When i first found this site, i was looking for my dh as being our's is male factor I thought he would benefit more, but he was not keen on posting, happy to read but didnt want to comunicate.
He still doesn't, I speak to everyone who'll listen about how i feel, but men just dont!!
When he goes out with the boys it's all beer, footie, sport and birds.!!!
Do u know what i mean.
Luckily he does speak to me and he's open with me about how he feels but in front of everyone else its an act.
Thats men for ya x x
any dh out there?
Hi, im happy to talk. I log on pretty much each night.
Im Tillys DH. She is 7 weeks pregnant. Scan last Thursday revealed one tiny heartbeat. Due date is 26th May 06
Announced the news to our families today, which was superb. Weve been married for 9 years, and everyone, (5 brothers and 2 sisters between us)although they have never asked seemed stunned and ecstatic.
I go out "with the lads" each Friday and there is NO CHANCE i could ever discuss this with any of them. These are long standing friends but some things are better not discussed.
Ive endured the "when are you gonna have kids " banter, even as recent as one Friday night out during downreggin, when 2 of the lads, before i could answer, shouted "HE'S FIRING BLANKS" - However, this mocking type of banter is just lads stuff and no offence was taken, but i thought " if only they knew the anguish of TTC # 1 for 24 months.
On another note, there doesnt seem to be many blokes on here, so im here to represent them all.
Hope we all speak again
Yours
Tillys DH
Im Tillys DH. She is 7 weeks pregnant. Scan last Thursday revealed one tiny heartbeat. Due date is 26th May 06
Announced the news to our families today, which was superb. Weve been married for 9 years, and everyone, (5 brothers and 2 sisters between us)although they have never asked seemed stunned and ecstatic.
I go out "with the lads" each Friday and there is NO CHANCE i could ever discuss this with any of them. These are long standing friends but some things are better not discussed.
Ive endured the "when are you gonna have kids " banter, even as recent as one Friday night out during downreggin, when 2 of the lads, before i could answer, shouted "HE'S FIRING BLANKS" - However, this mocking type of banter is just lads stuff and no offence was taken, but i thought " if only they knew the anguish of TTC # 1 for 24 months.
On another note, there doesnt seem to be many blokes on here, so im here to represent them all.
Hope we all speak again
Yours
Tillys DH