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vicky77
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Post by vicky77 »

Melissa......the pinky toe thing stinks, it happened to me too.........and it was 1 week before my wedding!!! :shock: , I also had both toes tied together until the wedding day when, I didn't care what would happen, of course I took everything out, cause I had to look fab that day obviously :wink: .....Anyway, hope your toe gets better soon!!!

Wanna....those are great numbers!!!!, glad they let you go again for a repeat so you can feel better!!!. Your goddog misses his godmother, and he is jealous now that he is going to have competition since you are preggo.....

Patie......congrats on your fashion contest, please send us a picture as soon as you finish it so we can see it!!!. Ooooo, so you went to see the tennis open, my DH loooooooooooves tennis, he is an addict!!. Which game did you see?. Don't forget the pillow tomorrow :wink:

As for me, not much going on..........waiting for Sanson's fourth week of training this coming Sunday, that is my big event...LOL :lol: . Other than that, I am playing like I am on the 2ww now, since I ovulated around Monday and we did our homework with DH :wink: (sorry if TMI :oops: ), so in a way I could be considered being on the 2ww, only that if I get preggo it will be a BFP, but if I don't then it won't be a BFN, we'll just pretend nothing happened since we are not cycling :roll: ......sounds good huh!!!...only good news accepted .....

Have great weekends girls!!!
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Hey sistas!

Patie: sorry you can't get to my flickr site. I will pm you a picture of me and dh... i have to wait until i am home, so will write myself a little note... if i forget, just remind me :wink: .

Melissa: bummer on the little toe.... one of those body parts you don't pay much attn to until it busts on ya. Now, i'm thinking if you have you toenails decked out in blue sparkly polish in the sisterhood fashion, no one will notice your taped up toe! :lol: .

Wanna: way to go.. beta of 167 is fab. Glad RE is humoring you and will draw repeat beta next wk. Cool!

Angie: when is your next follie check?

Sorry not real chatty today ladies... just VERY glad that it is Friday and in a few hours will be home on the couch waiting for dh to come home with take out and a movie. This has been a real rough week, and now just wanting to collapse and SLEEP IN tomorrow!!!

As for my dildocam reunion.... ah, it seemed like no time had passed at all :wink: . I got the green light for stims this afternoon. I start my lupron flare tonight, and off i go. It just seems so anti-climactic and all... knowing no ET for months. In some ways it is nice... i will stim, do the retrieval and then have my life back for a month.

Hope you all are well.
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Happy Friday!!

I have been away all day and now I have a lot ot catch up on.

Great numbers Wanna! Thank you for your explanation on getting the lap. Let me give you a little info. and then please tell me what you think I should do. I know the rest of you girls are reading this too so please give me your vote! I had a lap. last Feb. it was my 1st one. They found stage three and cleaned it out. I took lupron for 3 mos. to stop it from growing back and help kill anything he may have left in there. Dr. said that was standard procedure. Now I am with new Dr. and she said she didn't think I needed to do it again, but she wouldn't argue with me if i demanded it. She said there are some who would say the chances are better for success in IVF after a lap. I figured insurance covers it, I'm curious to know whether it came back, and if so how bad did it come back. But I REALLY don't want to have surgery just b/c it's covered, and just so she can have a look see. So bottom line I don't know what I'm going to do...

Sassy- great! stimming tomorrow! Glad you had a nice visit with dildocam. Do they put the big plastic condom looking thing on it like they do at my place? There is a huge box of what look just like condoms next to my dildocam. The nurse comes in and rolls one on. I have wanted to take one before they come in the room. I wanted to bring it home and give it to DH just to see his face. But I never got up the nerve. Didn't want to steal on my 1st round with this clinic. Plus they have this green lube stuff on them, and I didn't want to get that all over my purse. Plus I thought what if I forget about it and then a friend says can i borrow your lipstick and i tell her to get it out of my purse, and then she gets green lube on her, or worse pulls out my super sized dildocam condom and...well I think you get my jist now. There were just way more cons than pros to taking one. :wink:

Melissa- hope the toe thing gets better! broken toes are hard to fix.

