Dear all negative testers. I am sorry it has not worked this time and wish you all loads of luck for the future. Look after yourselves and enjoy spring. All my snowdrops are out and just make me smile everytime i see them - so pretty.
Love Saraid
me 36 dh 37
1#ICSI Jan 06 BFP scan 6 March
2#FET Sep 08 BFN
3#ICSI Jan 09
I am so so sorry to hear your news. The last 24 hours have been a bit of an emotional roller coaster for me as I'm guessing it has for the two of you. Wishing you and your DH's much strength and sending lots of positive thoughts your way as this journey continues.
Laura M -- thanks so much for your kind wishes. Will keep my fingers crossed that you are right -- 36 going on 37 being a lucky time....
sml
Me: 38, DH: 39
Jan 06 - 1st IVF -ive
April 06 --2nd IVF, -ive
August 06 -- myomectomy to remove 9 fibroids
April 07 -- IUI, -ive
October 07 -- 3rd IVF, BFP, then early miscarriage
Maryjane, Kelly, SML and Eminde,
I'm so sorry about your results this round. My heart goes out to each of you as you get through this difficult time.
God Bless.
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
Oh no! Had a bit of spotting this morning - horendious af cramps!! Anyone had this and still been pregnant? Is this a possibilty with ivf? Or am I just wishful thinking?
Hospital did blood test yesterday, then lost the results!!!!!!!!!!
They are going to do it again today. Fingers crossed. Sorry to hear about those BFN's. Hope you have better luck next time
Angela is improving, but they are still keeping her in. She feels grotty still.
Will keep you informed about result, and progress
Kevin (DH)
Me: 34 ; DH: 35
Clomid 2003 - 1 daughter (now 3)
ttc: 18months
recent discovery of post ceasarian infection damage requiring IVF as only chance.
1st IVF Jan 06 - Test date 15 Feb 06!
Oh Kevin - you and Angela are really being put through the mill. Really hope the result goes you're way.
Caz - yes, spotting and bleeding has been experienced by many women on this site who have gone on to a bfp. Keep the faith!!!!!
Good luck to all
Cla
xx
Me: 35 DP : 38
1st time IVF - Aug/Sept 05 -ve
FET - Jan 06 - BFP!!!
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It was a BFN for me this morning - absolutely gutted! I really felt good about this one, but it just goes to prove how wrong we can be about our 'feelings'. There's no sign of AF yet, so I suppose there is the tiniest glimmer of hope (not that I'm feeling too positive this morning).
When I manage to get through to my clinic I will see what they say, but I can't see much changing.
Thanks to all those kind words over the last few days - its really helped. I'm now going to do all the things I haven't been able to do for the last few weeks - lots of alcohol!!! I may regret it in the morning but at the moment I feel so down and useless that I can't see anyway out of this
I am so sorry it was not good news this morning. If AF does not arrive try testing again in a few days - maybe your levels were not high enough yet. My thoughts are with you honey and have a gin and tonic for me!
Love Saraid
me 36 dh 37
1#ICSI Jan 06 BFP scan 6 March
2#FET Sep 08 BFN
3#ICSI Jan 09
I am sorry kate, I was hoping it is BFP. I was high spirited when I saw teh BFP's in early Feb. IT is very disheartening to see BFN's. My spirit is low too. I am sure your time will come....just have patience!
Kate, so sorry about your BFN. I am right there with you as I home tested this morning too and it was also negative. Have a good cry and grieve for a time, but please don't give up. Many, many women on these threads have had success after several tries. We just have to work at it.
I think I read somewhere that even Brooke Shields went 10 times before success.
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
Randa,
I had a very faint positive when my clinic tested me. They told me to wait 5 days before they could do one again (yeah right!!) so I sneekily did two hpts (16 days post transfer). They were BOTH negative. I went for my appointment 19 days post transfer expecting nothing and it came back STRONG positive.
Hpts are evil. They should be made illegal!!!!
Really hope that it was bfn just because you tested early. I really do.
Take care.
Cla
xx
Me: 35 DP : 38
1st time IVF - Aug/Sept 05 -ve
FET - Jan 06 - BFP!!!
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Kate:
I am so sorry about your news. Lots of hugs and keep strong, it will happen!
Caz: Be strong as spotting can be pregnancy as well.
Randa: Let's see if tomorrow testing brings great news. Maybe it was too soon.
Love
Laura
39 years old DH 45
3 IVF: 1st:neg, 2nd:neg, 3rd:++ at 36 years old(wonderful daughter,my soul)
1st FET- didn't survive the thawing process
2nd FET -ve
Now 4th IVF: Jan 06 : Tested 17th Feb: BFP!