May 05 - 2ww

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Post by NickiMark »

Thanks kim,

I will bear that in mind about the lavender.

Big J, I can so see a BFP coming your way :D

I am thinking I am going to be on BFN by the 2nd June. I am trying to have PMA. It's just a hunch!
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by LittleP »

Nicola

:? Now you stop that negative thinking, you naughty girl - PMA, PMA, PMA and huge hugs :!:

Try and stay positive and look after yourself. I've got everything crossed for you :wink:

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Post by julesg »

Nikki

LittleP is right PMA PMA PMA PMA - I know easy said than done :!: Keep telling those embies to hang on in there :!:

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Post by Alison »

Hey Nikki, what's with the negative thinking? That doesn't sound like you. Pull yourself together woman!!

Pauline, I don't envy you spending time with your mum and her not knowing. My family don't know about this attempt either (18 months ago we told everyone that after 5 goes we were giving it up - and meant it at the time!). I know they'd do all they could to be suppportive, but I find their sympathy and concern adds to the pressure (I feel bad for even writing this, as I know they'd be gutted if they knew that's how I felt!) Anyway, bad back excuse sounds inspired - hope the visit goes ok.

I tend to agree with Bron about keeping a little bit busy after the embies are back, but then again several people have quoted Zita's advice to do absolutely nothing for 3 days. I've bought a couple of novels and a puzzle book today in preparation for lying around, but suspect I may go a little stir crazy if I don't leave the house!

Love to all, especially those approaching test day.

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Post by Sher8 »

NickiMark

Cheer up, you are almost there! You will have those up and down days, but the real answer will come when you test. So PMA all the way!!!

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Post by NickiMark »

thanks girls for that PMA!

I know it's not like me, just one of those days I guess.

Had wind all day (TMI) Is this a sympton?

I feel like I am going insane....... :x
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Post by LittleP »

Nicki

Oh you poor love - you really are having a bad day aren't you :(

You're not going insane, it is a nightmare time and it is so cruel having to wait and not knowing! :?

We're all here for you and will help keep you smiling as best we can.

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Thanks LP, I am smiling just lacking PMA
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Post by NickiMark »

Ive just read a post from Debra, on another thread.
She said Just assume you're Pg. until you hear otherwise.
So thats what I shall do. It's hard though as DH keeps going on and saying 'your acting like your pg. you aren't pg til the test says so'
Blah, blah, blah!!!
I cant hear you DH!!!!! :lol:
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Post by eskavon »

Nicola
You naughty puppy!!!!
Get that PMA back in your head right now! You're one of the 'allways know the right thing to say' gang (gang includes LP, Becky, Big J Sand et al) and I need you back on normal form please.
I'm sure you will get a BFP so hang on in there. :D
Not long now ...
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Post by princess »

Awe Clare honey I know what you mean.
Saturday night I was yelling at DH like a mad woman. Yesterday and today I just feel like crying.
My house is also a mess we have 2 dogs so it's like having 2 kids that like to play in the mud and make a mess. I just don't care what the house looks like right now, if anyone stops over they will just have to deal with my messy house. Love me love my mess...Hee heee. Don't fret about the house it really isn't worth it. I am sure DH doesn't care.
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Thanks Eskavon, You dont know how much that means to me.
I feel very honnored to be in the 'always know the right thing to say gang'
I'm sorry, for not being on form today....
Tomorrow, I am visit ing friends...Should be good, I guess but 1 mate is pg with 2nd child, after ttc after 1 night.... both times!! The other mate is mummy to a little girl too. I hope I dont come away drained.

Anyway, dont worry girls. The old Nicki will be back soon. I am sure. Im not one for downers as a rule.
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Post by eskavon »

Oh Nicola
I hope it all goes well for you. Just remind yourself that will be you one day and i'm sure you'll make a fab mum
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Post by ogr1 »

i second the great mom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

nic knock it off right now !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i dont put much into signs of being pregnant..
but i can say that the first month of being pregnant i had alot of wind and there wasnt anything i could do about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it was down right :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:

so we will think +++++++++++++++++++++++++
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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