going crazy in 2ww......

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99
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Post by 99 »

We got a BFN today too and are completely devastated. We tried not to get too excited but you can't help it, you know?
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Ilithyia
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Post by Ilithyia »

hi Gecko Girl and 99,

It's looking like I'm along the same road you are. I had my test this AM, but definitely AF has already arrived. At the beginning, somehow things felt really good, and then for two days (8-9 days after my 2 day transfer) I had lots of cramps that felt oddly different from normal pre-AF. Right on, I thought -- implantation do your thing! Then nothing.

I took heart from Ghost's posts that actually there are no definite sympotoms, but in the last two days I had the oddest feeling that nothing was happening anymore. Then AF started and I'm sure. Of course I know there is always the slimmest of chances that I'm wrong and maybe the beta will say differently, but I really am sure.

Feeling the need to be proactive in some way, I just left a voicemail for my RE asking whether (assuming beta comes back BFN) I should stop the Progesterone supps cold turkey, or gradually. I heard gradually somewhere on the site, but am not sure if that was for BFNs, BFPs, or both...

Anyone have any advice?

Meanwhile, I know there are another few folk such as Anchor Aunty testing today -- my hope is that I took the statistical hit for you today and that you're all BFPs!!! It'll make the day brighter to hear that some of us made it through!!!
Anna
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ME 39 DH 50 Rev Vasectomy 2004 ttc since
1st IVF OCT06 - ICSI >> unfertilized
2nd IVF FEB07 - ICSI >> 2 2-days settling in
Beta Test 1/22...
geckogirl
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Post by geckogirl »

99 and Ilithyia - I am so sorry about your BFN. It is so hard and I know just how you feel. I keep telling myself that my time will come. Keep your hopes up and take some time to relax and connect with DH.
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FET - August 2009

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