December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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My2LnT
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Post by My2LnT »

Shantala you have been so supportive of all of us and I am so sorry. Wishing you the best.

XOXO
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Welshgirl38
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Shantala,

Ive left u a message in ur posting, but i wanted to say it here again, i am ever so sorry this had to happen - please stay strong, your young and this WILL happen for you, im thinking about you hun, once again, im so sorry :(

Becky Xxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..

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lara312
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Post by lara312 »

Shantala i'm so sorry :cry: sending hugs to you and dh thinking of you take care
love Rachel x x
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shantala
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Post by shantala »

ladies, thank you all so much for your posts. it really means a lot!!!

but dont worry, you havent seen the last of me yet!! :wink: (after taking my HPT i had to call the clinic to inform them of the result....the minute they get back to me i'm gonna ask them when i can start again...i think its in 3 months but i'll definitely ask... :D )

xxxxxx
2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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Post by shantala »

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ImageJaby...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp5dt...
3rd January .....First US???
ImageBecleo...BFP
Beta 141 ?Dp?dt...
26th December .....2nd Beta 194
11th January .........1 Perfect beanie
ImageImagelisag999...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp?dt...
17th January .........TWINS!!!
Imageamcsmith...BFP
Beta 134...
15th January ......2nd Beta 496
29th January......1 Healthy beanie
ImageMeg12...BFP
19th Jan HPT +ive...
??th January ......Blood test
ImageAMD...BFP
25th Jan Beta 257...
29th Jan Beta 2960
15th Feb First US...1 perfect beanie
Imagedruiett...BFP
29th Jan Beta 211...
31st Jan ...2nd beta 442
13th Feb ...1st US
27th Feb...3rd US...1 perfect embie
7th March....app with obgyn
ImageSilvaCharm...BFP
31st Jan Beta 57.4...
2nd Feb......2nd beta 127
5th Feb......3rd beta
ImageImageHopeful-in-lv
...BFP
4th Feb 1st Beta...726
6th Feb 2nd Beta...1499 TWINS!!!!
ImageImageFed...BFP
5th Feb HPT +ive...
9th Feb 1st Beta...337
11th Feb 2nd Beta...845
18th Feb 3rd Beta...13,937
26th Feb...First US - IDENTICAL twins!!!
ImageImageMacca...BFP
5th Feb HPT +ive
7th March u/s....FRATERNAL TWINS!!
ImageEms...Hpt +ive
2nd March u/s.....1 beanie, possibly 2!
16th March 2nd u/s....1 Perfect Beanie confirmed
ImageWISCONSINGAL...BFP
6th Feb...1st Beta ???
??? Feb...2nd Beta

ImageImageTony...BFP
6th Feb...... 1st beta ???
?th Feb......2nd beta
ImageNouna...BFP
16th Feb...... 1st beta ???
?th Feb......2nd beta
ImageHaylie...BFP
16th Feb...1 perfect beanie
8th March....1 perfect heartbeat!
26th March.....next US
ImageFionaA...BFP
26th Feb...1st beta ??
Imagemominwaiting...BFP
24th Feb...... 1st beta 140
26th Feb......2nd beta 367
ImageCinny...BFP
26th Feb...... 1st beta 201
28th Feb......2nd beta 343
2nd March......3rd beta 600
5th March......4th beta 1510
8th March......1st U/S....1 perfect beanie!
ImageImageAnge...BFP
23rd Feb...... 1st beta 16
27th Feb......2nd beta 159
3rd March......3rd beta 614
17th March.....1st U/S...TWINS!!!!


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ssalgado...Test 25th MarchImage2 perfect embryos snuggling inImage
angie65...Test ??th MarchImage2 perfect embryos snuggling inImage



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Imagecharlie78...FET...23rd March.......Image(On E2)Scan(26th FET)

"Ovarian Vacation"
BigWhiteHapyDog...IVF...2nd April.......Image(on BC)Baseline


COUNT DOWNImage
JackieG...IVF..??th March.......ImageStart Stimms (waiting for AF)
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My2LnT...IVF...?th March.......ImageStart BCP Starting Provera to bring on AF.....
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Jemima...IVF...5th March.......Imageappointment with OB specialist
Becky...IVF...?th February.......ImageWaiting for new schedule
arizonakiwi...FET...??th April.......Image start BCP
PMApsy...FET...??th May.......Image FET

