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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Ems:

Way to go girlie :D :D You have 2 perfect embies waiting to come home - thats fantastic news hunnie. So ET set for Thursday morning then? Woooooo Hoooooooooo - that means testing will be when? MY working is 8th Feb? Thats the day after my appointment at the clinic (7th)
I have every faith that you and i will have summit to celebrate by then :D

Good Luck hun ..... Thinking of you :)

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Denise (Cook)
Well done you..you little egg factory. So sorry about the heart problem. I think you have amazing courage and I have every faith in you that you will get pregnant too.

Ems,
Thats a brilliant fertilisation rate. It is way above average. You may not produce loads of eggs but at least you produce good quality eggs which is why you have had a high fertilisation honey.

I'm sorry girls if I sounded a little spolit yesterday complaining about only 10 eggs but I have a very good reason for that. I had a similiar number on my 3rd IVF (9) for which only 3 fertilised and all of them died before transfer. I found out on the way to the hospital. So I am naturally scared that I might not make it to ET again.

Anyway out of my 10 only 7 were good enough and 4 fertilised so heres hoping at least 2 of them survive the night and I make it to transfer tmrw.

Tony, Best of luck to you and DH today. I really wish you well and loads of embies.

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Lisa and Ems - i think u both have gr8 news to celebrate and it does only take one - quality not quantity!!!

I really would be pleased if i were u both and just think, its not gonna b long now until they're settling into their new homes!!!

Aunty - just to let u know 4 ur beautiful list my test date is 1st feb as i had a 2 day transfer and also....bring on the egg food 4 u on friday!!!

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Post by beachbaby »

Emma and Lisa, Congratulations, not long now and they'll be back snuggling in.
cook, you must be releived to be rid of them so to speak, hope your feeling less bloated, and good luck on transfer.
Sassy, hope your embies are hanging in there, fingers crossed for you.
Aunty good luck tomorrow.
Shantala, hope alls gone well for you today.
To everyone else i am thinking of you all take care and sticky baby dust to you all.
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Post by lara312 »

Denise well done 21 eggies is fab hope they manage to sort your heart problem out soon sending hugs .
Lisa 7 out of 10 is great hope that your doing well good luck with et
Ems 2 is great like the others said it only takes 1 good luck with et thursday .
Shantala hope all goes well today .
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Tony GL to you and your DW today, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Cook, my SIL has the same thing as you. They didn't discover she had it until her 2nd pregnancy though. Unfortunatly she also has an incompetent cervix, 2 days after my wedding this was all found out and so DH and I took my niece for 2 weeks and then for the next two months we took turns sitting at the house with her until my nephew was born. I remember it being horrible for her and all that happens to you happened to her too. I wish you the best of luck sweetie and I am so glad that they caught this when they did. You have been through so much but always remember what doesn't break us only makes us stronger!

Erin gl with you follies check today!

Shantala, I am thinking about you. GL with your dry run today.
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Hi all,
Shantala i cant wait for you to get back today to tell us how smooth your ET was will you find out also if your able to go ahead with your cycle...thinking of you, hugs

Lara hey there good to read you, hope your well and your pc plays ball soon...hugs

Beachbaby thank you im sooo excited to start growing my baby's ooooo how are you feeling?

Hi Vickie I've changed it i have to say Feb is a wonderful month :wink: i wanted to have my baby in Feb but then i thought 2 Aquarians in one house wouldn't be a good idea...LOL...how are you feeling?...any symptoms?

Macca sweetie NO you didn't sound spoilt at all i mean we go through so much to get to EC we have every right to want tons of eggs from it, and after previously going through what you did of course your going to be worried we all understand 100% and you have (im sure) all our love and prayers for you and your little ones.....ok right im going to guess you will have 3 embies and get pregnant with twins??....how's that? Sending prayers your baby's are making magic right now and will surprise everyone...

