December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

[AuntyPebbles]

Beach i know it must be hard to get a low beta im going to pray its a late implanter and your numbers shoot up for you...will be thinking of you

so tentative Congratulations and loads of prayers

love and hugs Aunty

[tcbalgord]

Beachbaby I will praying that your numbers shoot through the moon on wednesday. Hugs.

[mom20]

fed congrats on your BFP
BEACHBABY - congarts keeping fingers crossed that your numbers sore by wed hugs to you


ok ladies i have question its nothing to do with IVF(sorry i know that what were all here for) but need some help
Ive this interview on mon26feb as you all know its for a healthcare assistant on a childrens ward hospital. Well ive been recking my brain for questions that i may be asked ive come up with a few but just woundered if any of you ladies have any ideas of questions and answers i may be asked. I would be really grateful sorry i know this not about IVF but thought you ladies wouldnt mind thankyou
mom20

[lara312]

Hi ladies
Christine i cant believe yout x new wife what a complete ***** there was no need for that

Aunty how you going not long now till you get your BFP.

Erin those numbers are looking fab

Beach will be praying for those numbers to sky rocket

Shantala how you doing wont be long till your on the stimms i bet you cant wait to ove onto the next stage .

Ange your story brought tears to my eyes hope your 2 babies are snuggling in for the next 8 months .

Sophie sorry to hear your bfn hope that the honymoon will bring your little bundle of joy

Becky how you will are you starting your next treatment .

Emma i'm so sorry sending hugs to you both

Sassy hope your neice is better soon that nurse is 1 stuck up cow

Well has for me i have checked in on you all everyday i'm feeling better but we have made ne decisions of what to do next anyway i emailed the hospital last friday to see if i got any kind of refund and was told no i wrote another back saying how disgusted and that it was our last chance to become parents and i got no reply i did say to dh if we get the money to go again in the future i would not go back to that clinic sorry for the whinge .
Hope everyone one is doing well all you 2ww not long for most of you i think that cinny,susette and aunty will all get BFP's on thursday
hugs to you all
love Rachel x x

[Macca8]

Rachel,

I wouldn't take no for an answer from them. When my frosties didn't survive the thaw last November my clinic gave us back £500

I would insist honey. They are cheeky buggers.

Lisa XXX

[beachbaby]

rachel,bast....s, give them hell, we sign an agreement before the start of treatment sayng if it is cancelled for any reason before transfer we get 1/2 back around £500. I think this seems the general rule. Is your clinic NHS as well or totally private, this is the only difference i could see. Also name and shame them they do not deserve the business. Hugs

Fed, congratulations on the numbers they sound fantastic.

Aunty how you doing, are you giving in to the evil pee sticks or can you wait another 2 days. all the best.hope you have a better result than me the positive flow has taken a bit of a dive lately.

Ladies, thank you all so much for the positive vibes. I just know this will kill me if it turns into another chemical, we found it very hard last time and we have to continue with bllodwork until its zero. I do hope this time its a better result, and i am just a slow implanter and a low number girl, the one positive is its higher than last time so fingers crossed.
jayne

[PMApsy]

Hello ladies!

How are you guys doing?

Once again, I want to thank you all for your messages and posts. YOu guys really are the best! *mwwwwwwwwwah!*

Still doing fine! I think I have found the perfect trip for us... definitely Egypt. I've found an all-included trip that combines a four days cruise and three days in Cairo in a hotel. That way, you can see every must-see in Egypt, from the Guizeh pyramids to the Valley of the Kings and all the temples... Horus, Isis, and so on. I'm already thrilled!

As for the BFN, I'm still fine. I didn't write about that yesterday, but I'm almost convinced that it's a miscarriage more than a simple BFN for me. (TMI WARNING!) The AF is much more violent than usual; I have real bad cramping at times, and quite major clots, too. And I'm bleeding more. (END OF TMI WARNING) But there's also the fact that I really felt life inside me up until a certain point during the 2ww, and then it changed. As if I had lost the signal, in a way. It's purely instinctive, but it's still something strong for me. Ah, well, it doesn't change the outcome!

I couldn't resist and I checked the possible due date if my FET works... wow, it would be around Feb 12th 2008!! I was a little disappointed by that (gosh, that's in a YEAR!), but as my DH reminded me, the most important is to get me pregnant; the rest will follow real fast. And, on the bright side, I'd still be relatively slim in the summer months and I'd have a big baby belly around Xmas!

Told you I was the dreamer in my house!

Anyway, I have to prepare for work now, but I wanted to drop by and say hi.

tcbalgord I was appalled when I read about your ex's wife! HOW INSENSITIVE! and plain stupid! She's probably very immature and self-centered, not to mention how tactless your husband was to bring her! My heart really hurt when I read about how upset you were, poor sweetie... I hope they felt bad that they made you cry! Stupid, stupid, stupid! Come here sweetie... *HUG* You'll soon be the one to wave a big baby belly under her nose... and your kid will have better grades! Better looking partners! Better jobs! Bigger... brain! Put that behind you darling; they're not worth your attention, emotional and intellectual.

Rachel: I agree with Macca! Please do insist! They can't guarantee 100% but they can still compensate for your loss; it's partly their fault, no matter how you look at it! And please, you're not whining; we care about you!

Fed: whoa! That's quite a beta you got there!!! Can't wait to see the results of your ultrasound!!

Okay, gotta run now! Take care!