Vicky- I am on a 2ww myself. Although I don't see a bfp for me this time. I had a stomach virus earlier this month and DH has something against bd with me while i'm hanging over a toilet. I don't know what his problem is?? :?

patie- what kind of fish? anything special?

amy- bunco uses just 3 dice and you take turns rolling them to get sixes. It's a lot of fun, but not really like pokeno. I think it is even more brainless! Same theme though- girls getting together to eat, drink, and gossip!! It is harder to gossip at bunco i think because it moves way faster than pokeno! But still a lot of fun!

Well I'm off to take a hot bath and relax for the evening. Enjoy the weekend everyone! :lol:
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Hey ladies, I have been reading your post for some time now and I have say that you all crack me up! I had to reply to your post Jenn about the roll of condom like things for your dildocam. Well guess what at my last clinic they actually used condoms. Right there next to the dildocam sat a industrial size box of condoms. I had to laugh the first time the nurse just rolled one on like it was no big deal. Oh the things that we become used to ! Best of luck to all of you on your cycles.
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Jill: Welcome to the thread! I am pretty sure they just use gloves to cover the dildocam at my clinic... will have to pay special attention next wk!

Jenn: i have two words for you "ziploc bag"! Get a small one (like a snack size or something and bring it with you so you can swipe one of those megacondom things). that way the lube won't get all over, but you can still surprise dh! heeheehee

First lupron shot down (start gonal f and menopur tomorrow)... how many more shots to go???? Am i almost there??? *said with a whine* :lol:
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ooo, ooo, ooo, Fee: i finally figured it out!!!! ok, last time i did lupron twice a day, gonal f once, menopur once, and then starting day 5 i added cetrotide... so i was doing 5 shots a day for a while. This time, i am using gonal f powder so will combine with menopur... one less stick a day. *sigh* Ahhhhh, its the little things in life :lol:
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Jenn—So you just had the surgery last year. That much shouldn’t have come back in a year. Expecially after the Lupron to suppress the cycle. I also had the Lupfon to suppress the cycle. My biggest fear was the scar tissue and adhesions. Both of those can make it difficult to get pregnant and hold a baby. Also, my doctor said having a lap for Endo is just a band aid. He said it’s going to continue to come back so what are you going to do, have surgery every year. He said that IVF can surpass Endo. He did a few tests to make sure I could get pregnant and hold a baby. Women get pregnant and carry babies to term all the time with endo. So it’s okay to have endo and get pregnant. But the key is to make sure your tubes and uterus are not blocked. I had a hysterosalpingogram.

More info: During a hysterosalpingogram, a dye called contrast material is injected through a thin tube that is inserted through the vagina into the uterus. Because the uterus and the fallopian tubes are connected, the contrast material will flow into the fallopian tubes. As the contrast material passes through the uterus and fallopian tubes, continuous X-ray pictures are taken. The pictures can reveal problems such as an injury or abnormal structure of the uterus or fallopian tubes, or blockage that would prevent an egg passing through a fallopian tube from reaching the uterus. Blockage also could prevent sperm from traveling into a fallopian tube and fertilizing an egg. A hysterosalpingogram also may detect abnormalities on the inside of the uterus that might prevent a fertilized egg from attaching (implanting) to the uterine wall

Also, I had a test done to see if my uterus was blocked before IVF. Not sure what that was called but saline solution is pushed into the uterus and RE watched it flowed back out while watching it via a u/s. Nothing was blocked for me but still was not able to conceive naturally.

Also, the more you operate on the uterus the weaker it can get, thus making it hard to hold a baby.

Unfortunately the only way a dr can tell if you have endo (or if it’s back) is thru a lap. I asked my doctor could he open me up to see if the Endo was back and then lap it if there was a lot but leave it alone if it wasn’t that bad and if it wasn’t affected my reproductive organs. He said yes. I still have endo on my bowels and bladder. But of course it’s not good to operate on them so there it stays. Maybe ask your doctor if he could take a peak but not do anything that would jeopardize a pregnancy. So with all that said….You have to do whatever makes you comfortable. I’m not sure if this is your first IVF and if you have to pay for it yourself. I have heard that a lap before an IVF can increase your chances. However I don’t know anyone that has had it done. Maybe you should post the question on the site. But my doctors advised against the lap before the IVF. RE told me if this one failed then he would be more concerned with doing a lap but not for the Endo, but mostly for the fibroids. They cause more of a problem than Endo. If lap is covered and IVF isn’t then maybe go for the lap so your chances of a BFP will be increased. Now if IVF is covered, I would do that first and see if it works. If it doesn’t (God Forbid) then have lap and another IVF. But like I said, it’s your call. Try asking around and see what others think. I don’t want to give you the wrong info. I want what’s best for you so please research and let us know what you decide.

