Hey Ladies... I am still here... In fact, I TRIED to post TWICE but my computer was moving so slowly that I got logged off before I could get a respond window so I just quit trying (too tired and cranky)...
I agree with Vlada about the heart rates not being reliable in telling the genders but I will tell you my babies rates anyway - boy in the 140's and girl in either the 130's or the 150's (she seems to skip over the 140's) - the rates depend on movement really. When she's being a crazy mover its in the 150's and when not it's lower...
Update... I had an OB appointment scheduled for yesterday late morning but wound up calling her at 6:30am due to lack of sleep because of ALL NIGHT contractions AND really bad swelling in the face, hands and legs... She sent me into L&D and I had all the B/W I needed to check for pre-e and HELLP syndrome - all came out really well (Yeay!) so I think it may have been a reaction to the terbutaline (one of the side effects is water retention and apparently I have to be careful about too much water intake - weird I know). My problem as of late really is that I cannot eat!!! I HATE to eat because it makes me sick (EVERYTHING makes me sick- I have been throwing up everyday at least once). I feel better today because I finally slept BECAUSE I took a pepcid complete and 2 hours later I ate dinner and had NO acid reflux at all - wow!!! it was amazing that I only got up due to contractions and peeing (4xs) and NOT due to the acid reflux and puking in my sleep!!! But you can only take a maximum of two tablets a day and since I am pregnant I think even the one tablet is pushing it so I am only planning meals for the evening (well, late afternoon) and earlier in the day I am drinking chocolate milk (for calories and protein) and grain toast (for fiber) - its all I can muster... I am going to attempt a burger tonight (

) as I have wanted one for a long time!
My dad is coming to visit tomorrow - YEAY!!! He is putting together the cribs and doing some painting for me plus he will help me pick up the crib mattresses and some other odds and ends... He loves to eat out too so I hope to be able to go my fav restaurant. My son loves when he comes too. He will also be brining down a tall dresser that will match the changing table. I really need that extra dresser with twice as many clothes as I would have if it were only one. So I should be ready by the time the beebs come... which leads me to the WHEN... when will these little munchkins come?!?!?... hmmm...
I think CroElla will go first and then it will be really close between WC and me... My OB has NOT given me any dates (c-sec or induction) but she did say she will take me off the terbutaline at 36w (2 more weeks) and let me go on my own but take them at 38w if nothing has happened by then. Both babies are head down so a vaginal delivery should be in my future (I truly hope for that).
Kipatte - you are soooo correct about carrying a baby in your 40s. I have been very surprised by how very different this pregnancy is but also by how very different I feel about BEING pregnant. Like you, on the one hand I want it over and on the other hand I want to enjoy these babies growing inside of me... I figure that as long as I can rest a lot then I can try to get things done little by little but even in watching a good movie with my son and having some popcorn, which I used to relish as a great relaxation time, I am still uncomfortable through the whole thing...
Here are some physical facts... My feet are so swollen I can't get regular shoes on and my tie up shoes have to be really loose BUT I don't like having anything on my feet because they swell so bad that I have a constant pins and needles feeling in them. My thighs are so swollen (and everything else between the feet and thighs too if you're wondering) that I cannot bend my legs which makes putting on socks and shoes quite difficult... I am tired all the time and could sleep all day if I weren't so anxious about wanting to get things done (now that's funny

)... My vision is a little blurry which I hear happens due to fluid retention (yet now I am limiting my intake and its been getting better). I get terribly numb hands and fingers while sleeping and pain in my hands and shoulders sue to fluid build up (but once again its better as I am watching my intake - the terbulatine is just awful). My handwriting sucks as I have mild pregnancy induced carpal tunnel... I can now sleep on either my right or my left sides since baby girl has FINALLY pulled her feet out from under my liver!!! Yeay!!! Oh, its the little things that make us happy huh?
Lastly - my DH has been a little bit nicer but I am not falling for any manipulations. If he wants to ever be part of our lives ever again then he has a lot to do to prove his loyalty, honor, love etc... but something tells me his pride will prevent this... I pray for him all the time for HIS sake not for mine cause I will be just fine...
love you all...
xxxCocoa
1 son b. 1993 -TTC (again) for 12 years
BFP!-8/22-9dp5dt - 485 8/24-1272 8/27-4636
B/G TWINS!!! Due 4/30/08 Born Friday April 4th, 2008 at 36w 2d Baby girl A 6 lbs 7 oz Baby boy B 6 lbs 3 oz