Cycling In 2012 Board (formerly Fall/Winter 2011-2012)

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Patricia and Jayne-I said a prayer for you both before I got up this morning. Very happy to hear the embibabies are thriving and fertilizing well, soon you both will be pupo!

Anton- Thank you for updating us! I am thrilled everything with the P&G is going so well. :D You had me laughing so hard with visualizing how you handled the HR when they asked if you had been on any medication in the last 5 yrs. WOW glad they didn't make you do a physical and ask about all the marks on the belly. Anyway I am sooooo excited about your wedding planning...trust me dh call tell you I had everything planned out the night we got engaged, yep down to the boutineers. I so HOPE we can cycle around the holidays together it would be the most special Christmas to make our dreams come true!

Kynlee- Wow it seems so surreal soon you will be getting released to the obgyn, I know you are nervous but excited. It's a big milestone AND I'm cheering you all the way to the day you bring this baby home!

Nicole- You know I'll be stalking you on your beta tomorrow, I am praying hard over here and cannot wait to hear your news!!!! :D :D

AFM: Well I think I handled my coworker better then to be expected today. She opened with me this morning and came in starving so I knew she would be grouchy. Therefore before we opened the doors for business I took her to Target where she got a Starbucks coffee (she paid for her own coffee of course) but I treated her to Pumpkin bread. As we were walking back she told me about her boyfriend being an alcoholic and almost leaving him 3 days ago to move in her mom back in Atlanta, Ga. They had a fight about his drinking how he's never going to amount to anything, obviously not changing his ways, been this way for 2 yrs and she's been trying to change him ever since. Said he hasn't helped her pack one single box to get everything moved over to his mother's, obviously he's not very thrilled about that! She said she almost left him 3 days ago but thought she would give him one last chance....(This girl has been homeless before but she was because she left her first husband since he physically abused her- she said.) She tells me her boyfriend isn't like that but he needs to carry his load and be more financially supportive. All I could think was oh no this is getting worse and worse all the time. Here she is in her second trimester and now thinking about leaving the guy who got her pregnant. I pretty much didn't bring up anything else but she did markdowns today and worked with the merchandise. She didn't sell though so I had to pass off customers to her but it was irritiating that she stayed in her own world today. As she was leaving to go home she said I don't know what I'm going to do...I said well you could count your blessings that at least you are able to be pregnant. She said I know I know...but its like a double-edge sword. She said I can't even take care of myself. I couldn't say anything more and walked away. She left..I spoke briefly to my boss who sill feels sorry for her that she makes bad decisions...I jumped in and said however she is the one making them and she needs to grow up and be responsible. We agreed as for work she needs to learn to leave her problems at the door..Of course she wants to be there for her but at the same time this has turned into a mountain and she really needs professional help at this point. Long story short I don't think she'll be working with us much longer esp when she starts to see her hours being cut. Ultimately my boss said she will cut her hours that if she doesn't start to show an improvement in her behavior especially with the customers.
Married 13 yrs
36, unexplained
1 natural pg- m/c at 7 wks
(2010-2012) 4 IUIs, 2 IVFs
FET cycle 2/25/2013
Beta: 95, 390, 1361
3/27 HR 140
4/10 HR 184
4/17 Released from RE
6/21 Found out we are having a BOY!
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Good for you, Christy. It def sounds like you managed time with her well.
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Antonia: you bring colour literally and metaphorically!! Lol, no I wont be poas-ing :D im thrilled you are getting married - fantastic news. And wonderful news on tne ivf and the job -wow you must be on such a high :D

Christy: I am actually pup - transfer was yesterday :D well done on handling your co-worker. What is such a shame for her is that she doesn't realize how much support she has in work and how u usual that is.

Nicole, thank you. It sounds like the beta is just a formality at this stage which is fantastic!! Cant wait to hear :D

Kay: how are you doing?

Madam x: thank you :D

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Nicole: I cant believe im 8 hours ahead of you!!!!

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Patricia- lol I was so excited that both fertilized that I missed out that you transfered them, it all happened so fast! Wonderful news, now get plenty of rest, these babies are now home in a loving environment. Take care, I will be checking in with you. :D :D

Nicole- Thinking of you this morning...THIS IS YOUR BIG DAY! :D :D

Leora- Have fun at your friend's wedding, cannot wait to see your dress you got online knowing you'll look beautiful today!

