just a quick note to let you all know I got the call and it's over. BFN. I'm pretty devastated but at work so doing my damnest just to plow through. I can't let it out or it won't stop.

DH and I started the grieving process last night when I did my last test. I don't want to say anymore or it will ...

hi all: 14dpt and just got a BFN on one of those evils sticks. i held out yesterday and didn't test, but just wanted to today on the off chance...i think it's over for me, I really do. ugh, how do I prepare for the phone call when I'm at work? I don't know how I'll handle it. please send me good ...

katie: wow. was a crazy, amazing day you have had. unbelievable. the emotional high and lows of the post alone were so great - i can only imagine what living through it was like. the heartbreak of no eggs - to the cost of donor - to the forced breather of breakfast - to the gift of these embryos ...

NOOOO! I'm so sorry to hear about today's BFNs.

Franny: I echo everyone else's thoughts - you have a great attitude and good for you for getting right back in there. You make it so easy to be hopeful. And I have no doubt it will work for you. Besides, look at this crew you have rooting for you ...

good luck to the beta sisters tomorrow!!

katie : I'm stumped. But rooting for your 4 embies. I have no doubt you're smarter than your RE, but let's give him the benefit of the doubt and trust the trigger will work as planned.

jacqueline yay girl! doubled!

ashley: i'm sorry you had a rough ...

jacqueline : Congrats! That's wonderful. I'm so happy for you and look forward to reading a big double tomorrow. Yes, I know it's bad to POAS at 10pdt! I know! But here's my explanation: every time I've done a cycle - be it IUI or IVF, I've gotten AF on Day 12. 5 times: Day 12 every time. That's ...

franny I'm right there with you. 10dp3dt and I tested for the first time this morning: BFN. Man, that'll set your PMA back, won't it. Crap. Sigh.

and I hope I wasn't too negative for everyone last night - it's just where I was at 'reality'-wise, but I'm not trying to be a downer for anyone else ...

and Patricia ! I'm sorry this is so difficult. That it doesn't work out the way we want and we don't always understand why. I can only say that I understand. And for what it's worth, I think there's something special about having the opportunity to share your fears and frustrations so openly and ...

wow, i'm really overwhelmed reading the posts since yesterday. not just the number of them - but how quickly things are feeling...real. i've been doing a great job of remaining oblivious to the time, the non-symptoms, and the emotions since Saturday, but now reading all your updates, my oblivion has ...

good morning guys.

nothing new going on over here. had my transfer over a week ago now and I still have 8 more days until my beta! do i have the longest wait ever? over the weekend all my symptoms went away, so this week should be interesting. I'm hoping it's easier than week one. I do plan to POAS ...

hi guys - it's been two days and I feel like this is a real hen party! all the newcomers (welcome!) and pages of support and confessions and updates and frustrations - this could become the most popular thread yet. i love it. i feel like we're on the brink of a wave of BPFs.

rlk: sorry your BFP ...

marci: I'm so sorry you're feeling down, hon. that really sucks that the RE didn't call you...the least they can do is set and MEET an expectation like a phone call. you're not being whiny. i'm pissed just reading the post. just take it one day at a time. and definitely squeak tomorrow!

es: I ...

well here I am at 4:45am unable to sleep so may as well say hello to everyone. yesterday was pretty non-eventful apart from the sore bum and constipation but i got a heating pad and I think last night's PIO shot actually went off w/o a hitch. also got some fiber which i'm hoping will 'relax' me ...

oh my gosh - you can see how crazy i am about time passing, I said I'm 3dpt and i'm not - I'm only 2dpt! Yikes!

hi all. here i am 3dpt and time is going tooooo sloooowly. I'm getting a little obsessive about looking for symptoms like i do EVERY TIME and there are no symptoms to be had at this stage beyond the progesterone.

Laurie, Jacqueline, Kim : How are you guys feelin' today? Cramps? Tired? Big boobs ...