Jane - Test Tues 31 May

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Post by julesg »

Just putting you back near the top Jane
Me 32 DH 37 ttc 2years
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ICSI April/May 05 -ve
ICSI Sep/Oct 05 +ve result 12th October
DD born June 2006
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Post by JaneR »

Hi Girls,

Thank you for all your positive thoughts. Unfortunately it was bad news, but we did expect it and i think I had got myself used to the idea after Sunday.
So May is finshed off with a BFN i did hope we could get equal figures but at least the Mayflowers did really well.

The good news is I can my next treamtent when I'm ready no waiting list for me and my hospital is going to get me a follow up appointment with the top guy in Leeds (the one who was on Precious Babies) to see what ideas he has to make things run more smootly for me.

I'm not going to disappear and all things being equal will be cycling again in August.

Thank you all again for your support it really does help. I also think it has been easier second time round as well.

Love,

Jane
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Post by LittleP »

Jane

:( :( I am so sorry about your news - I had so hoped that the HPT had been wrong.

It's good to hear you focusing on the future and sounding so together about things. Do allow yourself time to come to terms with this and if you need a good cry then go for it.

I am glad that you have sorted out your follow-up appointment and with such a good consultant as well - let us know how you get on won't you.

Take good care of yourself and big hugs to you.

Little P
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Post by julesg »

Jane :cry: :cry:

I am sooo sorry

Little P is right take your time - it took a couple of days to hit me

Look forward to cycling with you in August when we can finally put may behind us

Take care of yourself and keep in touch, this board has helped me soooo much since my -ve (13th May)

Love and HUGS

Julie
Me 32 DH 37 ttc 2years
Male Factor
First ICSI October 04 - cycle abandoned high risk of OHSS
ICSI April/May 05 -ve
ICSI Sep/Oct 05 +ve result 12th October
DD born June 2006
ICSI Oct/Nov08 -ve
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So sorry to hear your news

Post by DeniseM »

Hi Jane.

Very sorry to hear about your BFN. Sounds like you're moving forward, I look forward to cycling with you in August.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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Post by taylorjools »

Jane

I feel for you and dh sweetie a big mega cyber {{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}} from me. You have been so brave the whole way through, give yourself time to mourn and move on.

I am so glad you are being looked after well at your clinic and have access to top expertise, it's so important to know you are giving everything the best possible chance. I will be following you and all of the Mayflowers "re-cycling" and crossing verything I have for you to find your dream.

with very much love

bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Post by gailbunny »

sorry to here of your BFN Jane

I am testing in Leeds on Thursday but expecting BFN.

We dont have the waiting list either but wont be running again until later in the year, if our consultant will allow a further treatment as I am a difficult case, as we are holidaying in August.

Good Luck
Gail
Me 40, DP 29, DS 10
IVF 1st Cycle - May 05 -ve.
IVF 2nd Cycle March 06 -ve
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Post by christine202 »

Hi Jane

Really sorry to hear your news.

You sound really positive though, planning your next try already. Good on you girl.

Take care of yourself

luv christine xxx
Dh 30, Me 38. TTC for five years.
Conceived 2001,but sadly lost twins at 17 wks.
1st IVF Jan 05. Total freeze. 11 little embies
FET May 05. Embryos didn't survive. 9 embies
FET April 06-ve
FET Nov 06 +ve sadly m/c 8wks
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Post by princess »

(((((((((((((( JANE ))))))))))
Sweetie I am sorry about that evil BFN.
WE are all here for you though !!
Take care of yourself and DH too.
Lots of Love
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Post by DebraP »

Jane, so sorry to read of your BFN. There are quite a few of us already thinking ahead to August for our next tries. You'll have good company and lots of support.

Even though you were half expecting it, give yourself time to get over the disappointment. It sometimes hits you later than you'd think.

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Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
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Post by hlloyd »

So sorry to read your post. Good news about your next treatment though and it is great that you have this to focus on. Take care of yourself and DH.

Best wishes
Heather
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4th IVF May 06 - +ve
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Sorry

Post by wildfox »

Hi Jane

Sorry to hear your news...and I know exactly how you are feeling. I also wanted to get on with the next cycle as soon as possible, and guess what ? I was 2nd time lucky.....

Thinking of you x

Steph x
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Post by randa2006 »

Jane,
Sorry for your set back. Each round brings us closer to the goal though, but you sound like you already know that.
Take care of yourself.
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
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Post by eskavon »

So sorry to hear your result - take care of yourself
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Post by NickiMark »

Sorry Jane! Hugs to you!
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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