December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

[ssalgado]

Hello ladies!!

Update- Mar 10 appoint went well lining to 9mm ovaries still puffy but ok, e2 levels good, they are discussing my Dr and her Team this week to see if is ok to put my 3 blasto-beanies instead of 3 she is very concern on results of triplets she said considering my age (35) that i still young and that we have proof that has worked for me b-4 , so she will get back to me this week after meeting with staff to get 2nd opinion if they ok, i God give me the blesssing to have 3 WOW!!! she said i will be the 1st lady on having triplets under blastocyst and on this hospital, but then again she also said that we will have to be prepare for a reduction if things don't look good. Any how that is if in fact they all stick so will see i rally need only one more twins would've be nice, but will see.

So my transfer still march 16 friday yupee!!! 2 wks vacation, oh!! i know that some of you got the progesterone shots well guess what? yes she said to give me a better chance due to this being a FET and last one on DEc didn't work she wants to give me a daily shot of progesterone oil to improve my chances ouch!!! she said the are instramuscular and they are long needles ouch! again!! well at least will be 4 days i get them tomorrow Monday ouch!!! i cannot stop thinking that they will HURT!!! oh this is the end of it so will pray for the best and for those 4 days to fly and no pain!!

Happy B-day Shantala!!

Love
Susette

[My2LnT]

Thanks BWHD I need all the jigging I can get so I can start BCP to.
Susette I also hate those shots and asked the Dr for EMLA cream and OH man the POI was a piece of cake I couldn't feel a thing.

Hope all is well with everyone.

XOXO
Steph

[Ange]

Janice.... so glad you are on your way! I'm so excited for you.

Susette...Progesterone shots aren't that bad, just remember why you're doing them and they are getting you one step closer to your BFP.

Shantala...How are those embies doing? How are you feeling?

My2...maybe BWHD can send AF your way now.

As for me... feeling good, still having trouble believing it all. However, although the scale doesn't say I've gained weight, all my clothes are snug in my waist. I'm guessing it's from the progesterone more so than from being pregnant. Not sure how long I'll be able to keep things a secret if my waistline keeps growing. It was so nice to be able to give in to me 3:00 exhaustion today. Can't do that at work, but had a wonderful nap at home.

Hope everyone else is doing well.

p.s. What's up with these google ads at the end of posts?????

hugs,
Ange

[bigwhitehapydog@aol.com]

Hi Ange: I think that snugness is from 2 babies growing. Keeping my fingers crossed!

Hi Shantala: Did you love my little baby on your myspace page? Wasn't it adorable? Gonna be yours soon!

Well girls, I'm feeling great. AF in full swing, started my pills today, and guess what.... woke up and got on the scale... and dropped 2 more lbs this week. I should have joined this online weight watchers thing months ago. UGH! I couldn't drop a darn lb before, and now took off 4 in two weeks. HOORAY! Feeling great today!

Hope everyone is doing well, more personals later. Have a wonderful day ladies!

[ssalgado]

hello there!

Hey Ange- Yes anoying this ADs , Aunty ..... how we can fix this? I am glad that you are doing ok..hey soon enough preggie clothes for you missy.. Thanks for the support on the shots i am scared to death for some reason those intramuscular injections ouch! seems to hurt a lot more than regular .. but i am take your word for it and i am letting you know tonight after i get it ouch!!!!

My- Thanks to you too on the support i guess the Dr wants to give me an extra boost ulala... what a boost!!! i am keeping my mind positive and thinking on my beanies will see the agony tonight!!!!

Thanks
Love
Susette

[AuntyPebbles]

Hey lady's i know i am now finding it a pain to read way too many ad's i have asked the question see if we geta reply..i think the site admins need to raise money to keep the site up and running i hoep they can find a way to advertize without sticking them in the posts....

thinking of you all always love to all Aunty

[tcbalgord]

Shantala, CONGRATS on bring the lil ones home!!!!!! Come on babies stick like glue to your mommy!

Thanks to everyone for asking about DH and Abby. They are both back to their old trouble causing selfs! (I like the sick ones better!!!! LOL)

Wishing all of luck and sticky baby dust!

[ssalgado]

Progesterone update-

Ange - i guess was not too bad.. thanks:) but my butt hurts after like it was brussed but not killing type so i will survive!! 3 more days and it will be over!!

