Thanks for all the support, just in case some of you hadn't realised I'm a spy in the camp: a man among what seems to be a predominantly female forum
However, much of what's being discussed is similar to our situation: my wife and I are in our first ever try, and I just can't take the emotional pressure of having to chill out all the time. I'm at work during the day (I work from home) but my wife's got time off, so I get a bit worked up and have no way of letting of steam. I'm terrified that when I do get worked up I'm ruining our chances. Am I the only one who feels like this? Everyone's being so supportive of my wife but I feel totally alone and isolated, with nowhere to turn. I'd really appreciate some friendly advice and moral support (although feel free to tell me just to pull myself together and bite my lip!).
weclome , no its important to let of steam both DH and I work from home so I can identify with what your saying . YOur weclome to stay around but you might be interested in www.ivfconnections.com they have a mens bulletin board where you would certainly give you a different perspective from what doea on here.
