April/May Buddies??

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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jackoa21
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Post by jackoa21 »

Laura
I am so sorry.. Take some time for yourself.. I do not have the words to make this ok but I am praying for you and sending you the biggest hug I can..
hugs
Jackie
me 34 DH 34 1st ivf 06/06 + lost at 5 weeks
Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
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veronika
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Post by veronika »

Laura,

my heart goes out to you and your DH. Please stay strong, you are not alone in your grief.

Yours, Veronika
me: 31, DH: 43
TTC: 2.5 years
unexplained infertility
IVF#1 April/May 2006: BFN
endo-surgery July 2006, no endo after all
DaniaBB
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Post by DaniaBB »

Laura- I'm so sorry.Please take care of yourself as you deal with this grief. I'll say a prayer for you.

Big Hugs to you.
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vessi
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Post by vessi »

Laura,
I am so sorry :(
Take your time to grieve it. But stay strong and come back. You got PG once, it will happen again.
Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Vessi
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Xrayem
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Post by Xrayem »

Oh Laura - I'm so sorry. We are all here for you.
Thinking of you,
Em
TTC 5yrs - Unexplained Infertility
3xIUI's (April, June & Aug 06) - BFN,s
1st IVF - Oct 06 - Jasper & Finlay born 07/06/07
Natural preg - Addison Grace born 15/10/08
CarolynB
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Post by CarolynB »

Oh Laura Hun

I am so very very sorry for you. Just popped in before I start my day at work as did not get to the boards yesterday.

Sending you & your dh massive hugs.

I know that there is nothing that we can do to help you with the pain but we are here for you. You can rant or just be sad as we will totally understand.

Look after yourself and take time to grieve. We will be here when you are ready and need support.

Love Carolyn xxxxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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hope4l
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Post by hope4l »

6th of June is here

b/test today was a goodin but im not saying its a BFP as count is pretty low of 48 retest again on saturday so no congratulations till then

i was really resigned to a -tive

Hope
ME PCOS
DH MF
ICSI 04
FET -IVE
FET +IVE DD FEB 05
FET 26 MAY 06
TEST DATE 6 JUNE, retest 10 june
jackoa21
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Post by jackoa21 »

Hope41
I know this is easier said than done but try to stay positive.. :) :) :)
me 34 DH 34 1st ivf 06/06 + lost at 5 weeks
Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
Kennedy arrived 05/2007 and we are loving every moment...
CarolynB
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Post by CarolynB »

Hope

Let's just keep all our fingers & toes crossed that you will get good news on Saturday.

We are thinking of you & willing the numbers to rise.
Love Carolyn xxx

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Vess

Two beanies :D :D that is amazing. So now we have 2 X 2 sets of twins on this thread. You & Prissy.

You lucky lucky lady.
Carolyn xx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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LucyBucy
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Post by LucyBucy »

LauraLou - I am so so sorry, words fail me. My thoughts are with you and I'm sending you a big warm hug x
Age 30 DH 44
TTC 2 yrs
Male Factor Infertility
ICSI May 06 +ive
sarahface
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Post by sarahface »

Hello Ladies

Sadly i didnt get to the end of my 2WW as i started to bleed Sunday evening and heavy clotting. We are very very saddend. We went to our clinic today to discuss FET which we will fingers crossed be trying next month. Thank you everyone for you past words of encouragment and i would like to wish you all the very best, lots of baby dust and to those who are hanging on to their 2WW just hang in there and stay as positive as humanly possible. I shall be thinking of you and praying for you all and i shall pop back very soon.

LAURA, I AM DEEPLY SADDENED FOR YOU AND I HOPE AT SOME POINT YOU ARE ABLE TO COME BACK. IT'S NEVER THE END AND THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE EVEN THOUGH YOUR FAITH GETS BRUISED. SENDING YOU A BIG WARM HUG.

Take care everyone

Love and God Bless to you all xx
sarah xx

ME 26
DH 28
BLOCKED TUBES
1ST IVF APRIL/ 06 NEG
2ND IVF: FET START JULY/06??
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Post by LucyBucy »

Sarah - my heart goes out to you. Sending a big hug your way. Glad you're already taking action for your FET, I hope you'll stay with us. x
Age 30 DH 44
TTC 2 yrs
Male Factor Infertility
ICSI May 06 +ive
LucyBucy
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Post by LucyBucy »

Wow, I can't believe it, things seemed to be picking up in this group :(

I'm doing well, just ticking along ok - levels are good, I'm just living for each test day at the moment. I'm missing DH terribly too, 27 days until his return, but I guess you can't have it all...

Carolyn - glad the clinic info was of use to you - at a rough guess I think that the final figure will be around £7500 as each of my HCG tests is £40, not £30!!! Bit of a rip off but still, I think I'm getting what I pay for. I tried to go for acupuncture last night but the Dr Wu (cute name) said that my body was too weak and that I was to come back after my 12 weeks was up. I'm glad she was honest but I feel like I could do with a bit of relaxation! She said that I could buy some Pearl Powder which would give my babies beautiful skin. She said it was fine to take with other meds and has no side affects. Knowing nothing about Chinese medicine, I'm a bit suspicious - has anyone heard of this stuff before?

Em - I'm so glad your DH is staying with you for this cycle! What a difference it will make to your peace of mind, plus he can do all the cooking/cleaning/washing 8) Not surprised you're feeling apprehensive about starting again, but at least this time you know what to expect and your DH (and all of us!) will be here to support you.

Vess - Congrats on your twins!!!! Wow, how exciting for you! Now, lets see if I can get these right... my figures are... 10dp5dt = 85; 13dp5dt = 499; 15dp5dt = 1202. Seem v high to me so wondering if I'm going to have 2 too, am slightly nervous but keeping open mind...

Veronika - how's the PMA today? Have you got anything to distract yourself with? By the way, thanks for the info, its always good to have new points of view and sources of information - even if your brain does frazzle :wink:

Jackoa21 - we're getting there.. slowly.. wondering if time has slowed down for all of us as I can certainly feel it too..

Hope4l - my fingers are doubly crossed for you and a good strong BFP on Saturday.

Good luck & PMA to all, and special big hugs to LauraLou and Sarah xxx
Age 30 DH 44
TTC 2 yrs
Male Factor Infertility
ICSI May 06 +ive
jackoa21
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Post by jackoa21 »

Sarah
I am so sorry.. I wish I had the words to make this ok. Just take some time for you...

Lucy..just try to take this min by min for now.. (I know I should take my own advice) its much easier to give out than it is to take it..

hugs to all
me 34 DH 34 1st ivf 06/06 + lost at 5 weeks
Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
Kennedy arrived 05/2007 and we are loving every moment...
CarolynB
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Post by CarolynB »

Sarah

I am really very sorry for you. My heart goes out to you.

Sending you & dh big hugs.

I really do know what you feel like. But I can tell you that it does get easier to bear as the days pass. Honest.

Just take it a day at a time. Look after yourself and give yourself some treats too.

It is good news if you can start again that soon (I am being made to wait 3 months to do a FET) & it is great that you have some frosties.

We are here for you. Realise that you may not want to post for now but would be good if you wanted to stick around rather than join another thread. We'll miss you.
Love Carolyn xxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
Surrogacy/FET #8 - 15.10.2008 - BFP
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