ImageIN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS AS YOU MOVE FORWARD
Dory so sorry wishing you well in the future
Gbnut in our thoughts and prayers
Tex in our thoughts and prayers
TCBalgord in our thoughts and prayers
Sokru8 in our thoughts and prayers
Jordan sadly lost im so sorry in our thoughts and prayers
Raintree in our thoughts and prayers
js200632 in our thoughts and prayers
empmtb in our thoughts and prayers
cookholms in our thoughts and prayers
phxivf in our thoughts and prayers
Faithful1010 in our thoughts and prayers
Jodic in our thoughts and prayers
Lara312 in our thoughts and prayers
ag817 in our thoughts and prayers
Emma27 in our thoughts and prayers
Aunty in our thoughts and prayers
beachbaby in our thoughts and prayers
druiett - 1 twin sadly lost, i'm so sorry, in our thoughts and
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shantala in our thoughts and prayers

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Becleo.....3rd April
2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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Post by CINNY1 »

Sorry 4 the abscence. Life has been crazy. I started bleeding a about 2 weeks ago. I ran to the dr and instead of miscarriage, I heard the heartbeat. I was put on bedrest until 4-15. I have another ultrasound on 3-30-07 to hopefully find out whats going on. Please pray 4 me and dh.
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Post by CINNY1 »

Another wonderful sidenote. Job keeps threatening to say I abandoned my job. At this point, I don't care what the job does. My #1 concern is baby.
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Post by shantala »

cinny - you're right. excuse my language but f*** the job!!! your little one will be in my prayers!! he/she is a fighter...it fought through the OHSS and your hospital trip so it will fight through this!! come on little one!! you and DH will be in my prayers!!

xxx
2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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mom20
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Post by mom20 »

shantala just wanted to say sorry your in my thoughts and prayers glad your being positive about everything i know how hard it is to stay strong.
love and hugs coming your way
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as for me just a quick up date appointment with gyno has been changed to 23April at 10.00am im feeling like time is passing me by and im getting nowwhere fast everyone is moving on in life getting new jobs boy friends having babies and im still without a job and no baby still to hold in my arms. I thought i was coping with my feelings but im not the longing to be a mam(which im shure all you ladies can empathise with me) is getting more and more. Ive been spending a lot of time with my nephew whilst ive been out of work and its made me want children even more i feel like im getting to attached to him. His mam says im his second mam which is ok but DH goes mad he keeps saying he is not yours you do know that dont you. I do know this he makes me mad by saying this i know that he is not mine but i love spending time with him ive had a lot to do with him since he was born as his mam had pnd and use to look after him overnight to give her a rest so you see there is a bond there from this. Ive said all this to his mam and she is happy for me to see him as much as i want and not to worry. Do you ladies ever feel like it is never going to happen and feel like crawling in a hole and crying cause at the min i do i sick of trying to be positive all the time ive waited nearly a 2 years for this second try to come around and have been positive most of it but these past few weeks all my will has gone and i feel so negitave about everything and i dont know why as i was so positive before. You ladies all seem so strong but im shure there are times that you all feel like me and have times like this. I know that my feelings will change but at the min i feel like giving up.

sorry for rant

how is everyone ?

mom20
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Post by ssalgado »

HI SHANTALA HUN!!

I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE U SO POSITIVE USE THIS TO MAKE U STRONGER AND NOT WEAKER KEEP ON GIRL.. JUMP ON AGAIN!!!! YOUR NUMBER WILL COME UP!! :)

LOVE
SUSETTE
1st IVF-ICSI 2003-BFP SEBASTIAN IS 2.5 YRS OLD
1ST FET-DEC-2006 1 EMBY-BFN
2ND IVF-ICSI- FEB-2007- BFN
2ND FET-BLAST-MAR2007-2 EMBIES- BFP-3RD BETA WENT DOWN-LOST PREGNANCY.
3rd IVF ICSI OCT-2007 2BLAST TRF-BFN
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Post by beachbaby »

Shantala, i am so sorry for you,, take care.

Mom, i know how you feel, hugs to you and hope you feel better soon. I find the process harder each time, its now nearly 4 weeks since all my hopes ended again and i still feel extremely emotional. take care.