Becky did you learn how to log on from work?....big hugs we miss you

Charlie i think you will be surprised just how much they have changed Wednesday menopur is great stuff it makes very good embryos....ok i can really understand your being scared i remember when i walked into the room and had to climb on the bed for EC i was pooping my self (well i would have been had i not fasted) i promise you with hand on heart im looking forward to EC i really am and this is my 3rd go, my clinic put a tube in your arm before you go in and they sneak in a dose of happy medicine its wonderful stuff one moment your nervous next your seeing flowers everywhere :wink: then your talking away bumf fast asleep...its a breeze and usually your so knocked out your sleepy all day

Emma 2 is a perfect number that's a great fert rate you know we are all praying for them from our lips to God's ears, your not inadequate at all you have got 2 great embies that's all you need, i take the max does you can take and i got 4 embies from it have to say this time and i know this will sound odd im hoping i get a couple of fraggies they seem to be the sticky ones we worked it out last cycle that it's the kids who leave everything laying around that stick practice for the bedrooms :wink: sending all my love and prayers

Angie how are you feeling?, i hope the Accu goes really well i was going to but got no penny's for it so enjoy i have heard great things about it

Sassy well see that just proves my other point looking around the Internet is a waste of time its better to ask someone who has been there, i am so excited for you praying for healthy twins...let us know as soon as you can big hugs, i love what your Dr said about the money that must be so reassuring i know my Dr is only interested in money kinda puts a bit of a downer on your cycle...LOL

Cook its great to read they have a plan of action for your ET thinking of you....when will you know how your little ones are doing?....

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Post by nouna »

Good morning ladies,

Cookholmes: It is good they found out about your condition now, so you can act right away dear, and congratulation about the 21 eggs, hope they fertilize most of them and your ET result comes as BFP.

Thanks a lot charlie, silvacharm and sassynlv for your reply.

Charlie, myself and Sophie might have the same day for ER.

Have a great day!
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Post by Ems1971 »

Lisa honey - you didn't sound spoilt at all! Like Aunty says, having been through what you have, its natural that you're going to feel the way you do. We are all here for you sweetie and are all hoping and praying you get the result you deserve this time around. (HUGE HUGS!)

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Good morning ladies!

I went to my stimming check this morning (blood check) and now I'm waiting for them to call me with the results and my next apt date (either Thursday or Friday... hoping for Thursday! Would be less complicated for us) and tell me if my dosage stays the same or changes. I first thought I would wait for the results, but I might not be able to post before late afternoon and given the post rate, hehehe, I was a little worried the posts would be out of control by then! ;)

Other than that, still having a light headache that comes and goes, and abdominal pain that comes and goes, but nothing intense enough to take Tylenol. I just try to ignore it for now. I've had a nasty nightmare yesterday; hate those really emotional ones that make you real glad you wake up and realize it was just a dream... I definitely have a different sleep despite the fact I'm very relaxed when I go to bed. I've been in a very good mood these days!

I've had a bad IBS attack this morning and that was a disappointment for me because of all the steps I've taken in regards to my diet. It doesn't mean it doesn't work; hey it's been working till today after all... and there's the fact I'm taking new meds. But still, a little disappointing, especially that I have to rely on boring food again for a while till the symptoms are gone for a few days in a row. Boy am I looking forward to that trigger shot!

Hey, just a quick question for those who use Pen Puregon... but do you guys bleed almost each time you inject yourselves? It seems to be a little better now that I'm back to higher zones on my tummy, but it bleeds almost systematically... I suspect it's the needle that's a little longer maybe? Just curious.

Nouna: my estimated date for ER is Jan 29th-30th. I'm taking Puregon 100 units and 5 units of Lupron (half-dose .... oh, that silly song is back in my head now! :D). My dosage might change today after the blood tests, we'll see. I think most of the lovely ladies here will tell you between 8-10 days of stimming is the average.

Erin: I've read on an IVF hints website that injecting yourself in the tummy for the stimming gives better results... apparently, she switched from her thighs to her tummy and the impact of the meds was nearly doubled (as shown in her blood test results).