Sophie

[tcbalgord]

Thank you SOPHIE!!!!!!! I laughed so hard! You said exactly what I thought as I went to sleep last night. I have decided that I will now be going for FULL custody of Abby. With yesterday's antics it's obvious that she is a bad influence and not someone I want MY daughter to be around. I will still allow Abby to see her father of course but if that is kind of person he wants to be married to, then he will lose the arrangement we have, and be a EOW-end dad.

I hope that you stay in touch dear, I have thought about you often these past days.

Rachel, blast it all....no refund? WTF? I have to agree that you should not give in....they frickin' owe you. Hang in there and don't give up!

[Haylie]

Hi girls

sorry I haven't been around but I haven't really known what planet I've been on and I haven't had access to a computer but anyway I have been thinking of each and everyone of you. For all those who got BFN's I'm really sorry I know there is nothing I can say that will make you feel better I just hope and pray that one day your dreams will come true and never give up! For everyone who has BFP's congratulations.

As for me I had given up completely but I got a BFP!!! I cannot bleieve it and am still in a state of shock. With everything that had gone on with me and DH and the fact that they only transferred 1-grade 4 embie, even on the day of transfer the hosp told me it didn't look good. So from that point on I didn't think for 1 minute it would work infact I did everything they advise not to. I have had alcohol, I have not rested I haven't slept or eaten properly, in fact I' ve lost over half a stone but a miracle has happened and I'm pregnant. I keep pinching myself. My head is all over the place, DH still wants out, the house has been sold but I now have a new focus, I have to look after myself and give my baby the best possible chance. DH is the loser and I'm sure that one day he will regret it and although my heart breaks about our seperation I'm over the moon with my BFP!

I will do personals once I have caught up on you all

Take care
Haylie
xx

[Welshgirl38]

WOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

GO HAYLIE GO HAYLIE GO HAYLIE

Well bloody done lady

As u say, after all u have been thru this is a miricle - u have a wee fighter. DH is the one who is going to lose out so much. U are a lovely lady and i am so pleased for you.

Heres to a smooth pregnancy, and to ur new family

Becky Xxxx

[tcbalgord]

Oh Haylie I am over the moon for you! Congrats sweetie, now you just take care of you and this blessing, because THAT is ALL that matters.

One day DH will wake up and realize that he let go of the best part of him.

Hugs to you and your lil one.

[bigwhitehapydog@aol.com]

Hi Girls, Well, I had my sono today and there is bad news, and some good news. The bad news is between my last IVF cycle and now (about 4 months) I have developed 2 VERY LARGE polyps on the inside of my uterine cavity. MY OH MY! One of them is sooooo huge. I could see it on the ultrasound. I also have a fibroid that is in the uterine wall. There are not worried about that much, but the polyps must come out. One is pressing down into the cervix and they think this is what is causing all the bleeding. Anyway, It's surgery for me before I start my March cycle. The good news, they are still proceeding with the March cycle as long as all goes well with the surgery. Surgery will be next week, and baselines are March 5th. They really want me in March, so we are still shooting for that. Wish me luck that all goes well.

Christine, your ex husband's wife..... WHAT A B****, I would have clocked her one! What an evil eveil person. Did your ex do anything about it when she flaunted her FAT stomach in front of you? Man oh man. She would have been one unhappy camper if I was there.

Sophie. I'm so sorry hon, glad to hear you are staying so brave. I know how hard it is. Have a wonderful honeymoon, you and DH deserve it so much. See you in the next round!

Ange.... Hi Dear. You know I'm keeping my eyes on you. You're my inspiration. You are doing GREAT! I saw your e-mail and gasped! I wanted to die , until I read further. Then I was crying with joy. There are two angels there just waiting for you and DH to take care of them. They are miracle babies, and I am praying so hard for you everyday. They are going to grow grow grow.

AG, I hope you're doing ok. I know this is an awful time for you. Please stay close to loved ones at this time. You'll really need the support. Please also know we're here for you.

Beachbaby. I was with you last thread, but I'm praying that those numbers skyrocket for you this time. They are stronger. I'm not giving up hope on those little buggers yet.

Christine... funny to read about your peanut butter. I have a jar as well. I had eaten 3/4 of the jar before I saw the recall. My numbers are included. I haven't gotten sick, but am throwing it out anyway. Just in case. Hope you're DH is feeling better soon.

Emma, I'm sooo sorry! I'll be thinking of you.

FED: GOODNESS GRACIOUS! Those numbers are FAB! How many babies you got in there?

Aunty, How are you holding up. I'm still doing the chant. BFP BFP, Aunty needs a BFP!

Shantala, Thanks so much for thinking of me today.

I know I forgot some. Hope to be back later. Good luck for all testing the next couple days.

Janice

[tcbalgord]

Janice...

So happy to hear that they are going ahead with your March cycle! I am praying that you have a smooth surgery next week; I'll keep you in my prayers.
Yes, I am glad that I caught that news program about the P.B. I was going to have some of that for breakfast! I decided to keep the jar...in a safe place of course, but if DH ever gets outta line....
LOL ok just kidding, I am going to send in the lid and get my refund!

[AuntyPebbles]

Haylie

CONGRATULATIONS on your Babybelly

your BFP aunty dance

OMG im over the moon for you

[bigwhitehapydog@aol.com]

Christine. You are soooo funny. I like that idea of keeping the p-butter for ammo. hee heeeee. I'm sending my lid in too. Take care hon!