


1st we need to visit with our RE’s...
BarbD: Dec. 22nd > FET
To_Have_fun: Dec. 23rd
JennLB25: Jan. 5th
Lady_J: Jan. 9th
Robin611: Jan. 13th > FET

Waiting for 4: Dec. 19th

Tkat: Lupron - Dec. 19th
Sisi1: Lupron - Dec. 29th


We were trying to adopt him. The day before court, where they were going to take away his mom's rights and let us adopt him, well his uncle from another state (who he didn't know) came and talked his mom into signing her rights over to him. Legally she was able to because she had her rights until that next day when we were to go to court. So, needless to say, we never even made it to court. They sealed the deal and he was taken out of state where he knew no one.Lady_J wrote:JennLB... your foster son is such a handsome little guy. WHy did u have to give him up? Adoption was not an option? If u dont mind me asking?
waiting four 4 I don't have much time either, I have a lot of work to do here at the office and I need to get it all done so that I can get away with only working 1/2 day tomorrow. But.....I need to respond....waiting for 4 wrote:BarbD- Just shrug off people like that because they don't know what it is like to be in this position. They don't know our pain and the struggles with our faith that we must face everyday. Know that God put this technique at our disposal by providing us with the wonderful scientists and doctors we have come to love so that each of us may know what it is like to be called "Mommy"
Not to get too sappy, but I just wanted to thank everyone in this room for being who you are and sharing your journey with us. I still have my moments of missing my baby (its only been a week) but knowing ya'll are out there across the country or world helps me get through each day. I love you guys even though I don't know you... how weird does that sound?
, I totally feel the same way. It really helps knowing I have women out there going through all the emotions and junk that I'm going through, knowing someone out there understands is comforting. I talk to family and friends all the time and when talking about my upcoming IVF cycle, I'll say "Well, the girls say...." I always talk about the support you guys give and what we give each other, hope, a shoulder to cry on, someone who truly understands, and someone we can rejoice with in the end when we get our BFP (as only those of us who go through this process, can truly appreciate what it takes to get a BFP).I love you guys even though I don't know you... how weird does that sound?
My wonderful DH wrote this back to me:Well just wanted to say I love you and miss you and wish I had this week off with you. Also, sorry about last night. I just have moments of self pitty. It's really hard on me emotionally, this whole infertility thing. And to know that I will never get pg on my own now is still really hard to deal with at times. I can't think about it without crying.
HE MADE ME CRY!!! Good thing the attorneys are in court.I think I understand more than you think. You have to remember that there is only one person who has walked by your side through this whole thing and that's me. I'm not saying that to be prideful but for you to see that I see you hurt and frustrated. I see you every month when your cycle starts. I see your face when others announce their pregnancies. There is no way I can sympathize on the physical side bc I'm not a woman but you gotta see that since we have been together that we became one. One in our marriage. One in the good times. One in the bad times. I want to be here for you. We have God to sustain us through this procedure and He has also given you me. And H has given me you. Please don't carry this on your own. I want to help you baby. I love you so dearly words could never express it. Maybe the tears I'm crying now could but just know I am yours forever, eternally. I will never leave you.
I'm sorry you are hurting and struggling through this and I won't throw out any cliches cuz I know they don't help. But I will say this. There is NO WOMAN stronger than the one I married. Only YOU can do this. You are amazing and you never give yourself any credit. You have overcome so much in your life and God is still using you as an example to other women and the teens at church. I'm so proud of you through all you have endured. Keep your chin up baby. You are doing fantastic. I love you so much.