Sorry i've been MIA, had a few days off this week with \dh, and been getting the garden sorted.

take care ladies my thoughts are with you all.
Me 39, DH 40. TTC 5years
4th times a charm,1-IVF, 3xFET's, 2 chemical
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Post by ssalgado »

OK GOOD AM LADIES!!

HOW IS EVERYBODY DOING??
AUNTY I SIGN YOUR WISH!! :) REALLY HOPE THAT THIS WORKS ...

CHARLIE- TODAY IS YOUR FET :shock: , LET US KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND HOW MANY ARE SNUGGLING WITH MOMMY :)

CINNY- I'M SORRY TO HEAR THE BAD NEWS, KEEP STRONG AND HANG IN THERE MY PRAYERS WILL BE OUT FOR YOU .. GOOD LUCK!

MY- IS THE WITCH HOME YET? :twisted:

WELL LADIES 2 MORE SLEEP FOR ME TO FIND OUT HOPEFULLY GOOD NEWS THIS TIME... I HAVE BEEN CRAMPING SINCE YESTERDAY AF TYPE I'M VERY CONCERN BUT TRYING TO STAY POSITIVE!!! :)

LOVE
SUSETTE
1st IVF-ICSI 2003-BFP SEBASTIAN IS 2.5 YRS OLD
1ST FET-DEC-2006 1 EMBY-BFN
2ND IVF-ICSI- FEB-2007- BFN
2ND FET-BLAST-MAR2007-2 EMBIES- BFP-3RD BETA WENT DOWN-LOST PREGNANCY.
3rd IVF ICSI OCT-2007 2BLAST TRF-BFN
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Post by PMApsy »

Hello ladies,

Sorry for the quick post, but I have just a few seconds.

Shantala, glad you have that attitude; you're bouncing right back and I love that! :D Hey who knows, if you do a fresh cycle in three months, we might cycle together! (if my FET doesn't work)

Cinny: I agree 100% with Shantala, the heck with the job! Your baby is the priority! Bed rest is a challenge and I hope you have plenty of things to keep you busy.

Gotta run, sorry; but hugs and kisses to all!

Sophie
1st and 2nd IVF = BFN 1st FET BFP! m/c at 7 weeks. 2nd FET BFP! 3rd FET BFN
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Post by charlie78 »

Good evening ladies!

Steph - any sign of that witch yet? Image She is really messing you around!

Haylie - goos luck with your next scan - can't wait to hear your update!

Shantala - I'm glad you are looking ahead - it's all we can do - right? I really admire your strength LOL

Cinny - make sure you rest for your little one - I will keep you in my prayers.

Mom20 - sorry you are having a rough time! It is hard to stay positive and I think it is fair to say that everyone on these boards has their down days with negative thoughts - it is hardly surprising with what we are all going through. And people who don't have fertility problems don't understand - they think they are saying the right thing - sometimes it makes me want to scream or cry or both.
Don't give up!

Beachbaby - good to hear from you. Do you want to come and do our garden? It is a mess!

Susette - praying and keeping my fingers crossed for your BFP Image

As for me - I went for my scan and bloods today and I am all set for FET on Tuesday at 12pm- as long as our little ones make the big defrost! Not feeling very optimistic about it all! I keep thinking - if it didn't work last time - when they took the 2 best ones - how is it going to work this time?
Oh well - what will be will be! I'm not looking forward to the dreaded 2ww - for me, definately the worst part about this whole thing!

Hugs to anyone I have missed

Charlie x
Me 30, DH 29
3 x IVF & 1 FET all BFN
IVF number 4 = BFP!!

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Post by My2LnT »

Hey Charlie you are so right that witch is really messing with me and still has not shown her ugly self here yet.I do hope the embies you have left show you that they are lil fighters and give you a BFP.

Susette I am very happy you are keeping a PMA and wishing you a quick 2 days.To end with a BFP woo hoo :wink:

Cinny you little one is a fighter wishing you all the best.

Mom20 I wish you all the best and we all know that not all men understand anything about what our feelings are when we go thru this.... OK they are male they don't understand much at times period..... 8)

Shantala I am glad to see you are being so positive and at this rate hell we may end up cycling together since my AF is such a *****.

Wishing everyone the best

XOXO
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