Arizonakiwi: WOOHOO on injecting yourself for the first time! It's really that decisive push that's hard to make the first time, eh? I've found that putting the tip of the needle against my skin and then give a quick little push with my wrist makes it easier instead of one steady push all the way through... then once the needle broke the skin I just have to push it a little further but feel nothing.

Hello Emma! I'm glad your EC went fine and I'm glad to hear that you're happy with the results. I agree with the others`despite the fact that you don't have a lot of eggs, your rate is excellent and that means quality! I work with an IVFer who got only one egg and she's due in March! Keep hoping sweetie!

phx: hey princess! ;) Congratulations on having your babies back home! I hope the 11 days wait won't be too long and that you'll get all the love and support you need!

Ange: I'm glad your apt went well; you're on your way sweetie! :)

sassy: wow, two days before your totsicles get back home! I wish you strong embies for your ET! I hope the days fly! I know it must be disappointing to lose 4 embryos, but think of the 8 you kept! It must be very hard not to let your past experiences haunt you, indeed, but if your docs were so confident that day 3 was that much dangerous for your embryos, they would aim for a transfer on that day or earlier, wouldn't they? I'll be anxiously be waiting for updates with you sweetie.

cookholmes: don't worry about TMI; nothing shocked me in your email. It sounds like your vagal response is quite strong... I've had one while dancing flamenco (it's called the vagal shock or response because it involves your vagal nerve, which is in the neck) and I really did not feel well (I felt most of the symptoms you described). But it's the first time I hear it can be so severe the heart stops. It must have been quite scary for you to learn the news, thinking of the impact it might have on your life, your interventions, your pregnancy. Fortunately, your doc seems well informed and knows what to do, and there is a solution to it. I hope they keep handling it as best as they can for the rest of your interventions. On a happier note, sounds like they were able to give you many chances at having good strong embies for your transfer! Keep us posted dear!

Angie: I'm sorry your DH is hurting about his condition... but with regards to the "doesn't want to speak to anyone/counsellor", he might need to realize that, though you're happy to give him love and comfort in times like this, you also have to struggle with your own pains, emotions, and so on. Being his only source of support is putting extra burden on your shoulders at times and you might not always be emotionally available for him. He might need to reconsider having a "back up" for those moments.

Macca: please don't feel bad about the way you sounded! You had a very good reason to be worried and dissatisfied! It's difficult not to base your expectations on your past experiences... but alas, we can't assume that all your eggs are the same and there is still a very good chance that your fertilized eggs make it till the transfer and beyond! I'll certainly pray for that! Tomorrow must seem ages away but I'm sure your babies will make it back home and snuggle in for a 9 months nap! Hang in there, I'm with you in thoughts!

Okay, enough rambling! Take care all of you!

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Tony: gl to you and wife on EC today! Wishing you lots of healthy eggs.

Emma: You have great fert rates! (having lots of eggs does you know good if the quality is poor!). The quality is, in the end what matters. My first cycle i had "egg-envy" as everyone seemed to have tons more than me. Luckily, though, you seem to kick out good ones! So hang in there, we are all pulling for you!

Charlie: oooo, worried about ER? Yeah, i get that. I think we would be crazy not to be scared, especially the first time.. makes us human, no? Like aunty said, i fall asleep, and by the time i am awake, it is all over with. oooo, that versed they give me is fantastic... makes me all woozy and happy just as i am falling asleep. Fantastic stuff!

Aunty: was thinkin' last night... maybe i can't do pgd on frosties, and RE didn't want to tell me that (b/c he hadn't warned me prior to freezing), so he just told me he strongly discouraged it, knowing i would probably follow his advice.... if that is what happened... he is a sneeeaaakky RE :lol: . The list looks fab! Not only is it nice and pretty (kudos!), but look at all those bfps and our bulging 2ww category??? I feel so proud of our little family... almost maternal :D ! (oooo, maybe a good sign!)
GL on suppression check tomorrow... does that mean that you will be starting AF soon? I get so confused :?