Shantala - How are u feeling?? how are those babies behaving ?
Hope u are feeling good hun...

Fed- where are you how you feeling how are the twins, twins....

Aunty- Thanks for finding out what happen with these anoying ads ! , how is house hunting? any cylce soon hun if you mind me asking?

Bec- i hope u are doing Fantastic!!

Haylie- how are hanging hun??

Cinny- How is the preggie life??

My- I think i will survive the shots for 3 more days

tc- how you doing?

As for me just received a call from my lovely Dr she had her meeting and they think that i should get only 2 embies instead of 3 everyone is very concern on risk of multiples- triplets and complications, she said that they implantation rate for a Blast is 60% so they suggested to put back only 2, but she said we we still can get the 3 if we want but need it to think on reduction if all 3 stick , this is a tough decision me and my dh has spoken about it and we both agree that if it's compromised the babies health or mine that will be the only way we will consider reduction. Well big dilema and not much time to think, i dont want to be greedy and then ended up letting go one of my beanies which i think if is health reason i will be fine with it but still a hurt decision , i know that one of the ladies in this threat went thru the same situation but i don't remember if it was for health reason or Dr's decision.... Any how just feel somewhat overwhalm with this info but happy that we can get a better chance this time ) will see ...

FET- Mar 16 at 10:30am for prep and 11am transfer.

Good luck everyone!!!

Love
Susette

[lara312]

Susette thing seems to be going along nicely for you not long till your babies back home .

Shantala how you going hope your taking it easy and got dh running round after you .

Aunty any news on the house yet have a nice big 1 so we can all come and visit .

Haylie how you doing hope you and babe are well

Janice glad your on your way full steam ahead for you now .


Ange when you planning on telling everyone i'm not even preggy and sometimes i like an afternoon nap .

Christine glad they are all better

Well ladies i just made the phone call to go to an information evening on egg sharing i thought we cant afford to pay £4500 again but we could help someone else who is struggling to have a baby and get reduced ivf (well the treatment will be free )dont know much else just no i cant give up warning going to have a whinge now yesterday in work i was working with the girl who just come back of maternity and her and the boss (whose wife has had a baby) were talking about babies then he said to her isnt the greatest feeling when you look at your baby and they look back at you this hurt abit a big bit they both now what i've been through could'nt they have waited till i'd gone some people are so in considerate sorry for the whinge better go and do dh's dinner catch you all soon
love Rachel x x

[Haylie]

Hi girls

Susette - good luck for Friday not long now and your babies will be home.

Rach- I'm fine thanks still feeling really sick (but I'm not complaining). As for those insensitive people they just haven't got a clue, try and ignore them hun, I know it's easier said than done. Am so glad you phoned the clinic, when is the open evening? Will keep everything crossed for you that this works for you.

Shantala - how are you coping with the 2ww?

Ange - when is your scan, hope you are feeling well

xx

[AuntyPebbles]

Hi Lady's hope you are all well,

Susette i hate that decision youa re having to make, i know back in the day me and hubby thought long and hard about this i know there is no way we could have a reduction so transfering 4 and 3 embies at once we would have taken what we got...wish you loads of luck it's getting close now(((hugs)))

Aunty- any cylce soon hun if you mind me asking?

are you asking when i will be cycleing hun?? i thought you knew we wont be we cant afford it.

Rachel thats wonderful you may be one step closer to your blessing im so thrilled for you i will be keeping everything crossed , i wish we could do egg share like you say it makes it more affordable for you and your giving another couple a wonderful chance at haveing a family big hugs to you

loads of love to all....Aunty

[shantala]

hey ladies

i'm so sorry ive not been posting much but ive been taking a bit of a break as ive been trying to keep myself busy on this 2ww. ive been reading all the posts but just not been posting as i otherwise think about it all too much...know what i mean??

anyway, firstly, thank you ALL soooo much for my birthday wishes!! aaww!!

haylie - hey hun, how you doing?? i'm good thanks, trying to stay positive!! few twinges and pains (and yesterday i had AF pains) but i'm trying to just not think about it as i really cant trust my body at the moment...how are you and little one doing?? and how about everything else??

rachel - fantastic news about the egg share...what a great idea. anywya, how inconsiderate can your work colleagues be???? what a load of b****es!! sorry, but i think they were bang out of order. stuff like that can wait and they can say that to each other elsewhere. oh, i'm so sorry you had to go through that!!

