I'm really down at the mo. I went for my baseline scan and bloods and when I phoned for the results I was told I'm not ready for stimming yet, so I have to carry on with burserelin and get tested again on friday.My scan was fine but my bloods weren't. I'm well disappointed.
Me 37, DH 53 Male & female factor
1st ICSI +ve, a daughter born 2001
2nd ICSI +ve, a son born 2006
Oh Susie .. I can understand your disappointment .. we're always, understandably, really eager to be able to move onto the next stage .. You'd think that Friday was the end of the earth though - it's only 2 days away !! Better to get your lining perfect, then you can happily stim away ! Best of luck for Friday ..
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Hey Kagome I'm scheduled for EC the same day so fingers crossed.
I go for my baseline scan and blood tomorrow - hopefully they'll be ok.
Susie, so sad to hear your news, hang on in there, it'll all work out. Rather be held back now and get a good result when everything is tip top for you. Take care.
eskavon xx
Just got back from my friend's party. Not a lot of people invited to the party except about 4 couples. Of course, out of the 4 couples, only me & DH were the ones without a baby! It was so hard to seem happy when deep inside I was hurting inside seeing them with their little ones, following them around and feeding them... The thing is we had gotten married before all of them and now 2 of the kid's there are turning two years old next month!
And then I had to hear comments like, "What are you two waiting for? " or "What, you have a 4 bedroom house?" So you guys have to make 3 babies!" Ugh! I couldn't believe how insensitive they were.... Ok I'm done venting...... now I feel much better!
Hope everyone's doin' ok. I'm so happy to hear Debra's +ve result! way to go Debra!!!
elleR
IVF/ICSI 4/05 ; m/c at 7wks
DIUI x 5 BFN =(
IVF/ICSI 7/06 BFP =)
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Hi Elle - we are also experience the same thing and the best is when people say 'just take a vacation, relax - it will happen'...I seriously want to scream at them about how stupid/ignorant they are! Or even better...is people also assume we don't want kids..so they say things like 'oh you two don't need to worry about university or saving for children's future.'
Sorry guys...major mood wings today...haven't seriously cried yet over the -ve...today is the day
Tracii, if today is the day for release, then let is all out. Tell people it's hayfever or something but don't bottle it up if you want to scream, find an empty copier room!
Is DH coming back today? when will you move to join him?
I am so sorry - it is awful when people don't know when to shut up. Do we have to walk around with a message on us saying "Yes, we do want children, so don't bl*^"y talk about it, ok!"
We got married 3.5 years ago and people are now coming out with some very painful comments. DH and I have thought about just telling them the truth, but I couldn't bear that - I don't see why we can't just get on with our lives without stupid comments
I hope that things get better for you both and one day very soon we can all shout about our very own new arrivals
Hello all....
Me again...worrying...
I am testing in a week but AF pains are still here...i think now they aren't going to go away...been here too many times not to recognise the signs....
My tummy hurts, back ache, boobs sore and hot flush in the morning, but that could be side effect of pessaries....Don't know....
i've had thoses pains since day 2 of ET and i cannot see it has worked....i don't fell like i'm going to bleed but probably will happen next week, i'm sure i won't make it til test day...
Sorry to be so pessimiste but cannot ignore the signs anymore...
Keep u posted, good luck to the rest of march/april budddies.
Luv
Delly
PMA to you and big hugs - sounds like you could use them right now.
Try and stay strong and optimistic - remember there is no such thing as a bad sign. A lot of the girls had the same symptoms as you and went on to a positive result so try and hang in there.
When we get the about time you to started isnt it or when are you planning on starting a family i always say 'it's not that easy' then they soon shut up, and if they dont i just say actually we cant we have been trying for 5 years and we are now having treatment. then they deffinatly shut up..
Many to cyber hugs to all Kerry