Kimbob- I am working very very part time right now. I am an after school tutor for the school I use to teach for last year. I brought the baby to visit the school, and when they offered me $45/hr, I just couldn't pass that up. Right now it is only on Mondays and Tuesdays from 3-4:30 with about a half an hour commute each way, with 2 hrs of training on Wednesdays for a couple of hours. It doesn't seem like much, but it is definitely draining me with everything else, like schoolwork, ivf and the baby. But I will make it through, I've done it before, but I am definitely already looking forward to May, when tutoring and semester ends. Hopefully I will be a couple of months pregnant then and just enjoy the rest of my time with Ella until her little brother or sister gets here!
Sara- haha, I do look like that on many days, just maybe a little less green
We will welcome your friend to our thread as soon as she comes!
Miracle- Thanks so much. You are such a sweetie, and I am glad you like the name. It was very hard as a teacher, to find a name that I didn;t have an existing attachment to that I really liked, and that went well with my name as the middle name...Ella Michele just sounded so right from the second I said it!
Wishful- doin the af dance for you...hope she rears her ugly head soon!
I will let you all know how TESE consult goes. I wasn;t planning on going, but I think DH wants me to, so we can try to get to the bottom of the causes. He has low testosterone, which causes a low libido. I know most ladies wouldn';t be bothered by it, but it does bother me at times. I understand the reason, but sometimes I just feel inadequate or unwanted, and if there is something that can be done to help the situation, I think we want to know about it. It will just be difficult for me to go with the baby and the expected snow tomorrow, but I am going to try.
I also got some good news about financing today. Capital one has a healthcare financing option for fertility that my RE office told me about. So we applied tonight and DH was approved at a 1.99 % rate. Even though insurance covers our ivf, there are a lot of out of pockets fees not covered, like freezing embryos if we have good ones left, a $800 TESE fee not covered, $500 to unfreeze sperm day of ER and a couple others. We did not keep our 2 embryos last time b/c we just could not afford to pay that money on that day, but now I don;t have to worry about it. I am glad that stressor is gone, with this being my last covered ivf, I am so worried if it doesn't work, we won;t be able to afford to go again, but now I have hope.
Ok, I gotta try and get some sleep, I will update you all tomorrow.
But Ella is BEAUTIFUL!!! I voted for her too... 
nothing like af shoving up early to make my happy, now I am only one cycle away and should be starting my IVF cycle aprox March 02/09 if all is back to normal now.