Vicky—Wish my goddog good luck with his training. Tell him to make us proud! Ok, I’m so confused as to what you and DH are doing right now, please explain. Talk to me like I’m a two year (have been feeling like one lately).

Sassy—Yeah, RE was like..whatver, come in if you want. He wasn’t too enthused. Guess he’s seen enough of me for the past couple of weeks. BTW, you need an award for the most needles in one day…GEESH!

Patie—DH knows I’m addicted to posting. I’m in the bed with the laptop as I type. He’s constantly giving me the puppy dog eyes. He just got off the bed and went on the floor to play with the puppy. Guess I wasn’t given him enough attention.

Jill—Welcome! Glad we could amuse you.

Mel—Hope your toe feels better soon. When I broke mine and had to wear the dreadful black orthopedic show I made sure to wear a black show on the other foot as not to draw too much attention to my funny looking other shoe. Everything I wore was black or had black in it to match my black shoes. Lol

Ok, so I’m really tired right now. About to take my progesterrone and call it a night.

Talk to you ladies later. Have a wonderful weekend. Sending you all baby dust! :P
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Good morning ladies... I am back to work :cry:

Wanna.. you got some great numbers! I see u went through alot w the endo... i thought of doing the endometrium test but the dr said that if there's something it'd show on via scan... i dont know if i should be doing it anyway... well first i have to get the karyo results... only few more days to go!

Vicky, the game was between Roger Federrer and Thomas Hass... Roger won...so will see him again tonight... he's such a cutee.... u should see the screams every time he changed his shirt.... hmmmm

Sass...enjoy your weekend...there's nothing like lazying around...i love it! and good luck w the stims...

Jenn, i went yesterday to the pet shop and they didnt have fish... i was sad as i wanted to bring missy home... so maybe today i will go to another one... i dont have any specific type.. i will have to see to which my heart goes :lol:

Welcome Jill....I am glad u like the thread... the ladies are quite talented...

Melissa i am sure you will look cute even with the broken toe... good luck w the convention...but try to rest the pinky as much as u can so it'd heal faster...

as for the rest of you ladies... i hope u have a great weekend and i will check in later... tons of hugs to all...
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Hey girls.... thought you could appreciate this (especially the ben and jerry's lovers...), icecream just might hold the key to our problems :lol:

http://www.newscientist.com/channel...ake-babies.html

I am thinking frequent intake of high-fat icecream should be included as part of our infertility treatments??!!! (ummmm, yes, i am aware that i will not be ovulating for like, months... but i am thinking this is SURE to help me anyway... positive thinking!) Coco, put that on the list for the Sisterhood house!

Patie: just trying to figure out how to post pictures.... haven't forgotten you!

So my first IM shot was this morning... and as he was preparing to give me the shot... dh says in a deep, announcer voice.... "let the mega cycle begin!!!!" :lol:
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hey sassy... which article is that... the link wasnt complete so i couldnt find it... in which section is it?

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oops :oops: sorry girls... this link to the article should work!

http://www.newscientist.com/channel/hea ... abies.html
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Post by Ghost »

And this is the corresponding scientific article published in Human Reproduction:

http://humrep.oxfordjournals.org/cgi/co ... t/dem019v1

Kind of odd. High fat=good, low fat=bad?

But notice the 95% CI for the RR for the high fat hypothesis includes 1.0. The effect was not statistically significant, and with n=18,500, that is saying something. In other words, there is only slight evidence of one modest benefit from high fat foods, probably to be balanced against the more firmly established negatives.

The study was sponsored by the National Dairy Council. Just kidding.
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Ghost thank you for your input..........tough I was kind of liking the idea of having a couple of ice creams a day..... :roll: oh well, too good to be true :wink:
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Ah man, Ghost.... i just got back from buying the entire line of ben and jerry's to sample tonight! :lol:
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Good morning ladies... Sassy i didnt get the chance to read the article yet though as i understood ice cream can help....wow... that's actually a dream come true .... oh well...

I scaned the sketches of my dress but i am trying to figure out how to post them...

vicky any idea how i can post a picture??? sos...

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