July Thread

jeffer · Post by **jeffer** » Sun Jul 23, 2006 12:59 pm

you guys have give me we bit hope yet its not over till the fat lady sings as they say good luck to u all what ever stage your at in tm xx jennifer

jeffer · Post by **jeffer** » Sun Jul 23, 2006 1:02 pm

to soon i hope thanks for the incurigment !!! sorry ma spellings crap good luck to u all xx jen

elliecat · Post by **elliecat** » Sun Jul 23, 2006 2:40 pm

Good luck tomorrow jeck and jeffer. Don't give up hope.
Feel really sick today and can't stop thinking about 2morrow.(Putting it down to nerves and medicine). I didn't do test in the end but wish i had now, how will we sleep tonight???

Take care to you both

Ellie xx

nictor · Post by **nictor** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 8:45 am

Jeck,Elliecat,Jeffer..how did you all get on this morning,i've been thinking of you all..hope we have 3 outta 3 BFP's..xxx

Hope everyone else had a good weekend,and is doing well...

Clinic called me on Saturday,my FET is definately Tuesday,so we went to Edinburgh Zoo on sunday,just to take my mind off things,now that the time is here im sick with nerves,waiting for clinic to call today to see if my frosties survived the thaw,and to see what time transfer is..the phone has already rang 3 times this morning and its only 9.40am,every time it rings,im scared to answer in case they tell me they didnt survive the thaw..I was at clinic on Saturday morning and went into the chapel and said a prayer or 3 and thats so not like me,im going to my own church today to ask God to please let it work this time...i sometimes feel like im going mad with the stress of it all........On a cheerier note,i borrowed all the Friends dvd's,so i'll hopefully spend my 2ww laughing my ass off,and hope that helps!!

Take care and looking forward to all your BFP's,lots of love..Nicola..xxx

PebblesUK · Post by **PebblesUK** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 8:49 am

Wow I haven't been on for a few days and look at all those posts!

Jeck, Jeni and Elliecat best of luck for that BFP.

Nicola just one more sleep for you. Today is going to drag and you are not going to be able to sleep tonight but it will be so worth it!

Hope all of you on your 2WW are ok.

Best of luck to everyone

Jo
xxx

gbnut · Post by **gbnut** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 9:41 am

Jeck, Jeni and Elliecat best of luck for that BFP

The clinic rang me today with an update on my embryios. they are definately taking them to 5 days. They are 4 at 4 cell, 1 @ 6 cell, 4@8cell 1@9 cell and 1@10 cell. the embryologist is very happy with the way things are going.

Hope everyone had a good weekend

susan X

PebblesUK · Post by **PebblesUK** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 9:42 am

wow Susan that's excellent - all of them are doing great! What clinic do you go to?

Best of luck

Jo
xx

gbnut · Post by **gbnut** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 3:06 pm

Jo congratulations on your BFP. I go to ARGC in London.

Susan x

jeck · Post by **jeck** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 8:07 pm

Well it looks like this was not a good day for testing. I am a BFN. I am disappointed but at least it wasn't another miscarriage. A negative is much easier for me to deal with than another miscarriage.

Thanks for all your support!!

nictor · Post by **nictor** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 8:20 pm

Jeck,im so sorry to hear of your BFN,i know the pain your going through and its bloody awful,do you know the next step in your tmt,have you and DH thought about what comes next?

Everyone else we have to keep our chins up and keep positive,altough its so hard to have PMA all the time...

My clinic called today and 2 outta my 4 frosties didnt survive and im so gutted,i know it only takes 1 but im on such a downer now,my FET is tommorow at 2pm and already the stress is getting to me,i've cried like a baby since they called to tell me and i feel like i cant talk to DP about it,so he thinks im being a right moody *****!! It's suddenly came to me how awful the 2ww is not that id forgotten but today brought it home again,dont know how i'll sleep tonight,wondering if my embies will survive.
Im so sorry for the selfish rant,but i do know that most of you will understand my feelings..

Hope evryone else is having a better day..Take care ,lots of love..Nicola..xxx

Rileydee · Post by **Rileydee** » Mon Jul 24, 2006 8:45 pm

Jeck- I'm so sorry. I feel horrible for you and dh. This sucks!! I'm sending you a huge ((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))).

Nicola- Keep your head up! Good luck with the frosties.

gbnut · Post by **gbnut** » Tue Jul 25, 2006 8:13 am

Jeck i am really sorry to hear your news. It is hard but you need to try to become postive again. You are in my thoughts.

Nicola - I have my fingers crossed for your embryios. we will be doing the dreaded 2ww together as my embryios go in tommorow.

Hope everyone else are keeping positive and stress free.

Susan x

elliecat · Post by **elliecat** » Tue Jul 25, 2006 9:11 am

SO sorry to hear of your loss Jeck i am in the same position and so know how you feel.

Really angry and frustrated yesterday but am calmer today. I think we will wait for the summer to be over before we try again, am going to book a few days in Barcelona with DP to have a bit of time by ourselves( we live with mother in law and brother building a property) so not much space by ourselves, which is why i think i have been so frustrated. DP is great really supportive but i think he is holding it in trying to support me.

Thinking of you
Ellie
xx

DioneT2002 · Post by **DioneT2002** » Tue Jul 25, 2006 2:28 pm

Jeck, Tonia...so sorry for you both. I haven't been there yet and your news is heartbreaking.
Tonia, I have talked to DH about you since I stumbled across you weeks ago. Filled him in on your news over the weekend and we are grieving with you.
I wrap my arms around all of you who are not getting the desired outcomes this week and those of you who are still waiting. It is NOT over, just delayed a bit.
Take care and do something special for yourselves...we've earned it!

jeck · Post by **jeck** » Tue Jul 25, 2006 3:35 pm

I just wanted to send out a Big Thank You to everyone for your loving support!!! I don't know what I would do if I didn't have this board!!

Dh and I did a lot of talking yesterday and he wants to do one more cycle and I am not so sure. I am just tired of the roller coaster. I have not been my happy self since my ectopic 2 years ago. I am tired of this controling my life. With my 2 loses pieces of my heart broke off with them and I know those holes can never be filled, but I thought maybe if we had a baby my heart would be mended... I know God has a plan for me, but I have no idea what that is and what direction he wants me to go in. Please keep me in your prayers that I may find the right path.

I have a follow up next friday and have lots of questions before I can decide if I will do another cycle.

Thanks again and good luck to everyone in whatever stage you are!!
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