Hi Em!
I think it would be great to be cycle buddies! That will be a great help to me especially this being my first IUI. Today, the 5th, is day 7 of my cycle so we're really close, that's great.
I'm really sorry that you haven't gotten pregnant yet. You would think that if you both are normal, having an IUI would have great results, no problem. Maybe this time....my prayers are with you..
I am currently taking Clomid 100 mg/day for 5 days. I only have 1 day left to take since I mistakedly took it a day early. I called the nurse and she said that would be ok. That was a big relief.....
I haven't had any side effects/symptoms so far with Clomid. I had taken it a few years ago to enhance our chances for about 3 months. I didn't have any problems with it.
On cycle day 11, the 9th, I start using the OPK (I think that's right) to check for ovulation. The doc said that as soon as I get a + to call the office and to be ready to come in immediately for the procedure. So, I have no clue what day the IUI will be on. All I know is that me and DH will have to be ready to fly out the door on that morning. I'm assuming they will do my follie scan that day. I don't recall him mentioning that.
What about this HCG shot??? Doc didn't mention that. I don't mind shots but I do want to be aware if I'm getting one...

Do they always do these when you have an IUI? What does it do?
When I first met with my doc, I asked if we had the option to do the IVF instead. With my thinking....if my DH's sperm are weak, this would be the best route. He said we still had a good chance with IUI. So we compromised on 1 IUI, then the IVF next. We'll see.... The clinic's stats look the same for both, in the 30% range for my age.
If our IUI procedures go ok, when will they test us to see if it worked?