Discussion forum for those who had completed their IVF treatments without a successful outcome and are seeking other options such as adoption, surrogacy etc.
Hi folks,
We are new here..It's great to know this forum.
We have been through 2 IVFs...both failed...the last IVF was only days ago...we had 3 grade A embryos transferred but they did not survive...we still have a frozen embryo...any suggestion on what we should do?
We started to loose our trust on IVF....
PS:
How many times a woman can do IVF?
Any side effect of having multiple IVFs?
So sorry to hear of your very recent sad news. I also had 2 failed cycles and so I remember all too well, the despair felt. My gut reaction at the time was to have a third attempt, and how soon could we start? It was as if I had to throw myself into it again, to keep busy. The clinic in our case stopped us from trying again. All sorts of reasons. Left me devastated.
I think it's still very soon after, to be making any firm decisions as to how many attempts etc. You should maybe take some time to come to terms with your last two results. You have a glimmer of hope in that you have a frozen embryo. This should be discussed with your clinic as to your chances based on your last cycle.
Don't rush into anything, talk it through and take some time for yourselves. And most of all, don't give up hope. Your dreams can, and will come true one day, somehow.
Take care, thinking of you x
Me 29, DH 31, ttc since 2000.
1 abd IVF, 2 failed ICSI's
Turned to adoption to make our dreams come true.
Now proud parents of a beautiful 2 yr girl and are so very lucky!
Thanks Sally!
You have lifted our spirit up!
Our doc has reccomended us to go with the frozen embryo.
As we do not want to miss any chance...we will try it..
Warmest regards,
Notski
