Daughter going through IVF, how can I help

[mema]

Hi,
Iam new to ALL of this, my daughter is going through IVF, second round, first one cancelled. She is so distraught, as a mother Iam going through such pain to see MY baby hurting so badly. I am trying to stay postive for her , I find myself going through this roller coaster with her and son in law. Ive been reading alot of ALL you girls threads ( as I believe there called) and you ALL are so brave, I give you ALL my blessings, if anyone can give me adive on the right things to comfort my daughter I would greatly appreciate it.

[JustinesBaby]

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[mema]

Justine,

Thank you so much for your advice, I will give her all the tlc she needs,and hope this next cycle will bring her the baby she so deeply wants.
Good luck with your pregancy and your angel Sopie, what a beautiful name. May the Lord be with you. Will keep in touch.

[connor]

Hi there, my mom is back in South Africa and I know that when I went through my first cylce of IVF the best thing she did for me was listen and offer me support, even though she was so far away. I am thinking about doing my second IVF using our frozen embryos, and I know that she will again be there to listen to me even though she is so far away. PS lots of hugs too.
Bev
IVF 1 cycle, unexplained infertility

[mema]

Bev,

Thanks for your help, I really appreicate everyones advice, it is a great comfort, you must miss your mom being near by, Iam sure she misses being near you , keep up the great work, and all you ladies are in my thoughts and prayers. Looking for daughter to start 2nd cycle soon.

[M'BA]

Mema,

What a blessing you are to your daughter. She must appreciate all your love and support very much. It's a tough road for the whole family...just keep the faith, and know that it will turn out the way it is suppose to!!

[mema]

M BA

Your thoughtfulness is soooo appreicated, what a blessing you are to your mom and family, yes, keeeping the faith is so very important isnt it. You will be in my prayers.

[M'BA]

Reading your article brought tears to my eyes. What an interesting journey this is...truly a character building experience! Thank you for the prayers!!!!

[jstrandlund]

Mema
Your daughter is so lucky to have such a supportive mother! The very best thing my mom has done for me is just let me vent. Sometimes she even gets angry with me and to know that know matter what I am feeling and how I chose to express it that day, my mom is right there with me is awesome. In the past my mom has surprised me by meeting me at the clinic for various tests and it great knowing that while I am having proceedures done that my mom is with my husband. Please wish your daughter luck and let her know that if she would like more support to try this website. The girls on her are awesome!!

[mema]

Mema
Your daughter is so lucky to have such a supportive mother! The very best thing my mom has done for me is just let me vent. Sometimes she even gets angry with me and to know that know matter what I am feeling and how I chose to express it that day, my mom is right there with me is awesome. In the past my mom has surprised me by meeting me at the clinic for various tests and it great knowing that while I am having proceedures done that my mom is with my husband. Please wish your daughter luck and let her know that if she would like more support to try this website. The girls on her are awesome!!

Jill.
Thank you so much for your response, since Ive been on this site my daughter has actually been on, and I really believe it has helped her tremenously. Thank you to ALL of you lovely ladies for making us both feel so welcomed. Good luck to everyone make the Lord bless you all. :

[mema]

Mema
Your daughter is so lucky to have such a supportive mother! The very best thing my mom has done for me is just let me vent. Sometimes she even gets angry with me and to know that know matter what I am feeling and how I chose to express it that day, my mom is right there with me is awesome. In the past my mom has surprised me by meeting me at the clinic for various tests and it great knowing that while I am having proceedures done that my mom is with my husband. Please wish your daughter luck and let her know that if she would like more support to try this website. The girls on her are awesome!!

Jill.
Thank you so much for your response, since Ive been on this site my daughter has actually been on, and I really believe it has helped her tremenously. Thank you to ALL of you lovely ladies for making us both feel so welcomed. Good luck to everyone make the Lord bless you all. :

[jemima]

Hi mema...

I got my BFN 2 days ago. When i told my mom about the news, i also told for my 2nd cycle i want her to be with me on 2WW. (I did IVF aboard so will the next cycle). 2WW is hard. So many negative think came. I thought it would be easier if my mom came n be on my 2 WW. She said okay directly without thinking

Good luck. You daughter very blessed to have a great mom like you. God bless you n family

Luv, Jemma

[mema]

Jemma,

Iam so glad that your mom can be with you for your next cycle, I believe its so important to have as much support as possible at a time like this.
My daughter and I are very close, and I couldnt dream of her going through this without myself and her family. Jemma Iam so sorry about your BFN, I will put you on my prayer list. And I have to admit I love the promise you use and the end of your thread Luke 11 9:10
Take care and thank you for your response. Mema

[jemima]

[mizma]

hi Mema,

Your daughter is very lucky to have you near. My mother is a thousand miles away (literaly in another continent). I am very close to her and through all my problems in life I had my mom protecting me. I just can't bring mysef to tell her, I don't want to worry her. She already knows that I'm not ok (a mother can always tell) but I tell her it's the fact that I currently moved to another country. She even called me on the day of my ER during a time and day that she never calls. I think a mother always knows when her child is not ok. Just be there for your daughter and believe me that is a lot.