Julie oh hun you're not the only one feeling all these feelings. Its so hard when friends have babies and they're all moving on and they forget what its like for us. One of my best friends has just had her baby and i find it really hard going round there right now as all she talks about are baby things... for the whole night! And it wrenches at my heart to see her and her dh all cosy with their new born. She was trying same time as us and we both used to talk about it as she had been trying for 19 months and had had some investigations but all turned out to be alright. She knows all about us but and how devastated we have been but when we go round I can't help but think how she doesn't realise how hard it is for me to see and her dh all happy with their little baby. Does she have to rub salt into the wound by telling me every last detail? She said the other night when I went round and took my mum, "oh can't be bothered with work, can you? its just not a priority" then proceeded to talk about all her work friends who are either pg or have had babies in the last year and who can't be bothered with work. Oh well good for them!!. I mean is is just me
or is that totally insensitive. I have told her before that work is one of the things that keeps me going right now, my career is a focus ... and I certainly don't want to be reminded about all those successfully pregnant friends of hers! but then like you I think, maybe its me with the problem not them. I worry to that I am going to drift apart from her too
Maybe we should both speak to our respective friend huh?? Nicki I almost cried reding your story doll but you seem to have coped with it really well.
Sorry got to dash, hi to everyone else
xxx
. Hope the same happens for you. Chin up x