BarbD - transfers are done awake. It's quick and absolutely painless. There's more time spent on prepping you than the actual transfer.

MeloP - pls don't feel isolated and alone if DH can't go with you. Just think about the fact that when you leave the clinic, there won't be you alone. it would ...

siouxsie, i had sex the night before (or was it 2 nights before) my FET transfer. i had a BFP! so now we are secretly pleased that we don't know whether it was one of the transferred embies or our natural efforts.

DH is especially pleased.