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sue e · Post by **sue e** » Wed Nov 23, 2005 7:31 am

Claire,

So sorry you are going through this, my thoughts are with you and dh at this difficult time.

Take care

Love

sue e xx

Cla · Post by **Cla** » Wed Nov 23, 2005 10:23 am

Claire,
I'm so sorry to hear your news. Please take care.
Cla
xx

JackieT · Post by **JackieT** » Mon Nov 28, 2005 1:52 am

claire
ive just seen your post as im catching up on all tonight.
im so sorry for you and dh, we too had that happen, but we were carrying twins and our little girl survived,
take care and good luck
love jackie xxx

Tiger · Post by **Tiger** » Mon Nov 28, 2005 2:02 am

Claire,

my thoughts are with you. I am so sorry... Please take care.

Love, Tiger xxx

Jeni Babes · Post by **Jeni Babes** » Mon Nov 28, 2005 11:22 am

Claire i am just catching up on posts....

So sorry to hear about your little one........

Loving hugs to you and DH
jen
xxxx

Claire · Post by **Claire** » Tue Nov 29, 2005 7:37 pm

Again thank you all for your good wishes, they have really helped me this week.
I was right though, as soon as the meds were stopped, it all happened quite quickly.
It's over now, more or less, and now it's really hit me.
I feel so empty. One minute I'm ok then the next I'm an emotional wreck!
Really want to find my positive spirit again but it's taking a holiday I think

Christmas is nearly here and by now I'm usually so looking forward to putting the tree up and everything. But I haven't an ounce of enthusiasm. I hate feeling so angry with the world.
I'm sure things will get better.

love Claire x

DeniseM · Post by **DeniseM** » Tue Nov 29, 2005 7:51 pm

Claire,

I've been through the same experience so if you need a shoulder I'm here.

Hope you start to smile again. One day at a time.

DebraP · Post by **DebraP** » Tue Nov 29, 2005 7:56 pm

Claire, the anger is only to be expected. Most of us who lose a +ve for any reason feel a huge amount of confusion and despair at times. I'm still angry and bitter over my ectopic back in May. I've had a -ve since but that's nothing compared to losing something I already had.

Give yourself lots and lots of time. Be selfish, esp.if at Christmas you feel less than social, protect yourself. Don't force you and DH into situations where you'll feel vulnerable or hurt. This is a difficult time, don't rush the recovery.

hugs
Debra.

fulloffaith · Post by **fulloffaith** » Tue Nov 29, 2005 8:42 pm

Claire...I am so so sorry to hear this news.
I cannot imagine actually getting the BFP and then have it taken away. I thought the BFN was bad!
I don't know if you are a woman of faith but I found this Scripture just the other day as I too was so angry with my BFN recently. It really spoke to me and reminded that there is someone out there who gets it and does know what we are going through.

Psalm 34:18 - The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves us from our crushed spirit.

I'll be praying for you to have some peace through the hardest time in your life.
Love and hugs,
Allison

AMck · Post by **AMck** » Tue Nov 29, 2005 10:31 pm

Claire, thinking of you.
hope you are looking after yourself and DH.

No words can take away your pain but we are here, and you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bye for now

Anna x

Terri2 · Post by **Terri2** » Tue Nov 29, 2005 10:47 pm

Claire, I'm so sorry. Life is so unfair sometimes.
take care
Love Terri

CC · Post by CC » Wed Nov 30, 2005 9:58 am

Dear Claire - so sorry to hear that the news was not good. You sound like you're coping really well and focussing on the positive which is the news that you can get pregnant (that is a huge step forward). I'm so sorry you had to go through this though and I hope life becomes a little easier for all of you soon.

Love and prayers for you, DH and your little angel,

Cherylxx

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