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DebraP
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Post by DebraP »

Hi Kerry. Sandra's point about trying to stay calm and positive is the best and only advice I can echo. It's clearly not completely negative but obviously not the best signal either. There is nothing you can do before getting tomorrow's blood test besides staying calm and quiet. This procedure is hopelessly draining on our emotions, the highs and the lows are both elational and cruel.

I'll be thinking of you getting your test tomorrow. Please let us know how you get on.

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Post by taylorjools »

Kerry

just joining D and Sand in thinking of you right through the night to tomorrow, hopefully you'll get the result ASAP :roll: ??

love bigJ
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Post by LittleP »

Kerry

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Just wanted to join the others and wish you big hugs to help get through the night.

You know where we are if you need a (cyber) shoulder :!:

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Post by yaddakal »

I love all you guys. Thanks so much. MY HCG came out 46 so that is it, I am stopping my progesterone shot tonight and needless to say am a complete mess. I am not as strong as people think and I just want another baby so bad. It is in a small way worse this time b/c I know what a joy it is to have my little Bryan. Although I should only think of my luck to have had my son, I have to grieve. I have been in tears all day, moreso now that he is napping. I always wanted a big family and I do not know what I have done wrong in life to deserve 60 year old eggs when I am only 30 years old. Thanks for listening. We are going to get through it, maybe even adopt someday,who knows. Thanks so much March/April friends, your support is one thing I needed the past week!

Love, Kerry
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Post by LittleP »

Kerry

:cry: :cry: :cry:

:shock: I am so sorry about your news :x :x

We're all here to help you when you want it. All I can offer at the moment is loads of PMA and cyber hugs in a vain attempt to help :!:

Take care of yourself

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Post by Sand »

Kerry, I am so upset to hear this from you tonight. I am, however, glad that you've been put out of your misery. To be where you were last night just shouldn't be allowed.

You'll both need time to grieve, and it will take as long as it takes ... but one day it will begin to get easier, and you've got to hang on to that.

Take care
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by hlloyd »

Kerry, so sorry to read your post. What a horrible thing to have to go through. Please take care of yourself and do allow plenty of time to grieve.

Thinking of you
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4th IVF May 06 - +ve
Natural conception Sep 07
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Post by sammys »

So sorry about the news Kerry...I'll say a prayer for you...sammy

Hi Amers, sorry I haven't been on lately, I'm thinking of you and hoping that our chance comes soon...Have a GREAT summer...Love Sammy
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Post by randa2006 »

Kerry,
So sorry. :cry:
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1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
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Post by DebraP »

Kerry...what terrible news. I'm sorry it didn't work as you'd so hoped.

Take plenty of time to grieve and talk alot to DH about it all.

Lastly, be kind to yourself.
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Post by DebraP »

Final stats for the month (as we've not heard from Emma) - 4/17 = 23.5%


01 Mar - Suze (Sukale) - :D :D
03 Mar - Danica - :(
03 Mar - Lesley - :(
03 Mar - Wendy - :(
07 Mar - Minnow - :(
07 Mar - Raji - :(
08 Mar - Suz - :(
10 Mar - Jude - :(
14 Mar - Kimbo - :D :D
14 Mar - Lumi - :(
16 Mar - Debbie - :(
19 Mar - Brandi - :(
20 Mar - Alette - :D :D
23 Mar - Sammy - :(
24 Mar - Julia - :D :D
25 Mar - Amers - :(
30 Mar - EmmaP - :?:
31 Mar - Kerry - :(
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Post by Sand »

I hope all you girls with -ves are coping ... for some of you it's still more raw than others. You will get through it, and hopefully your turn will come ... Lots of PMA to you all...

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Sorry I got the names wrong!!!

Post by Amers Or »

:oops: :oops: :oops: Hello all - just checked how your were all doing and noticed my huge mistake :!: :!: Sorry for causing the confusion Debra!

Kerry :oops: :oops: I'm soo sorry to hear your news! Hope that you and your dh are finding time to grieve together xxxx
Amers
35 yrs old
1st IVF cycle
PCOS, Grade 4 Endometriosis, 1 Fallopian tube and 1 functioning ovary
IVF Mar '05 -BFN
2nd IVF Oct '05 - BFP
Baby girl born 21/7/06
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