often times the people that criticize and judge people the most are the ones that have failed to reach their own potential. They see others who have a goal and seek to fulfill their dreams and then wonder why they can't do that for themselves. Whether it is fear, lack of confidence, pettiness, pride, or whatever, they will always hold themselves back and try to do the same to others in order to make themselves less of a failure while they make excuses along the way. It is admirable that you are always able to pick yourself up, shake it off and continue to face each challenge with energy, resolve and a willingness to do whatever it takes. Its not of his damn business what you write, where you write it, or the tone in which you write it. Its not you who has the problem, it is him. I know that he is your brother and that famly is extremely important to you, as it should be. However, there are times when family can be your most difficult impediment because they know your trigger points and what makes you hurt the most. Love yourself, love your son, and be who you are and who you want to be. Making him happy is not going to make you happy. If having another baby is what you want then do not leave any option untried because in the end it will not matter what he thinks, but the satisfaction of knowing you tried your very best. Whether it happens or not, you will be able to hold your head high and know that you gave it your all. And tell your freaking brother that if he doesn't cool it and stop torturing the woman we have all grown to love, that he will have 50 hormonal women heading his way with the sole purpose of kicking his ass!!! xoxox
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DH: 27 MI - Low everything
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FET August 2010 - BFN
IVF #2 November 2010 - BFN
IVF # 3 - November 2011 - BFN
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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Tammy - I need your Rio blinker!! Go ahead and step on my toes because I can't find one!!!
Me: 34 Ectopic 5x - both tubes removed
DH: 27 MI - Low everything
IVF June/July 2010 - BFN
FET August 2010 - BFN
IVF #2 November 2010 - BFN
IVF # 3 - November 2011 - BFN
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Re: Fall 2010 Cycle Group

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Cheri - you canna undestad me huh? ;) Yes, I speak POrtuguese and understand Spanish :) oh lets hold off on blinkers and status I am still very cautious though!!! Yes I will keep POAS and post the results, this is my first POAS cycle!

Tammy yeah what Cheri said!
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No BFP blinkers, but definitely a bikini blinker. You've got a reputation now. :)
Me: 34 Ectopic 5x - both tubes removed
DH: 27 MI - Low everything
IVF June/July 2010 - BFN
FET August 2010 - BFN
IVF #2 November 2010 - BFN
IVF # 3 - November 2011 - BFN
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cheri- gorgeous couple!
ME: 32
DH: 38 (Severe MF)

IVF 1: BFP...M/C
IVF 2-5: BFN
IVF 6: BFP...it's twins!!

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annashope wrote:Oh Sonya I am so so so so so happy to hear the good news I can't even begin to tell you. The ultrasound is beautiful!!!! As anyone who has lived through a blighted ovum it is so great to see that they don't happen every time and that there is hope for the rest of us. I feel super inspired by you. Wishing you a happy and uneventful pregnancy.

Big Hugs

AFM BFN. Very very sad. The doc says she was shocked that it didn't work and has no explanation which makes this so much harder. Poor DH this is not what I wanted for his bday
Anna I am so very sorry this was a sad day for you and DH... how are you taking it? What is your next step..... Big HUGE Hugs, hon.. :(
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David, 45
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2008 BFP, 2010 IVF & FET MC
2010 IVF #2 - BFP
14dpo 138
16dpo 351
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DandMe wrote:One precious heartbeat.... 139.... measuring 7w3d (two days ahead). I'm in total shock!!!
YAY!! So very happy for you Sonya! I'm sure it was a beautiful wonderful moment! Congrats!
~Kelly~
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DH: 32 + Low Counts
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Beta 1 ~ 12/30 ~ BFP ~ 365!
Beta 2 ~ 1/7 ~ 3300
It's a BOY!!!
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