Lostgirl -- I am praying that you go tonight. Come baby come
CT -- Glad to hear that Ella is doing good. Michaela is doing much better. She had a doc appointment on Wednesday and when we told the doc what we went through the previous two nights, he assured us that she just had her days and nights mixed up. We knew that but we told him that we tried everything to wake her up during the day and it was almost impossible. Well he showed us several ways to get her up and it works like a charm. To answer your questions, yes DH is home with me and will be for 6 weeks. After next week he will be working three hours a day from home for the remainder of his paternity leave time. We both work for the federal government but he is a supervisor so they are really missing him right now. No matter how much he prepped before taking this time off, it seems that everytime he log on to his work computer there are 90 more emails than the day before. I guess it's nice to be so important but I wouldn't want it.
Esperanza I sent you a PM so when you get a chance, please take a look. I see from your ticker that you made it through to 12 weeks. I always set milestones. The first was the 12 weeks. The second was the 24 weeks which is when the baby is viable. The next was like 34 weeks where the survival rate was good if baby came early and than 37 weeks where I sorta felt like my duty was sorta done because that was full term. Again I am so happy for you.
MLB - I hope you and your new one are enjoying each others time. I am so full of love right now for Michaela it's just breathtaking.
Cali - Where are you? Please let us know that you are okay.
Elca - Hope you guys are settling in with Baby Lucy and things are going good. Please update us when you can.
As for me, my DH proved his love this morning. I had my first bowel movement post delivery and taking percicet (which doc told me was very constipating) and it was a nightmare. I was due at the docs this morning at 11:00 to have my staples removed and from 0830-1030 (at least) I was on the toilet. (Sorry for TMI) It was just there and wouldn't come. It was so bad and I felt so bad that DH had to put the gloves on. It wasn't pleasant but it worked after a few minutes and right now I feel like a new woman. I told Michaela she better always love her mommy to death (smile). Also I talk to the doc about whether my uterus and belly could handle one more c-section. Yes I think we may embark on this 22K journey one more time and I am so happy with Michaela right now I am ready to do it ASAP. Never in a million years would I have ever thought of having 5 children. My three oldest are 20, 18 and 17 so two are away in college and the other will be gone off to college next year. Doc said uterus looked good but he was concerned about that one annoying fibriod tumor that I had. He said if no other fibroids form he thought one more baby would be doable. So you girls look out for me later in the year with possibly embarking on this journey just one more time. We have also talked adoption so we may go that route instead. I guess when we are truly ready, the decision will come naturally. Doc did suggest giving my body at least 8 months to heal before even thinking of starting again and we do plan to do that. I'll be 40 next August and not sure if they will accept me into the Shared Risk program that we did before because I am now over the age limit. That may be the deciding factor on whether we will try IVF again or choose to adopt.
We'll I won't ramble on any more. Good luck to everyone and I hope you all have a great weekend.
Doreen