Jen1d testing 30th - praying for a BFP!!
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nicolamark
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Girls thank you for all your help and support.
We are devastated but to make things worse my dh spoke to the Doc yesterday and she said i can never have my own child now as i am not responding to the medication or getting enough eggs. I am distraught especially for my dh, don't know how i get over this guilt and can't seem to pick myself up. Our only hope of a baby is by donor or adoption but i just keep thinking, its not my baby then. Plus i don't know how to find out about it all or where to go. I just dont have the energy and cant get motivated to get going again. I dont even want to talk or see people, which has never happened before.
Anyway thank you again and good luck for your cycles.
Love Jen x
We are devastated but to make things worse my dh spoke to the Doc yesterday and she said i can never have my own child now as i am not responding to the medication or getting enough eggs. I am distraught especially for my dh, don't know how i get over this guilt and can't seem to pick myself up. Our only hope of a baby is by donor or adoption but i just keep thinking, its not my baby then. Plus i don't know how to find out about it all or where to go. I just dont have the energy and cant get motivated to get going again. I dont even want to talk or see people, which has never happened before.
Anyway thank you again and good luck for your cycles.
Love Jen x
me 38 dh 38, ttc for 6yrs,
HSG - Tubes Damaged
Bilateral Salpingectomy, 16th Aug 06,
Hysteroscopy - 30th Oct 07
4 IVF - BFN, 3 ED - BFN
[img]http://ba.lilypie.com/botep1/.png[/img]
HSG - Tubes Damaged
Bilateral Salpingectomy, 16th Aug 06,
Hysteroscopy - 30th Oct 07
4 IVF - BFN, 3 ED - BFN
[img]http://ba.lilypie.com/botep1/.png[/img]
Jen sweetie
I too went through the same last november...3rd try and only 1 or 2 eggs . Even though they fetilised and were gradeA's Embies the consultant said that my body had had nough and stimming again wouold be too much for me. i was totally devestated as i was only 38. I have taken my time and looked (when ready ) at other options like egg donation. The ladies on the over 40 page are and have been a great a help to me and have given me HOPE and FAITH when i was at my lowest.
My heart goes out to you...take your time and heal before looking at anything.
PM me if you want to talk more.
I hope to be trying egg donation this year...fingers crossed x x
love
jen
xxx[/b]
I too went through the same last november...3rd try and only 1 or 2 eggs . Even though they fetilised and were gradeA's Embies the consultant said that my body had had nough and stimming again wouold be too much for me. i was totally devestated as i was only 38. I have taken my time and looked (when ready ) at other options like egg donation. The ladies on the over 40 page are and have been a great a help to me and have given me HOPE and FAITH when i was at my lowest.
My heart goes out to you...take your time and heal before looking at anything.
PM me if you want to talk more.
I hope to be trying egg donation this year...fingers crossed x x
love
jen
xxx[/b]
[b]2 natural preg,both ectopics.
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
In my dreams...May 2010 DE Athens[/b]
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/2;54;101/st/20081012/n/Puppy+Dara+/dt/6/k/fda0/age.png[/img]
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
In my dreams...May 2010 DE Athens[/b]
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/2;54;101/st/20081012/n/Puppy+Dara+/dt/6/k/fda0/age.png[/img]