Lisa: I TOTALLY get where you are coming from. I, too have done the whole "stimming like h@ll" thing to only come up with nothing to transfer. I was devastated. I think we share the same fears, and i am feelin' your anxiety! RE keeps telling me it is a #s game, so for those of us that have high "drop off " rates, we can never have enough to feel very comfortable. I am sending positive vibes to those 4 ferts you have!!! GL on ET!!!

Angie: glad to hear you and dh had a good chat. Yeah, sometimes it is easy to forget our men are hurting too, because they in general are quite stoic... until they begin to lose it. I am hoping that he finds his way through this and that he will be able to use you as support. Gl to both of you!

So had this urge to call the clinic last night and have the embisitter put the little ones up to the phone so i could sing them a lullaby. Silly, i know, but i don't want them to think their mother doesn't want them :wink: !
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Hello ladies - hope you are all well!

Well DH decided to speak to me on Sunday evening, however i decided to play him at his own game and not speak back lol why you ask? i cannot answer that it must be my hormones (lol everything gets blamed on them when i am in IVF lol) - he kept trying to make idle chit chat about tv programmes etc LMAO - its funny now but at the time i was really angry with him and didn't want to speak!!! (the term vicious circle comes to mind!)

However everything back to normal as he is working away for 2 days LOL

Is it me or is it whilst you are in an IVF cycle the time seems to drag - flippin eck it feels like it was October the other day and now god these last 3 weeks seem to have 36hours in a day and 50 days in a week!!

It seems like i have been waiting for my scan (on the 30th) for ever??

Well on a lighter note i have been out looking for wallpaper for the bedroom and Kitchen / diner (the walls are too horrible just to paint!) and i have pinned samples up everywhere! DH will have a fit when he comes back lol!! at least i have not started peeling the wallpaper off the walls - that is how i normally hint that i want to decorate!

Right i am off for some tea!!

bye for now!

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Aunty good luck tomorrow with your suppression check hope you get the go ahead for your eggie food has you have waited long enough for this .
Sassy not long now fore your babies are home where they belong and your comment on calling the babysitter to sing to them cracked me up there again every time we go past the hospital i always shout hi to the babies and says mummy loves you dh just looks at me stupid .
Sophie sorry to hear your ibs is playing up again lets hope when all these meds are finished and you have your BFP it will get better hope you get the call from the dr's soon and not keep you waiting to long hope the headache goes soon .
Hope everyone else is well good luck to everyone on egg food grow eggies grow and all those on the 2ww hope it flys by and cant wait to hear all the BFP's this month .
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well...

I got the call I'd been waiting for. The clinic wants me to double my dose of Puregon... :shock: wow... that blood test must not have been good at all. :( I was scheduled for an ultrasound on Friday morning.

Can't say I'm not a little disappointed. I thought that, given my age (twenty-eight), I would react to stimming like crazy (though my doc told me he wanted to be conservative with my first trial and not boost me too much given my age). And then, I fear my stimming will be longer because of that. It's not the end of the world of course, given that it would only create a two days delay, but with my IBS... And of course there's a little fear that, because I might not be reacting well to the meds, I might not produce much follies.

Or that crazy reaction might just happen quicker with the double dose. Who knows?

I hope the side effects won't double... :?

OH and how nice, I just checked my prescription! They gave me 900 units of Puregon for 10 days! I already took 400 since Friday; with the double dose the meds won't even last till my first ultrasound! I have to call the clinic again for another prescription! And drive downtown to get it (oh that's just terrific! :evil: ) Pffff... oh what the... I'll have it faxed to the drugstore within walking distance from my house instead.. might be a little more pricey than the specialized drugstore but at least I won't have to rearrange my whole schedule just to get my meds downtown. And our insurance covers the meds anyway, so... (I know, we're extremely lucky)

*sigh* I'm probably thinking too much (except for the meds part). I really don't feel like seeing clients tonight (still feeling a little quasy from the crisis this morning), but I'll go all the same. It will be a nice distraction!

Take care ladies!

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OK Ladies,

My doctors office just called and I will be having my ER on Thursday!!!!!!!!!! I have to take my HCG injection tonight. That is the butt one right? I am so excited I can hardly contain myself! Well I am at work and I will write more later!

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