ss - thank hun, i'm good. oohh, difficult decision hun. when do you have to make your decision by?? i really cant help as i really dont know what i would do....its such a tough choice. but whatever you decide, we'll be right behind you!! hugs!

tc - thanks hun, glad dh and abby are better.

bwhd - yes, thanks honey for that!! that baby is so cute...i really hope it is mine soon!! lol....how you doing?? sound like you're right on track what with AF and the weight loss....way to go you!!

ange - hey hun, thanks for asking. i'm fine, just trying to stay positive!! how about you?? hope you're resting and looking after yourself!! and your little one of course!!

my2 - any news on AF yet????

charlie - that email from your nan sounds lovely. we really appreciate genuine support, dont we? aaww, she sounds so sweet!!

sophie - hey hun, thanks for the email. will reply in a moment.

aunty - thanks for raising the ads thing. bless you. anyway, hows the house hunting going??

right, ladies, i'm going to update the list now. gonna have a little play around with it as the lovely aunty has sent me some wonderful icons to add....watch this space...if i get anything wrong please let me know...


also, sorry if ive missed anyone but thinking of you all!!
xxx

[Ems1971]

Shantala I just wanted to pop in and say even though I'm not posting much anymore I am thinking of you and willing those embies to stick! I will pray for you honey. Stay positive.

Love Ems xx

[ssalgado]

Hello ladies!!

First Aunty- i apologized i was not aware for some reason that it was your last cycle , your are about 3 hrs from mass here IVF is covered i don't know what type of work you or your husband do but may be a possibility or moving to Mass area??? Just a suggestion or opinion hun... you know of course you need the health insurance and so on.. but just a thought!

Shantala & Lara- Yes a lot of decisions lately for me but you know is "sad" i had to go yesterday to see one of my friends child who is 1 month older thatn my son (2.50yrs) who got Scarlet Fever and got some bad germs and need to have surgery today... Last night seeing all those poor babies sick and a MOM that went by me on tears because of her ill child, make me realized that i don't want my beanies if all 3 were to stick to go thru all this because of prematuring birth etc. So it hit me hard on my heart.. and we made the decision on transferring only 2 and let the rest to God to decide on my beanies , we will keep one frozen for now, they just call me back they will thaw 2 only hopefully both make it.. and will be transferred on Friday at 11am, Last night it really touch me, besides iw ouldn't have a reduction which i expressed my self to them on that.

So we are having 2 God willing and blessing our little ones... to watch over them on both!!!!

Lara- I'm sorry about people being not consicious on how they speak and how they can hurt someone with their words.. Hopefully things work out..

Haylie- Is part of the road ) For my son i was not sick at all just hungry every 4 hrs and sleepy .. Good luck i'm sure everything wil work out for you and that Blessing that God gave you for a Reason ....... keep safe, and happy enjoy your Pregnancy...!!!!!

Charlie- Thanks!!

LAdies yiu ahve a wonderful day i am anxious this time to see if my beanies will make mommy , Mommy for a 2nd time !!!!!!!

Shantala- i'll meet u soon on those 2 ww vacation..

Love
Susette

[charlie78]

Evening ladies!

Susette - I'm glad you have made the decision, it is very difficult to know what to do for the best, but I think we would have come to that decision if we were in your shoes - keeping everything crossed that your 2 blasts make the big thaw. Good luck for Friday!!!

Ems - can't wait to hear what your next scan reveals!

Shantala - not long now! Really praying for your BFP - it has been a long journey for you!

Haylie - hope you and baby are doing well! Did I read a while back that you live in Cwmbram or was that welshbugger? My DH's nan lives there!

Rachel - good luck at the egg share information evening - it sounds like a really good idea.

BWHD - congrats on the continued weight loss!

Steph - has that beatch turned up yet?

Aunty - thinking about you.

Well I went for my baseline scan and blood test on Monday, they were happy with my lining and my E2 levels and have said that I don't have to wait for AF before I start. I was a bit surprised really but they said it made no difference. I have now started estrodial and have my next scan on Friday 23rd March. All being well if I grow a nice comfy lining for my embies and they make the big defrost I should have FET either 26th or 27th. I'm finding it hard to get excited, but hey ho - who knows!

Sorry if I have missed anyone - thinking about you all!
Big Hugs and LOL Charlie x