Donna - Every RE I've gone to and IVF buddies I've had in LA have such strict bedrest rules. UGH!! I know some REs are letting you head back to work after 12 h, but not mine. I think I'll sneak in a shower tomorrow.
As far as the uterine cramping goes. I've been geting weird sharp twiges around my uterus too. It happens more when I stand up. But, I think its a good sign, because I had them with my bfp, and I felt absolutley nothing with the bfn. I figure it is a sign of uterine adapting to embies. Just take it easy even though you're at work doesn't mean you shouldn't be spoiled

Were getting our bfps soon.
Vlada - I used to live in Kirkland. It's such a cute little city. Feels almost likek a Village. I loved the Pancake House and we have a few down here in LA too. I could go for some now! I'm so sorry about your headaches. OUCH. I used cold packs on my head. Do you ever get headaches with your period? I wonder if it is an estrogen effect. i know progesteron can really cause bad ones, but that isn;t until later in your cycle. WHat usually helps them in the past?
BWHD - I'm so sorry to hear your news. Are they sure they can't reach your r ovary? What about another route like Charlie mentioned? Never feel bad about asking your RE about alternatives. They may not have experience wiht an abdominal rather than vaginal route, but know anoher who does. Still keeping all fingers and toes crossed for you.
Croella - THey'll get htere. They're jsut taking their sweet time. Sending you the folly fairy.
Susan - What are your instructions? My dh won't let me shower after hearing the "rules" from the RE. I have strict bed/couch rest with bathroom privileges. ANy funny feelings in your uterus?