Becky you are a complete saint doing what you do and maybe when that boy grows up he will realise that you were trying to help him and make his life better.
Hi LittleP im not doing bad thanks, cant wait for my scan on wednesday, hope to have lots of follies send the fairy my way please How are you doing today
me 38 DH 43 TTC 7.5 yrs. 1st IVF June 05 ended in severe OHSS never made it to ET. FET Nov 05 -ive. FET April 06 -ive FET June 06 OMG BFP
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Becky,
How are you today?Hope you and dh are holding on..We're here for u..Why are children so cruel at times??More hugs to you..I read your post again and if I felt so much pain, I was wondering what YOU and your DH will be going thru..
Gail,
Wishing you luck and healthy follicles for your scan..
Lil P,
Dh must be back and all must be sunny in your world, huh?? Have fun!
Good luck for tomorrow's scan.Sending you lots of luck and love..
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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Smita - you're right DH was back very early today, took me by surprise (a nice one!) and has kept me full of positive thoughts and energy over tomorrow's scan.
Gail - the follicle fairy is with you now - I'm sure she'll be providing you with a wonderful harvest.
Becky,
As others have said, my heart goes out to you.
Yes, children can be so cruel, but it seems that you forgave this child even before he committed his first crime against you... probably because you know first hand where the anger is coming from (I didn't know you were also in foster homes as a child).
Here you are, posting messages about how you live your life helping and loving unwanted children among hundreds of women who are trying desperately just to have one. I bow to the DIFFERENCE you make in the world. You are AMAZING!!!
I would bet that foster parents almost have to brace themselves for exactly this kind of thing - it's probably very common although still hurtful. I pray the overseers and law enforcement personnel will see the truth and not mislabel you as a problem instead of the solution you are!!!
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
thanks everyone..
we have been doing this for around 11 years..
and tis is the first time for this...
this child has been threw hell and back.
the only thing he knows is to con people that is what he has had to do ..
it is such a shame that there are so many children out there that have no one..
i am hanging in.. it hurts that someone thinks that i would hurt a child like that..
it has been rough on many levels..
my dream is that one day one of our children will come back like i did and take over the ranch andd keep it for foster kids.
i didnt mean to take over the topic..
p is your scan in the mornen?
and are you going to be able to put up a photo of your scan...
and cheers to a safe return of your dhes back home safe and sound
love to you all
becky and p i think it is great that we both have the same names!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Oh Becky honey I am so sorry.
You really don't need something like that to happen.
Kids can be so vindictive. I don't blame you if you need to stop.
It's got to be so hard. I am sorry for your heartache .
Love
Joy
I'm pleased to say that the scan was wonderful and Little One was just beautiful - even showing off legs and arms
I've had another immunology blood test to check the old NK cells so hopefully, fingers crossed, my levels won't have risen and that will mean no more IVIG's. I'm praying hard!!!
Thats fantastic news LittleP, I bet it was such a wonderful sight
me 38 DH 43 TTC 7.5 yrs. 1st IVF June 05 ended in severe OHSS never made it to ET. FET Nov 05 -ive. FET April 06 -ive FET June 06 OMG BFP
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and at your next skan blow little one a kiss for me...
you have made my day
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
I will certainly pass on a kiss from you Auntie Becky - this Little One is going to be showered with them
We've talked about names very tentatively, but have decided not to get too seriously into it until we're 6 months - I am trying to persuade DH to agree to finding out what sex we are having. He has said yes as long as I promise to tell no-one and keep it just between us and the sonographer.
I think I can manage that!!!
I'm in need of more food - can't stop eating, just love potatoes at the moment!!
there is no way that you could keep that from us.....
i have no doubt how much little one will be loved
and little one will have a lot of aunties
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!