AFM: Trying to decide what to do on my off day, haven't had one by myself in a while since dh's classes kicked off this week. Yard is too wet for the surveryer to come but we got the appraisal done yesterday. My mom asked me last night when we're planning to start treatment, told her as soon as we get our mortgage refinanced and left it like that. I'm very calm right now- decided everything is going to happen in God's own timing. Last night I had a dream that dh got a job here locally working with our credit union. I need to tell him about that, yes when one door closes another one will open.
I love this..."Until God opens up one door for you, PRAISE HIM in the hallway!"
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1 natural pg- m/c at 7 wks
(2010-2012) 4 IUIs, 2 IVFs
FET cycle 2/25/2013
Beta: 95, 390, 1361
3/27 HR 140
4/10 HR 184
4/17 Released from RE
6/21 Found out we are having a BOY!
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Nicole~ I can barely handle my excitement waiting for your beta results. Hope all is well today. Did you transfer one or two?

Ninde~ so happy to hear you have a grade 1. I have never done the suppositories rectally. The last two IVF cycles, I have done the vaginal supp/oral combo but this time I decided to try the IM shots. So far it's going well except my butt feels bruised. I got so sick of the leaking mess that I decided a bruised butt would be a change. How are you feeling? Will you test before your beta?

Pocos~ the money part of IVF is so overwhelming. We have spent over 40 grand so far. Ouch. If I had a baby to show for it, it would be easier to cope with the loss of money. I think that is why our clinic felt so guilty and gave us one for free. I just really hope it works this time because I'm not sure we can afford to do it again. I hope your DH's insurance comes through for you.

Amy~ congrats on the boy/girl combo. So cool. The other day when the stars came out, my sister asked my son what he wanted to wish for... He said, "a brother and a sister but don't tell my mom". Broke my heart. I would be so happy to give him siblings. I found his comment interesting because we don't really talk too much about it. There is a boy/girl twin combo in my son's tennis class and they are so cute to each other. Very happy for you.

Lyd~ hiring a babysitter is so stressful. The first nanny I hired for my son, I fired before she even started because I had a bad feeling. The babysitter/nanny I have now is so incredible. I'm paying her to stay around just in case we end up pregnant. It is such a relief when you find someone that you can trust. Good luck.

Waitingkay~ The twin thing is so hard. I would love to carry twins but I know a singleton is safer. I can understand your torn feelings. It must be a nice feeling to see both hearts beating.

Anton~ I am thrilled to hear the job is treating you well. I had to laugh at your medicine/hr meeting. I went to the doctor the other day and she asked if I was taking any meds and I just said no. There was no way in hell I was going to explain all of the meds... And big congrats on getting married. Our anniversary is in Sept as well. I feel like good things are coming your way.

Madame~ I was excited to hear your comment about that it is rare for all eggs to fertilize. It made me feel better for some reason. Thanks

Sunshine~ glad it went better with your co-worker. It sounds like she makes really poor decisions. Enjoy your day off.

AFM~ just waiting for the phone call to see how the embryos are dividing. I have always done a day 5 transfer but I'm secretly hoping for a day 3 transfer simply because it will be different and day 5 transfers have never worked for us.
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M/c 21wks 12 oz DD
Jan 08 DS
IUIx3 all BFN
ClomidX2 1natural; 1IUI both BFN
IVF#1Apr 11 BFP OHSS Low hcg u/s 6w3d; blighted ovum:D&C.
IVF#2Nov BFN
IVF#3Apr 12 Failed ED cycle
IVF#4Beta30510dp5dt 62712dp5dt own eggs; 2 heartbeats
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Jayne- we put in two.

Ninde- I know! It's hard to believe you are so far ahead of me in time.

