February/March Buddies

mbelle1019 · Post by **mbelle1019** » Sat Mar 11, 2006 5:01 am

MLG - Best of luck in your cycle.

I am sorry to report the news today was a BFN. I have been spontaneously crying ever since. My poor husband does not know what to do with me. He was we will keep trying until we get it right. I cannot even express how sad and helpless I feel right now. It is much easier to overcome a disappointment when you have some control over the outcome. However, when the outcome is totally out of your hands, it is much easier to fall into despair.

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sat Mar 11, 2006 8:58 am

Sorry to hear about your BFN. Hugs to you xxxx

((((((((((((((((((((((( hugs ))))))))))))))))))))))))

MLG · Post by **MLG** » Sat Mar 11, 2006 11:49 am

Michelle

So sorry about your news.

You are in my thoughts.
You're right it is very hard, especially with something so emotional as this.

Please give yourself time to grieve

, you'll get there eventually.

xxxxx

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 9:56 am

Michelle

So sorry to hear your news. Try to stay strong and take time to relax and grieve.

Remember you WILL have a bundle of joy one day, it's just going to take some time.

A huge hug is on it's way for you and your DH

Love Jen x

angelamw · Post by **angelamw** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:41 am

Michelle

So sorry to hear about your BFN. I know when I had mine last week I cried buckets and DH didn't know what to do with me. He even said that we should stop trying as getting the BFN upset me too much, but I think that would have been even worse.

Have a good cry because it does help. As someone said on another thread you have to grieve for your BFN before you can move on.

Sending you loads of hugs. Take time for yourself and give DH a big hug. Have you read the post on this board about why god made us infertile. I can't remember where it was, possibly on 30-40, IUI girls, March test date or march april test date. Have a look for it. It will make you cry but may add another slant on things. Let me know if you can't find it and I will look for you.

Take care of yourselves
Angela

mbelle1019 · Post by **mbelle1019** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 3:08 am

I want to thank everyone for the outpouring of support. I cannot explain why, but I feel more comfortable expressing my feelings on this website than I do talking to some of my closest friends.

Angela, I will look for the post you mentioned and let you know if I am unable to find it.

I will continue to pray for all of you!

God Bless,

Michelle

Stacy Marie · Post by **Stacy Marie** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 4:27 am

Michelle,
I am glad you feel all of the love here

This is an awesome sight!
Just think God has a plan for you and everyone suffering from infertility and years from now when you look back things will make sense. Your special little bundle will make it to you.
lol,
Stacy

Eminde · Post by **Eminde** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 8:15 am

Michelle, I'm really so sorry for you and your DH. Cry all you need to. You WILL find the strength to try again. We are here if you need us.

Big hugs.
Eminde xx

sue e · Post by **sue e** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 5:16 pm

Michelle - So sorry to read your news, sending big hugs your way,

Hope all the other buddies are doing ok

Take care

love
sue e xx

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 8:37 pm

Michelle - hope your are feeling stronger today and are getting pampered. Try to stay positive, it's hard now but YOU WILL get there one day soon

Had my acupuncture today again, just hope it's doing some good inside that womb of mine.

Only 3 more days to go until my scan then should be starting the stimming. It all seems to be going so fast this cycle. Am dreading the 2ww though.

Anyway a big hug to you all, catch up soon

Love Jen x

Stacy Marie · Post by **Stacy Marie** » Tue Mar 14, 2006 12:49 am

Michelle,
Things will turn around they just have too! Think Spring!

Jen,
When in the cycle do you start acupuncture? If i need to do another cycle I would like to give it a try.

--Stacy

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Tue Mar 14, 2006 9:33 am

Hi Stacy

I started 2 weeks before starting my medi. Have been having 1 session per week and will continue this up to ET but not after, they don't recommend it.

I have a stressful job so they have offered to pay for the first 6 sessions but it would cost me £30 per session if i had to pay.

At each session we have a 10 min chat about how the ivf treatment is going so she knows every new development, the stage of the cycle and how it's affecting me. She then decides what points to insert the needles that week to give me the best chance. Some people find it a little painful but i'm the biggest needle wimp in Scotland and i have found it easy. Give it a try, i will try anything if it helps to get that bundle of joy.

Catch up soon

Love Jen x

MLG · Post by **MLG** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 9:19 pm

What happened to everyone?

Where are the Feb/Mar Buddies??

Hope everyone is fine.

xxxxx

Stacy Marie · Post by **Stacy Marie** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 12:14 am

I am here and doing fine! I am waiting for my first ultra sound and am hoping that everything is fine. My days are mixed between worry and anticipation. I pray that my fetus is not etopic and is resting peacfully in my uterus! Time will tell and it is all in God's hands.

How are things going girls?

--Stacy[/url]

MLG · Post by **MLG** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 9:56 pm

Stacy - You'll be fine honey, I can feel it! When's the ultrasound?

I'm waiting for e2 levels to level out so I can have EC. Was meant to have tigger-shot today and EC on Thursday, but levels still rising! Hoping for no OHSS this time. But if it's a BFP I'll take it!

xxxxx

February/March Buddies

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