Thank you to everyone who has welcomed me to the forum. You have alrready helped me by letting me know there are women in the same situ. as I am. Thanks to loobyloo for the break down on terminology, I thought I was losing the plot. I stayed online until late last night but everyone seemed very quiet, do you all log off early or have I not got the hang of this yet. It's great to see so many people commuticating about such a delicate subject. i remember trying to explain IVF to my brother and ended up saying "most people just need each other to get pregnant, but I need a hospital room 3 doctors and a couple of nurses" He didn't see the funny side. There is something I have noticed and that is that I am not allowed a sense of humour although my opinion is slowly changing. Does anyone have family that they feel jelous of because tey get pregnant at the drop of a hat? It's terrible is'nt it. I am also god mother to loads of babies as everyone wants to make sure that I will be a mum in some form and I just cannot sya no when I see those liitle bundles of joy. Especialy when they chuck up all over me. Great fun eh, and we want this every day, are we nuts???