I know it's easier said than done but try and have a relaxing night, a nice bath, some chocolate (always helps!) and an early night
Having read loads of posts on here it just proves your body can play tricks on you and what you think are AF symptoms might not be, sore boobs can be a good thing but people have said theirs stopped being sore, they thought the worst and still got a +ve!
So good luck, sending lots of PMA to you here's hoping you get a BFP tomorrow
Joanne
xxx
me 34 - dh 39
ttc 4 yrs
2 ivf -ve
1 ivf Aug 05 +ve, miscarried 5.5 wks
To anyone not hearing the news they longed for - So sorry to hear of your - it's so hard to hear that news even when you think you already knew it hadn't worked. I know it's easier to say, but that awful immediate feeling of despair will go away in time. Give yourself time and really treat yourself with lots of things you've been denied (incase you might have been) - it will start to look a bit brighter soon. Don't worry if you need some extra help though - I had to talk to a counsellor after my second negative ICSI in Feb and it helped soooo much. I feel so much brighter and stronger now and I want to spread that message - you really will be okay and you will get through this xxxxCherylxxxx
Third ICSI July 2005 BFP and praying it continues!! 6, 8, 12, 13(Nuchal) 20, 25 and 28 week scans successful! Emily Ann Cane born 8.4.06 - more beautiful than we could have imagined
Minnow,
#&@*^#$@
There are no words for what you must be feeling.
I agree with others that I hope I am as strong as you when my turn comes for bad news.
Remember, Brooke Shields needed 10 rounds to get her baby!
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
Hello All,
Its soooo sad to see so many unhappy faces on this thread. My heart goes out to you all. I know it's hard but try to think about getting ready for the next time.
Good luck for today Suz - I'm looking to you to change the luck on this thread.
Take care all,
Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive
hi everybody,
thanks to Joanne, Wendy, Debbie and the rest for your comfort.I am trying to think ahead and concentrate on my studies and think calmly a to what I can do next.I hope i pass my exam unlike the ivf cycle.I am trying to schedule my exam for the middle of march and take my mind of this ivf.
Wish Sue all the best.Here test is today.Hope her's turns +ve. I do agree with all of you saying it looks bad to see so many crying faces on the forum.
wish you all the best. I better start with my studies and take my mind of this problem(atleast for a few hours).
love
raji
again thanks to you all for your immediate response and console.I wish I saw this site long time back
just wanted to say the sun is out and it's beautiful here with all the snow. Went for a walk with the doggies and thought of you all, my heart goes out to you. I remember how I felt when our IUI went pear-shaped, but I got over it. If I'd had this forum would have had the courage to move on much sooner. You are all so brave.
Love and kisses to you all
Julie from Germany
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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I'm so sorry for all you girls who got -ives, its really hard when this happens. Give yourselves some time, relax, endulge in the things you haven't been able to have and spoil yourselves. As they say time is a great healer and as each day goes by you do get better and you start to look forward to the next time.
I got my -ive in February was was completely devastated, I felt so empty, but once I got my head back to where it should be I started to feel much better. I have my next treatment booked for April, I;'ve had a skan and everything is fine. In the meantime to take my mind off it I've booked a real pampering holiday for DH and myself (he's paying) over Easter, some hot sunshine I can't wait.
Look after yourselves and one we will all get there.