Blood has been drawn. Now I wait. Hoping for a good number.
Nicole 35, DH 42
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FET 2 BFP twins, M/C 7 weeks.
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Praying for you Nicole!
Me: 29
DH: 32, Male Factor
4 Failed IUI
IVF #1 - BFN
FET #1 - BFP!!! DD born Sept 2010
IVF #2 - Chemical
Next: Work on improving DH and my fertility while saving up for next round. Why does something that we want so badly have to also be so expensive?
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Hi everyone,

I have been away on mini-vaca so I haven't been able to log in. I see lots of positive news!

blueeyed- Praying fro a great # for you! can't wait to hear!

nindine- great to hear about your 2 little embabies! Hoping for a BFP for you!

OMG I"m overwhelmed so much to catch up on! lol

I had a blood drawn monday I think lol and it came back at 1700 so it rising perfectly I have my first u/s Wednesday (gasp!) things are mowing along so quickly can't believe I'll be almost 7wks by then!
IVF #1- BFN
IVF #2- BFP!!!!

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FET#1- BFN
IVF#3 August- BFP!!!
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First beta is 90.
Nicole 35, DH 42
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FET 2 BFP twins, M/C 7 weeks.
FET 3 BFP, chemical beta high 81
IVF 4 BFP, chemical beta high 707
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Blue- woo hoo! What was your beta with the twins and with your other FET? I think you got your beta earlier than I will be getting mine. I get mine 2 full weeks after my transfer and I had a 3 day transfer.
Me- 40 (Tubal),DH- 46 (MF)
DS- 20 & 18 (previous marriage)
IVF#1- Aug 2011-Chemical/MC at 4 1/2 weeks
IVF#2- Dec 2011- M/C at 8w1d
IVF#3- April 2012- BFN
IVF#4- Aug 2012 DE 8/17 ET, beta 8/31- BFN(have 8 frosties)
FET#1-March 11,2013, beta 3/22-
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Nicole: congratulations, that's wonderful!! Are you ok, you sound a bit flat?

Christy: what did you decide to do on your day off?

Jayne: so far surprisingly the suppositories rectally are going quite well! I never thought I would say that!!! They seem to absorb better!! Have you had a call yet?

Dys: I was just wondering today where you were? :D how was your break? And thank you!! That's wonderful news about your beta!!

LauraN: im 15 days after transfer for my beta!! When is yours?

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Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
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Nicole~ Woot Woot! Yay.

AFM~ just got a call about the 7 embryos and they want to see 2-4 cells today. 6 of my 7 are 4 cell and 1 is 2 cell. 4 of the 7 are good quality and 3 of them are fair. They want to hold on a 3dt for now and possibly do a 4 or 5 day. They will call me again tomorrow. I have a really good feeling this time so I really hope I keep getting good news.
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M/c 21wks 12 oz DD
Jan 08 DS
IUIx3 all BFN
ClomidX2 1natural; 1IUI both BFN
IVF#1Apr 11 BFP OHSS Low hcg u/s 6w3d; blighted ovum:D&C.
IVF#2Nov BFN
IVF#3Apr 12 Failed ED cycle
IVF#4Beta30510dp5dt 62712dp5dt own eggs; 2 heartbeats
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Patricia- you are sweet. I'm fine. I am exhausted and crampy but otherwise feel ok. I'm a bit annoyed today because the drywall man showed up but the contractor hadn't told us he was scheduled. We had a pipe burst last year and have had a hole in the ceiling of the downstairs area. We are now getting it fixed. I had things I wanted to do today and being chained to my house was not one of them.

LauraN- my beta with the twins was 136. They were a 5dt on an FET. I don't know if there is any difference in numbers for FET vs fresh. The dpo count is the same.

Jayne- your embies sound great! Good luck!
Nicole 35, DH 42
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FET 2 BFP twins, M/C 7 weeks.
FET 3 BFP, chemical beta high 81
IVF 4 BFP, chemical beta high 707
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Ninde- my beta is the 31st. I will be 14 post transfer, but it would be a total of 17 past ovulation(egg retrieval).
Me- 40 (Tubal),DH- 46 (MF)
DS- 20 & 18 (previous marriage)
IVF#1- Aug 2011-Chemical/MC at 4 1/2 weeks
IVF#2- Dec 2011- M/C at 8w1d
IVF#3- April 2012- BFN
IVF#4- Aug 2012 DE 8/17 ET, beta 8/31- BFN(have 8 frosties)
FET#1-March 11,2013, beta 3/22-
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